Repulsive and Regressive - Page 3

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

Brilliant post .

@bold - like politics is the last refuge of scoundrels, moral outrage is the last refuge of hypocrites.

I am not supporting one n degrading another one here, what's wrong is wrong for everyone. In any kinda relationship using physicality to make another one submissive should not be encouraged. That too on tv.

Originally posted by: hmjustwatching

Sana is okay with all of this because they're pretty good friends now. Check in the earlier episodes, Sid has always respected her space. I feel that as long as the girl says okay, its fine.

As for the other situations: Asim-Himanshi and Paras-Mahi. Both girls have time to time expressed their discomfort with the guys actions. Now that is where an issue should be raised.

Earlier also in a episode that lipstick smearing looked forced.

Mahi n himanshi should also raise there voice, for once play women card where its needed.

One should know to demarcate between what is pleasure and pain and a woman’s response to both and their body language. Sana has been enjoying it. Obviously her idea of pleasure and enjoying male attention conflicts with the TM’s . That’s fine, but judging her for her choice is policing. Single men and women flirt in multiple ways. It’s for them to decide what crosses their own limits. Ofcourse, if there is actual weeping or other signs of resistance or continued distancing or signs of physical or psychological abuse, it’s something else. Here it’s a girl enjoying the attention of the man she loves in a way she likes. Leave it at that.

Okay, so since we have people advocating for what Sana thinks and feels, please let both of them know that they can do whatever the hell they want with each other but at the comfort of their own homes OR BB shouldn't air it. Don't do it on national tv where a certain part of the audience is uncomfortable watching it. Simple.

Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

Okay, so since we have people advocating for what Sana thinks and feels, please let both of them know that they can do whatever the hell they want with each other but at the comfort of their own homes OR BB shouldn't air it. Don't do it on national tv where a certain part of the audience is uncomfortable watching it. Simple.

That said, I don’t think we shall have very many scenes like this either. It was circumstantial yesterday and a critical day in the relationship. Screening couldn’t have been obviously avoided.

Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

Okay, so since we have people advocating for what Sana thinks and feels, please let both of them know that they can do whatever the hell they want with each other but at the comfort of their own homes OR BB shouldn't air it. Don't do it on national tv where a certain part of the audience is uncomfortable watching it. Simple.

If there is any content on your tv screen that you are not comfortable watching - you either stop watching or complain to the complaints section of the broadcaster.

I am not sure why Sana fans have to be involved in this process😆

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Would have, but the same people don’t seem to have an issue with make out initiated at a frequently verbally resistant engaged girl by a flirtatious guy. And then it’s a matter of double standards and the argument fails. And I don’t intend to imply that you don’t have issues with the latter, but a large percentage of the “certain part of the audience” you mention are a sample few from here who are also the same ones who have been ridiculing Sana herself since the show’s inception, flinging abuse at her and asking for her to be evicted. And then, it becomes selective opinionation and the rationale turns suspect. I personally don’t like some HMs. I take it as catering to diverse audience interests. That’s all. And Sidnaaz, whether we like it or not are a TRP driving couple and that would factor into what is being received and what is not and what is screened and what is not.

That said, I don’t think we shall have very many scenes like this either. It was circumstantial yesterday and a critical day in the relationship. Screening couldn’t have been obviously avoided.

See now this has become a group vs group thing, but hear me out.

I also feel like Asim is being a little too persistent with Himanshi, the way he keeps flirting and passing comments can make someone uncomfortable, BUT, she has made it very clear where they stand, and from what I've seen, it doesn't look like he's physically forcing himself on her. Everything seems to be within limit as of now and that has a lot to do with Himanshi openly calling him out during the weekend task few weeks ago.

I don't have favourites this time. Everyone is messing up in some way or the other and it's hard to stick by anyone 😆 I look at situations and the people in them for what they are and base my opinions on that.

Its BDSM! Somebody give them a red room.

Originally posted by: SiddJ

I find it very repulsive the way siddharth man handles sana in the name of entertainment.

Be it pushing her on the ground, putting his feet in front of her while she's talking to some one else. It is when we as a society fail to acknowledge this as abuse , the cases of abuse increase in our country. Yes sana is aggressive n pushed asim many times, tried to get into deys personal space, but that no where justifies on how siddharth treats her.

I equally despise the fact arhaan tries to prove his point by kissing rashmi on the forehead when she's shown uncomfortable.

Sana deserves it and more for how she has behaved in this show. And even Shukla. Ghatiya to the core.

Originally posted by: dahibhalle

If there is any content on your tv screen that you are not comfortable watching - you either stop watching or complain to the complaints section of the broadcaster.

I am not sure why Sana fans have to be involved in this process😆

Nah, why should two people in a compromised situation ruin such a good show for me 😆

I just reflected on the comments in this thread about Sana fans defending her in a situation they don't have first hand knowledge about. Only she herself knows what she's doing and how she's feeling. So fans should refrain from assuming something, thinking it's the truth, and putting others down for having their own opinions.