Don't question it

To begin with mental health is not a joke. Let's refrain from questioning Arti's panic attack itself as few people are doing on SM and on the forum. It's ridiculous and people need to JUST STOP.

Now when I saw the nominations bit, to be very honest, I did not think Arti needed anyone to defend her against Paras. I actually liked the way she stood up for herself. It only struck me that Sid didn't say anything when she herself pointed it out to Himanshi in the bedroom.

We all know how well Sid expresses his feelings i.e. either insults the other person or.. well, he mostly just insults the person. So basically he does not know how to handle such situations. Fine.
But just a small point I'd like to make here, he was the only one who had gone up to Dey and taken a stand for Arti way back during that hand-holding task in the garden. Where he felt someone had crossed the line (which Dey really had), he did take a stand.

That being said, when Arti had the first attack in the garden and pretty much the whole day until night, did he really not think of going to her even once? Doesn't matter who is right, doesn't matter what he thinks of her. You just go to her, give her a hug, say that everything is going to be okay. That's all.

'Someone kicked him out the bedroom when he tried' or 'He doesn't know what anxiety is' is no f-ing excuse. Since when has he listened to anyone lol and you don't need to know what anxiety is to comfort someone who is visibly distressed.

Exactly my point. Sorry i am pointing out a fandom. But they need to realize that ppl are nt upset that he didn't fought wid paras bt are upset bcoz he didn't bothered to take arti's heath into consideration.

The he “tried” excuse just baffles me. So on the one hand - this one man army who runs the show always does exactly what he wants - and he doesn’t care who he offends/alienates in the process (except for Shehnaaz) - but today somebody kicked him outta the bedroom and he...listened? Right - ok.

He’s not responsible for her attack. He’s not obliged to return her feelings. I can even see why he’d want to ensure he doesn’t do anything to lead her on. But it couldn’t have been clearer how upset she was - visibly - and yet, he was his usual douchebag self to her. One doesn’t need to be informed on anxiety to see just how distressed Aarti was. But iska emotional intelligence sirf Shehnaaz ke liye reserved hain.

Aarti may no longer be his friend - maybe he wants to peecha chhudao too - but dushman toh nahi hain na uski? Kabhi toh dost thi. Is-se achcha toh jaata hi nahi uske paas rudeness ki dukaan. Smh.

Originally posted by: SP2684

The he “tried” excuse just baffles me. So on the one hand - this one man army who runs the show always does exactly what he wants - and he doesn’t care who he offends/alienates in the process (except for Shehnaaz) - but today somebody kicked him outta the bedroom and he...listened? Right - ok.

He’s not responsible for her attack. He’s not obliged to return her feelings. I can even see why he’d want to ensure he doesn’t do anything to lead her on. But it couldn’t have been clearer how upset she was - visibly - and yet, he was his usual douchebag self to her. One doesn’t need to be informed on anxiety to see just how distressed Aarti was. But iska emotional intelligence sirf Shehnaaz ke liye reserved hain.

Aarti may no longer be his friend - maybe he wants to peecha chhudao too - but dushman toh nahi hain na uski? Kabhi toh dost thi. Is-se achcha toh jaata hi nahi uske paas rudeness ki dukaan. Smh.

Emotional intelligence a lot of people don't gain in life. It has nothing to do with age, maybe it's your experiences or just the kind of people you're around. This man is a perfect example. He might be the hero of the house, the star of the season, winner even but he's majorly lost out for portraying this side of him regardless of whether it's real or not.

Arey dushman ko bhi anyone wouldn't treat this way. Insaniyat naam ki koi cheez hai.

Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

Emotional intelligence a lot of people don't gain in life. It has nothing to do with age, maybe it's your experiences or just the kind of people you're around. This man is a perfect example. He might be the hero of the house, the star of the season, winner even but he's majorly lost out for portraying this side of him regardless of whether it's real or not.

Arey dushman ko bhi anyone wouldn't treat this way. Insaniyat naam ki koi cheez hai.

Haan normally I’d say the same. But Shukla ke liye I wouldn’t go that far - he has trouble treating friends well, toh dushman ki toh baat hi aur.

Originally posted by: SP2684

Haan normally I’d say the same. But Shukla ke liye I wouldn’t go that far - he has trouble treating friends well, toh dushman ki toh baat hi aur.

As I said he has trouble expressing, and he refuses to consider someone else's point of you if it's going against him. When someone is talking, he listens to reply not to understand. That's the problem with his friendships.

Sana always says things he wants to hear, she has never put forward her personal opinion if it contrasts his. So either he's under the wrong impression that she agrees with everything he says and so considers her close or he knows exactly what she's doing and ignores it cuz #Sidnaaz LOL
They're both very smart players though.

Originally posted by: snehaHCAPK

Exactly my point. Sorry i am pointing out a fandom. But they need to realize that ppl are nt upset that he didn't fought wid paras bt are upset bcoz he didn't bothered to take arti's heath into consideration.

It was just sad and I can’t believe people are defending Sid and accusing Arti. I mean you can support whoever you like, but blind support is just wrong.

Where he’s fun and entertaining support him but where he’s wrong, he’s wrong. Don’t encourage it.

Why was Aarti having panic attack? What triggered it ?

When Rashmi said I will not even pass him a glass of water people called her all kinds of names ....but Shukla is not at fault when he cannot console a crying girl who is desperately wanting only a hug or an assurance from this guy.

When he say her crying all by herself, all he had to do was talk to her in calm voice...that's all...but he went off calling her illogical etc etc...😡

Originally posted by: HoneY_BeE

When Rashmi said I will not even pass him a glass of water people called her all kinds of names ....but Shukla is not at fault when he cannot console a crying girl who is desperately wanting only a hug or an assurance from this guy.

When he say her crying all by herself, all he had to do was talk to her in calm voice...that's all...but he went off calling her illogical etc etc...😡

Exactly! F logic, man. It’s not always about who’s right or wrong, it’s not always about me or you, not everything has to be proven or turned into an argument or fight.

Gosh. The whole incident was just pissing off.