Paras knows how to make enemies into friends and Shukla the opposite - Page 3

Originally posted by: SoPunk

Try one its an experience 😊 I did one in BB7 I think 😜

Looks like too much work 😰

Originally posted by: JumpingViolets

I fail to understand what '1000 good qualities , umpteen other qualities' of Shukla you're talking about. His friendship is the main good quality that is mostly discussed over here and you dissected even that in the post.

Other than that what else is there? Please don't tell me his hair, smile, body, gentleman etc or that he doesn't gossip or that he is task player (which he is clearly not).

-He makes genuine bonds. Not just for game’s sake. Like when Asim said when wildcards come lets try to woo them to expand our team. He said no we won’t make friendships for convinience but only if we genuinely gel with those people. I don’t see that quality in many in the house. Most just think gamewise and people/bonds are dispensable as per game.

- He is extremely straight forward

- He is very real and himself on the show .. not trying to portray a certain image

- He doesn’t really lie

- He is very sharp

- Except his arrogance and high handedness, rudeness in dealing with people hard pressed for any other flaws

- He is protective about people he cares for

- He has REAL feelings for friends. Like when Arti and Asim were fake evicted you could tell he was genuinely effected and really cares for them.

And list goes on and on and on....

Originally posted by: HoneY_BeE

Let's start an AT for Paras

There is already an AT for Paras.

Originally posted by: shiny9911

There is already an AT for Paras.

Thanks for letting me know!!!

Yea I agree. His behaviour towards his friends is sometimes very bad . I dont like it.

But unlike paras, he doesn't make fake bonds . He doesn't backstab or be a dogla.

Its very difficult to be friends with shukla initially.

But once u know actually what kind of person he is ,u will realize he will be there for u rock solid.

Wo bhagega nahi maiden se like paras has done it umpteen times leaving all his girl friends to fight alone. He is always willing to save his friends above him in this game .

All the tasks hebhas done , he has stood for his team Henhasnt played selfishly for himself

So yes i dont worry abt him . He will have less friends but quality friends. Jo usko sachi mein jaante hain wo uska saath kabhi nahi chodenge. And I always prefer quality over quantity.

There is a reason why aarti asim and sana cant break their friendship with him.

And Friends dont break their fship over some fights. If they do, they were never ur friend

Never expected dis post . Very surprised to see you write something against Shukla. Remember I told you have to observe Shukla Ji to know how he is and noone in real life would put up wid him for long.

Agree to whatevr you hv written. Even though he has gud qualities but the way he treats people masks it all.

His behaviour towards Aarti has been really disrespectful. I don't know why he treats her dt way when that woman doesn't even say a word against him nd follows him in everything he says.

Glad Asim pointed out that Shukla doesn't know how to behave /talk wid people. When your frnds point out such things you should atleast retrospect how others are perceiving it.....but no his instinct was to break his frndshp wid Asim🤔

About Sana......I won't say if she is hurt for real or not , but him mocking her yesterday (the way he did it) was not okay. You were frnds just yesterday and now you mock her.

I must say this is a very honest post.......it doesn't bash Shukla Ji but still nicely points out what's wrong .

Originally posted by: SoPunk

I haven't seen him using anyone.

While Shukla almost reduced Aarti to a slave & was dominating Asim largely. While Asim & Aarti tried to be a little independent thinking today he threatened to ditch them, where's his friendship? He's using them. A friend can't threaten to ditch a friend for using his own brain. That's using people, Paras never does it.

1.See voot unseen where he said to sana that he was with rashmi only for game.this is after ttf

2.during ttf he n mahira bitching about rashmi

3.during last WKW he told to sana that she is his second preference but he said to rashmi promising on his mother that sh eis second preference after mahira

4.Paras wants himanshi and sana issue to settle and play the game without dragging outside issues then why he didnt told to rashmi same instead asking her to cry or bring shukla past issues out??

Paras is just using friends be it mahira,sana or anyone else....he might not be rude on face but he is back bitching about them

Shukla is arrogant to everyone even to his frnds it is clearly visible....fake bond I felt only with sana....shukla expects everyone to listen to him

Originally posted by: intruderfast

Yea I agree. His behaviour towards his friends is sometimes very bad . I dont like it.

But unlike paras, he doesn't make fake bonds . He doesn't backstab or be a dogla.

Its very difficult to be friends with shukla initially.

But once u know actually what kind of person he is ,u will realize he will be there for u rock solid.

Wo bhagega nahi maiden se like paras has done it umpteen times leaving all his girl friends to fight alone. He is always willing to save his friends above him in this game .

All the tasks hebhas done , he has stood for his team Henhasnt played selfishly for himself

So yes i dont worry abt him . He will have less friends but quality friends. Jo usko sachi mein jaante hain wo uska saath kabhi nahi chodenge. And I always prefer quality over quantity.

There is a reason why aarti asim and sana cant break their friendship with him.

And Friends dont break their fship over some fights. If they do, they were never ur friend

I see what you are saying and I agree in parts.. I realize no human is perfect but my problem is the thing thats wrong with him is just absolutely unacceptable for me. If someone is genuinely caring, protective, honest with me but constantly disrespects me I will be sad but have to cut that person off (except in case of a family member because with family you have to suck it up no matter what). I would find a friend who has other “acceptable” minuses that I personally can deal with better.
You can find quality friends who don’t disrespect you. Like Arti shouldn’t HAVE to stand up to shukla constantly. She has pointed it out to him so many times directly/indirectly to not be so harsh with her but he continues to do so.

If I know my “friend” keeps on repeating HURTFUL behavior then he is not really my friend is he. Even if he cares and is there is for me, for me it is emotionally damaging, suffocating and toxic to me to continue the friendship. Respect is a non negotiable in any relationship specially in ones which are not bound by blood and there is a way out.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Never expected dis post . Very surprised to see you write something against Shukla. Remember I told you have to observe Shukla Ji to know how he is and noone in real life would put up wid him for long.

Agree to whatevr you hv written. Even though he has gud qualities but the way he treats people masks it all.

His behaviour towards Aarti has been really disrespectful. I don't know why he treats her dt way when that woman doesn't even say a word against him nd follows him in everything he says.

Glad Asim pointed out that Shukla doesn't know how to behave /talk wid people. When your frnds point out such things you should atleast retrospect how others are perceiving it.....but no his instinct was to break his frndshp wid Asim🤔

About Sana......I won't say if she is hurt for real or not , but him mocking her yesterday (the way he did it) was not okay. You were frnds just yesterday and now you mock her.

I must say this is a very honest post.......it doesn't bash Shukla Ji but still nicely points out what's wrong .

Yea it really sucks to give up on a fave but I can’t look past this glaring flaw anymore. Specially when keeping myself in Artis shoes I feel really bad for her.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Never expected dis post . Very surprised to see you write something against Shukla. Remember I told you have to observe Shukla Ji to know how he is and noone in real life would put up wid him for long.

Agree to whatevr you hv written. Even though he has gud qualities but the way he treats people masks it all.

His behaviour towards Aarti has been really disrespectful. I don't know why he treats her dt way when that woman doesn't even say a word against him nd follows him in everything he says.

Glad Asim pointed out that Shukla doesn't know how to behave /talk wid people. When your frnds point out such things you should atleast retrospect how others are perceiving it.....but no his instinct was to break his frndshp wid Asim🤔

About Sana......I won't say if she is hurt for real or not , but him mocking her yesterday (the way he did it) was not okay. You were frnds just yesterday and now you mock her.

I must say this is a very honest post.......it doesn't bash Shukla Ji but still nicely points out what's wrong .

off topic comment here..

IMO...Asim kudh does not know how to talk.. ye kya sikhayega Sid ko kaise talk/behave kare..

While Shulka sat at dining table to help Asim with Arhan n Paras... all Asim could think of was telling Shenaz ki wo kaise uske friendship deserve nahi karthi.. in that goes n includes Shukla n Arti..

Asim got enough feedback from outside.. he thinks he is winner already.. so ek right moment dhek ke dosth pe chad gaya first..Asim knows Sid is strong.. tho abb Shukla pe chad raha hai..

Shukla better play alone..

today's episode Asim rude tha first..Paras Mahira bhi has rahe the.. then Sid ne Arti pe vent out kiya.. then in apologetic manner he told Arti to go ahead with her POV...

@TM... BB game dosth/rishta bana ne ki jagah nahi hai..last season behan hi bada dhoka de di Sreesanth ko..