Isn't Anger just a way to hide true feelings....

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi friends
I read many members POV regarding Pratap's hatred towards Ajab!!!

So just giving my chaarana views on this whole thing trying to throw some light from my end as what I have analysed ...need not be right!

We all know Pratap loves Ajab truly deeply and madly!
All these years he had asked people not to take her name as he hated her...or was it because he was unable to forget her. Maybe somewhere deep inside his heart he still does not believe it! But just because his Rani maa would not lie to them and so he has taken the lie as a bitter truth.

He does not hate Ajab in fact he hates and berates himself for still being in love with that woman due to whom his Rani ma left the mahal abandoning him. He is torn between his devotion to his mother and his love!

Now when he meets patta's jijaa he is uknowingly getting attracted to her. Though in his right mind he thinks of staying away from women...trying to be loyal to Ajab the so called wife whom he hates! However there is this magnetic pull towards this persona which he is unable to avoid and he is disturbed. He is angry at Ajab because she has decided to break ties with him, which means she must have gotten over him and has decided to move on whereas he is still stuck to her memories! Trying to burn the stable has not helped much either.

He is feeling guilty of his attraction towards this new girl with whom he feels connected and so he wants to put the blame on someone. Finally Ajab is the only person he could put all his blames on! How dare she not try to talk it out with him or approach him even once! So he was expecting her to come and plead to him as if he would have listened to her.

How could she take such a step without his approval? He is behaving just like an enraged husband. He is taking the political decisions too personally! 😛

Ajab on the other hand has tried to accept the fact that no matter what Pratap will never accept her and she will never go to Mewad! She has tried to let go off her memories as if it was so easy! Now she finds this ashwapaalak Pratap and see glimpses of her own pratap in him so much so that she feels attracted to him. This man possesses the same qualities that once her Pratap had and she had fell in love with him. He trusted her! Whereas her Pratap didn't!!??

But that one moment of weakness leads her to feel guilty and punish herself. There is this connection between them which even she cant deny! Today when he came and snatched the ring from the sahukaar and when he was injured, he stirred up some emotions in Ajab just like the olden days.

Whereas regarding the pre leap and post leap is concerned...Pratap and Ajab are no longer children and as people grow so does their complexities and egoes. Hence we find them different from their childhood characters. But if we notice carefully they are behaving just as they did when they had met in childhood, arguing, fighting and losing themselves in each other's eyes!

Now Isn't anger the best way to hide what exactly you have in your mind and heart?? I think that is exactly what Pratap is trying to do! He came to Bijolia not just to find out the truth about what Patta had said but he wants to meet Ajab atleast once deep inside his heart which he is not ready to accept!

He could have easily deployed few of his guptachar or investigators but no he had to go on his own...And he is getting more and more restless because he learns how just she has been to the people of Bijolia! How can she be so good? After all she ruined his life so everything she does has to have a motive right!?? And so he thinks all wrong about her thinking she is taking revenge! Really Pratap revenge? Which means you did wrong her? Am I right!? Even when they were fighting off the daakus today he asks jija where her baijilal was?

I dont know how many of you agree here with me. Do share your views too!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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i think u got not a point but 10000000000000000000 points 😉
very nice post, very fine interpretations 👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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very nicely written!
I agree with the sentence where you said that Pratap didnt trust Ajabdeh but this stranger who reminds ajab of Pratap does trust her! trust was the main reason of the lack of communication all these years!
I believe Pratap is in a dilemma for sure - hate and love have a very fine line between them and can be crossed at any point!

once again good job!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hav only one prob..ajabde inner fight or turmoil is shown when she feels attracted to another man...but pratap seems to be giving in getting attracted to oder woman n he is nt holdiing him back
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yep I feel the same too. Hatred is not the lack of love. It is just love gone bad. I think he hates it that he still thinks about her. The fact that he took the ring yesterday proves that he does care about Ajabde because if I'm not wrong he was going to ask Patta's Jija/ Ajab something about it before the daku attacked. Why would he take the ring if he gave no importance to his relationship with his wife?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Right... even this can be way to take the current events...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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first of all...I must say very nicely written and the interpretation is very positive ...!


I wud luv it if dey really show this is wat is happening wid Pratap...but the thing is they are not showing us anything like dat...kuch ko dikhao so dat we know k Pratap is saying all this coz he still cares...give us something ...but NO..dey juz giving us non sense..

a person like u can find symbolism in such negative scenes . . but the larger part of audience believe what dey see .. 😕
we need to see him fighting wid his ownself...n WO desh drohi was juz too much...



n getting attracted to some one else. . . ?it surely is the soul connection...which I liked to watch...but his attitude in d rain sequence made me sad...Ajabdeh had an inner turmoil and she punished herself... nt Pratap...he was cool...definitely not the Pratap I used to knw. .


but still...ye SB bolne k liye tumhare muh me ghee Shakkar...lol

ur positive post will gv me d strength to watch the show and that ashva vahak's negativity :p


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Posted: 10 years ago
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TM - ur post is an interesting version/ interpretation of events...
My POV is solely this - love and trust - I dont deny that they are two separate things...I dont think love has to be always backed by trust...I dont even blame pratap for thinking that ajab is responsible for JB leaving...he would believe his mothers anyday over ajab...and Id expect him to as well...thats the main underpining of this lovestory...he has always placed his mother above ajab...and for that he wont doubt DB...I only blame JB solely in this situation - and thereby CVs, for the mockery they made of JB...

hatred - yes is one expression of love...burning down stables, struggling with his past, holding ajab responsible...everything understood

but the attraction to a stranger - I dont connect with that- specifically coz pratap shows no guilt for that happening, he shows no remorse for it, he shows no signs of pulling back too from that attraction...we always see ajab guilty, ajab upset, ajab angry at her ownself...even though she can feel that its pratap...pratap makes no connection whatsoever of patta's jija with his ajab

its like jija and ajab are two ends of spectrum...and that is where my objection lies

jija - deshbhakt vs ajab deshdrohi
jija - bholi bhali vs ajab power hungry
jija - trustworthy vs ajab not trustworthy
jija - truthful vs ajab the compulsive schemer, liar
jija - ladaku ladki vs ajab the girl with no voice

did he even understand ajab at all preleap for him to make such assumptions about her? he is attracted to jija becoz she is ajab, but what about his ajab - what is she for him now? a scheming, conniving vamp/ liar? why once we dont see pratap making connection between this ladaaku ladki and his ajab? why he cant see similarities, rather point out differences to put ajab down

why no guilt? why no remorse whatsoever? why should have ajab contacted him? when he broke all ties with her? inspite of that she did - and he doubts those intentions too...double standards in terms of what pratap is saying, thinking and doing himself...

no intentions to fight, just my POV
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Posted: 10 years ago
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superb post Priya ..
right on d money 👏

MP-Ajabde gng thrw new emotion called - new love (bcz tey r nt aware of their identity - tats y tey hate to tell tey do feel d love) ...

MP against Ajabde nt acceptable .. MP & patta jija more than dosti also not acceptable ..


i feel pity 4 their situation .. really looking 4ward to c hz CV's gonna reveal their identity ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hiral_Halwa

TM - ur post is an interesting version/ interpretation of events...

My POV is solely this - love and trust - I dont deny that they are two separate things...I dont think love has to be always backed by trust...I dont even blame pratap for thinking that ajab is responsible for JB leaving...he would believe his mothers anyday over ajab...and Id expect him to as well...thats the main underpining of this lovestory...he has always placed his mother above ajab...and for that he wont doubt DB...I only blame JB solely in this situation - and thereby CVs, for the mockery they made of JB...

hatred - yes is one expression of love...burning down stables, struggling with his past, holding ajab responsible...everything understood

but the attraction to a stranger - I dont connect with that- specifically coz pratap shows no guilt for that happening, he shows no remorse for it, he shows no signs of pulling back too from that attraction...we always see ajab guilty, ajab upset, ajab angry at her ownself...even though she can feel that its pratap...pratap makes no connection whatsoever of patta's jija with his ajab

its like jija and ajab are two ends of spectrum...and that is where my objection lies

jija - deshbhakt vs ajab deshdrohi
jija - bholi bhali vs ajab power hungry
jija - trustworthy vs ajab not trustworthy
jija - truthful vs ajab the compulsive schemer, liar
jija - ladaku ladki vs ajab the girl with no voice

did he even understand ajab at all preleap for him to make such assumptions about her? he is attracted to jija becoz she is ajab, but what about his ajab - what is she for him now? a scheming, conniving vamp/ liar? why once we dont see pratap making connection between this ladaaku ladki and his ajab? why he cant see similarities, rather point out differences to put ajab down

why no guilt? why no remorse whatsoever? why should have ajab contacted him? when he broke all ties with her? inspite of that she did - and he doubts those intentions too...double standards in terms of what pratap is saying, thinking and doing himself...

no intentions to fight, just my POV

completely agree Hiral!

In the beginning even I had thought that way but then put yourself in Pratap's shoes. He is a strong man now! He has been cheating his own emotions for a long time now. He has become almost stonehearted thats what he thinks!

He thinks he did a mistake by falling in love with Ajab! So feelings like guilt, remorse, being upset will not be expressed by him like how Ajab did! Many men do not openly express their feelings.

Though he was lost in thoughts if you saw the scene with Patta! When Patta had asked him it does not seem all went well in the jungle he said yes something like that!

We all know Pratap does not lie! And he admitted that what happened between them in that moment was not right! And he is wondering what made him do that and himself answers that it maybe because of the thing that is common between them...the love for their mother country!

Pratap is in full awe of that woman who is ready to die/ ,kill or even influence people for her motherland!! Where do you find such fiery woman?

But her eyes that ask him a hundred questions make him feel uneasy yet he feels connected to her. He is also seen struggling with his feelings! When he takes the ring towards Jija for a moment you almost feel that he looks through her as though he knew its her!!! His ajab!

Him calling Ajab deshdrohi and all that is just his outburst of a confused mind!

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