Originally posted by: ...Jes...
RES!
UNRES :
Ajabdeh is a girl with no self respect and self issue at all. Everyone doesn't have love as first priority like me only,for me my first priority is my mother.but even for her,till now even for once i haven't done anything which is against my self esteem. Agreed... Self Esteem and self respect should be numero uno
Taking Phool's few wrong words so gravelly that she is totally broken down. Well,after Phool too many people wil say many unpleasing words but does that mean every time she wil lose her self esteem?? She should HAVE said that time ONLY that Phool u r wrong ..even after so many years of friendship,if u think so low of me..then i better leave! but what she did?? she just begged her and asked for permission to stay?? Dont kill me but as much as I dont like phool character i think she was right to be mad because in her mind I think she thought that ajab will tell her everything exactly the way phool does
Then the worst part,one side saying no to Pratap and still flirting with him..allowing him tease her,on personal level i hate this,it si called 'munafiqi' in our religion..doing something and saying something! and don't tell me she is a child to handle this..if she can revolt so much for others' pain then she should have a normal grip over herself..?? Totally agree and I am so against this double thought... Pyaar karo dil se.. sauda karo dimag se... Flirting I see as a sauda.. but pyaar is not a sauda.. if you love someone then don't give mixed signals.. make sure that you are for that person...
Agreeing to marry Tornamal knowing he is a cheat and his family as well.Taking such a great offense on own self respect??!!! Agreed
Disrespecting own parents and their wishes?? Disrespecting other Rajputs,US-JB and others??agreed.. now where is the maan maryada and sishtachaar... Achaar daalne gaya hai kya
Supporting evil power like UD-DB,even after knowing they r evil..and disobeying her mom?? going against good souls?? Jab dimag par patti hoti hai na tab acche bura ka farq nahi pata chalta... She is going through the same...
For even ONCE i haven't mentioned she saying no to Pratap..it is her personal choice,she may not agree on that ..but for that simple thing she went onto doing this unbelievable things..which simply proves she is addicted or obsessed with Phool like people have addiction for alcohol or other drugs. and for me it is not acceptable morally. Pyaar ek taraf dosti ek taraf... Marry your best friend is the best attitude but currently who has been your best friend... bf is that one person who knows you in and out, understands you, aapki choti choti cheezon ka dhyaan rakhe, jinke saamne khul kar ro sako, jinse fight kar sako, jiske saamne no pretenses come what may... jo apne naam ke saath apna designation na lagaye... Pratap says "Pratap singh naam hai humara" not mewar ka rajkumar pratap singh... where as phool has always said "hum phool kunwar hain marwad ki rajkumari"...Whom has she got like that... Pratap na.. Friendship nibhani hai na... nibhao... par friend ke saath nibhao...