Too much negativity in this forum - Page 4

Originally posted by: babita..

Jenny, i wanted to ask you something.

This forum was quite and you, Vyoman and me were there to revive the forum and tried our best to make it go. Right ??

Then suddenly what happened ?? The criticism did not rise in one day. The statements were taken as taunts. And the mentioning of choice became negativity.

Why there is a fight for an actor who has left and who is there to make the show revive ?? One post and negativity started. No one was there when good days were. But now many are here to create negativity throughout and blame others for it

If this comment of mine will also be taken as negative, then i'm sorry i will leave the forum immediately. You all please carry on with what you find right. Becos if anyone is contradicting with their open views, it's called negativity. This is happening at both the ends.

Nothing is perfect in this world. Nor do i. Then why this fight against nothing and fuss for zero issues.

I would like to have an answer from you only. Not others pls becos the owner of this thread has deliberately named us and have tried to defame us.

In wait for a response,

babita

Originally posted by: babita..

Jenny, i wanted to ask you something.

This forum was quite and you, Vyoman and me were there to revive the forum and tried our best to make it go. Right ??

Then suddenly what happened ?? The criticism did not rise in one day. The statements were taken as taunts. And the mentioning of choice became negativity.

Why there is a fight for an actor who has left and who is there to make the show revive ?? One post and negativity started. No one was there when good days were. But now many are here to create negativity throughout and blame others for it

If this comment of mine will also be taken as negative, then i'm sorry i will leave the forum immediately. You all please carry on with what you find right. Becos if anyone is contradicting with their open views, it's called negativity. This is happening at both the ends.

Nothing is perfect in this world. Nor do i. Then why this fight against nothing and fuss for zero issues.

I would like to have an answer from you only. Not others pls becos the owner of this thread has deliberately named us and have tried to defame us.

In wait for a response,

babita

Originally posted by: at118

Ms. Babita , I didn't want to reply to you since you asked this question from Jenny, but as you dragged me intentionally, I would like to clarify that I DID NOT name you, I didn't even read any of your posts where you made any attempt to make personal comment, I named those who have created such negative post calling Shubhangi as c grade actor, cheap, vahiyat, vulgur etc etc. So "Owner" of this thread has not named you as I didn't even know about you before... I only named two persons (as I read their posts) and all blind fans of Shilpa...not sure you count yourself in which category... indeed very sad that rather than understanding our point, you felt its a defame...

Originally posted by: jenny156

I agree here !!

The topic isn't meant for you Babita.. TM has not mentioned you so don't take it wrongly!!

Originally posted by: jenny156

Hey Babita dear, I don't have anything against you or vyoman.. We three have been here for quite a long time!! This is wat I am saying that it feels sad how we tried hard to revive it with fun posts but the forum got active due to the negativity!! I don't think so any of us had any issues with ur opinions that were pro Shilpa, as I knew you & vyoman still missed her so I respected ur opinions!! I was hurt by Shilpa's actions but I did not even once argue with u both!! I think nor did anyone else here, don't know if it happened as I have been keeping away from all this madness as I don't like to argue!!

Here I am talking abt the full on negativity that is happening in the forum!! Negativity has happened now due to the fights lately!! Your questions are the same I have in my mind.. And this has all started after the name calling of some members which has arised from a single topic of demoralizing Shubhangi!! No one made such personal remarks against Shilpa as it is being made for Shubhangi!! See the Shilpa quitting sticky thread.. there are different opinions but no one is calling each other names or fighting with the members!!

Don't leave the forum dear.. We need to instead try to stop the negativity here!!

Originally posted by: at118

I will call names of all those who have created silly disgusting posts... and for your information, I have joined IF in 2006, probably then you people would have not even heard name of this forum. so don't try to teach me who is older who is not. I do not POST quite often its because I didn't have any issues earlier, but now this is height. I only make posts when I feel so.

Frequent posts doesn't make you a wiser or elder member.

And anyways this is not the criteria to insult some actor's clothes, character ok. You are older or not, it doesn't give you a right to do character assassination of some actor.

I am already grown up as I don't comment on someone's clothes, don't call someone with names or C grade actor. Don't try to show some actor in bad light.

Exactly, actors will come and go and Shilpa's blind FANS have to admit this she is gone and will never come back in this show. you dislike it, leave the show.

so I will..till you people keep insulting an actor's clothes, her way of conducting herself and making personal comments... so I will!!!!!

Originally posted by: vyoman

Now, I understood you definitely can't understand my posts..In another thread also you did the same mistake...You named 3 of us na...you said only time will tell... so, have a look on latest TRP ...Older members refer to only this forum...& not from 10 years old IF..

Once again you are calling Shilpa's blind fans...definitely they will retort...it will increase the forum's negativity...😕

I'm not trying to teach you anything....I'm just telling...because Myself and babita were trying very hard to revive this forum from last July 2015 and later in December Jenny also joined and helped very much in reviving this forum...that is why I wrote I'm seeing your post now only...

Since you are telling you don't stop... carry on with your negativity...definitely it will bring this forum more negativity which you are enjoying much ...it seems to me through your posts...😕

Goodbye to you and your posts forever...

IF is showing pictures of characters of the show. I do not recognize Angoori. It is not the Angoori I see on TV show BGPH every night on weekdays. Who is this character in the show? Why her picture is in the show-introducing banner of the site?

Vyoman Babita and Jenny
Yes I am naming you all 3.
I want to say I have been a silent member here for quiet long.. And you three are really cool members🤗
The replacement of Shilpa was most unfortunate thing happened to this show and no one wanted that. Shilpa will always be the only Angoori for most people.
This whole replacement drama left many people bitter. And seems like you guys are getting dragged in it.Even I got personally attacked by a Shilpa fan for having opinions.
But that doesn't equal to leaving this forum. You guys revived it!! The environment will get fine in few days. Such things happen when a lead is replaced. happened during Saathiya and Balika Vadhu too...Soon everyone will be done fighting and till then Shilpa maybe will be back with another show.
I see you guys tackling the forum's situation in nice way. Don't go away from here😛

I just want to say one thing to the author of this post. I don't know how many shows' forums have you been a part of, but in the few forums that I have been, it was clearly a norm to never make posts about other members of the forum. Any member is free to discuss the show, the characters, the actors because that's what this forum is for. But not for bashing or calling out other members in the forum. It is really unfortunate and distasteful.