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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan



So Maya being bad is what made arjun fall for saanjh? Made him fall for her and Marry her?. After all that has gone on it was normal for arjun to break his relationship with Maya...but him going off with saanjh as soon as there relationship broke...reinforces Maya's insecurities about their relationship...it was never platonic...no they didn't have an affair...so what...a women is hurt most when her other half has an emotional relationship with another women over a physical one. Telling your wife that your so called friend is his pagalpan etc. When it comes to arjun a quote comes to mind "they always end up with those who they told you not to worry about. Anyway I don't blame arjun for leaving Maya. Maya is a criminal...she has committed the unspeakable...but when it comes to the love triangle of her. Arjun and saanjh...I believe she is a victim.

maya always knew that arjun has a strong emotional relationship with saanjh..maya said to arjun that he should not break friendship with saanjh when arjun told maya that dusky loves him and he didnt know about it..maya also said "muje pata hai k wo tumse pyar karti hai..tum waqai duffer ho..saari dunya jaanti hai siwae tumare"..he said i also love her very much but its dosti wala pyar..
if maya knew it before marriage and asked arjun to continue his friendship then what is the point of insecurities after marriage..
she should had faith in her husband because she knew it and she herself permitted it..
she should not have married him if she had a problem with their friendship because she always knew arjun will never break his friendship with saanjh..
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Posted: 7 years ago

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maya always knew that arjun has a strong emotional relationship with saanjh..maya said to arjun that he should not break friendship with saanjh when arjun told maya that dusky loves him and he didnt know about it..maya also said "muje pata hai k wo tumse pyar karti hai..tum waqai duffer ho..saari dunya jaanti hai siwae tumare"..he said i also love her very much but its dosti wala pyar..
if maya knew it before marriage and asked arjun to continue his friendship then what is the point of insecurities after marriage..
she should have had faith in her husband because she knew it and she herself permitted it..
[DIV]she should not have married him if she had a problem with their friendship because she always knew arjun will never break his friendship with saanjh..[/DIV

In the beginning she did attempt to accept their so called friendship. It was the only time she did something selfless. Despite knowing that her husbands bestfriend was in love with him, who sang him a romantic song at their wedding etc...for arjun she attempted to accept that friendship. What she accepted was a friendship...not a relationship that pushed the boundaries of friendship. Her insecurities didn't come out of thin air... viewers were shown numerous incidents after Arya's wedding which justify Maya's insecurities about their friendship' and her no longer wanting to accept their so called friendship...arjuns continuous late night meetings with Saanjh, he declaring that he loved her in a drunken state...them moving forward to kiss eachother...arjun rushing over to saanjh after she "almost got burnt...completely ignoring his wife after she had burnt her hands...these incidents took place after her marriage...and despite this you ask ...what was the need for her to be insecure. Maya didn't have a problem with her husband having a friendship. Even calling their relationship a friendship is a joke. Maya loved arjun so she married him and that was her biggest mistake. Saanjh still wanted arjun after he became someone's husband, someone's father... and you ask why did Maya marry him if she didn't like his friendship.

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Beyhadfan

arjun and saanjh's relationship was like this even before arya's marriage..he was so protective towards saanjh..maya knew it but she ignored it because she just wanted arjun at that time..
and yes i accept saanjh and arjun were always hopelessly in love..maya k sath boht ziadti ho gai 😛
arjun should not have married maya..it was his biggest mistake..he himself calls their marriage a mistake..

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: --ria--

maya always knew that arjun has a strong emotional relationship with saanjh..maya said to arjun that he should not break friendship with saanjh when arjun told maya that dusky loves him and he didnt know about it..maya also said "muje pata hai k wo tumse pyar karti hai..tum waqai duffer ho..saari dunya jaanti hai siwae tumare"..he said i also love her very much but its dosti wala pyar..
if maya knew it before marriage and asked arjun to continue his friendship then what is the point of insecurities after marriage..
she should had faith in her husband because she knew it and she herself permitted it..
she should not have married him if she had a problem with their friendship because she always knew arjun will never break his friendship with saanjh..


Just for a second forget Maya is a criminal or a psychopath. And imagine a normal person who's spouse has a best friend of opposite gender n she knows that it's not possible for her husband to completely cut off the relationship with the bestie right after marriage. Hence as a basic courtesy she allows him to talk to the bestie normally.
But what she gets is her husband lies to her n goes to meet the best friend (Though the intentions were not wrong) but she isn't aware of this. Won't she feel insecure? Then she gives a warning. But the husband again calls the BFF in a Holi party n puts colors on her before the wife. Keeps talking about BFF when he's drunk, has an intimate dance. No wife can tolerate this

She is a criminal no doubt, n neither do I feel that Saanjh n Arjun 's relationship led to ArYa break-up. Their marriage was already on rocks in the 3 years gap when Saanjh was not there.
But if Arjun is saying he loved Saanjh n couldn't realise the love n married Maya, then Arjun who's at fault the most among the trio.

Maya's crimes ain't justified but her insecurities have been justified by Arjun n Saanjh itself, when Arjun declared his love towards her n they got married right after the divorce.
It would have looked better if they didn't pair SaaJun. Then Maya's character wouldn't have got any justification , she would have been a certified psycho who kept doubting a loving husband n wrecked her own home single handedly. But now it's the whole trio who's responsible. Max responsibility is Maya's then Arjun n finally Saanjh.

Edited by CutiepieAD - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: CutiepieAD


Just for a second forget Maya is a criminal or a psychopath. And imagine a normal person who's spouse has a best friend of opposite gender n she knows that it's not possible for her husband to completely cut off the relationship with the bestie right after marriage. Hence as a basic courtesy she allows him to talk to the bestie normally.
But what she gets is her husband lies to her n goes to meet the best friend (Though the intentions were not wrong) but she isn't aware of this. Won't she feel insecure? Then she gives a warning. But the husband again calls the BFF in a Holi party n puts colors on her before the wife. Keeps talking about BFF when he's drunk, has an intimate dance. No wife can tolerate this

She is a criminal no doubt, n neither do I feel that Saanjh n Arjun 's relationship led to ArYa break-up. Their marriage was already on rocks in the 3 years gap when Saanjh was not there.
But if Arjun is saying he loved Saanjh n couldn't realise the love n married Maya, then Arjun who's at fault the most among the trio.

Maya's crimes ain't justified but her insecurities have been justified by Arjun n Saanjh itself, when Arjun declared his love towards her n they got married right after the divorce.
It would have looked better if they didn't pair SaaJun. Then Maya's character wouldn't have got any justification , she would have been a certified psycho who kept doubting a loving husband n wrecked her own home single handedly. But now it's the whole trio who's responsible. Max responsibility is Maya's then Arjun n finally Saanjh.

i agree with your POV..
arjun was named duffer for a reason..
he should have married saanjh straight away rather than marrying maya first 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Maya is out for revenge. But the moment Arjun touches her she doesnt remember any pain he has given her. It has been not shown once, but always. When she sees Arjun, when she hears Arjun, when she feels Arjun an unknown happiness comes to her. The happiness she tries to suppress to bring the pain out.
Now look at the 3 men of Maya's life. First Ashwin. Whenever Maya thinks Ashwin she sees Ashwin she sees darkness, all her thoughts immediately goes to the dark room where she was shut, where he laughed from outside. This darkroom always remained in her brain. Ashwin taught her to get one's way you need to torture other, you need to bring pain to others, you have to make other helpless. When she killed Ashwin and Vandana this was the principle she used. When she injured Ayan this was the principle she used. Her father also taught her to use illusion to look good in front of the world, while doing all the bad things. He taught her, there is no need to be good. Good means weak. There is only need to show one is good. That's what she did in Ayan rape case. That's how she build her defense when she planned to die. This was also the thing she used in killing of Mansi and Tulsi.

Second man in her life Rajiv. He taught her to make deals. He taught her how the powerful use powerless to satisfy their needs. Basically he taught her business, not relations. Maya managed a successful business F&C.

Third man in her life was Arjun. Arjun was never a perfect man, he had a lot of imperfections. Problem was he was not a man, he was a child himself just like her who never had a proper childhood. He had a lot of emotional need, which he masked in his tough and arrogant exterior and egoist persona. But he was not a man who wanted her riches. He was not. I will stick to the point that Arjun never eyed on Maya's riches. He loved her, yes Arjun Sharma loved Maya Mehrotra. There are no 2 ways about it. He loved her. The moment Arjun touched her today he felt her, that's why he stopped. Arjun Sharma loved Maya's intelligence, he loved the no nonsense business woman, he loved her vulnerability, but he didnt know how to handle her darkness or her poison. Arjun needed a wife who managed him, not a mother who controlled him. And Maya in her life has played only one role. Role of a mother the way she knew it to Jhanvi. The same thing she extended to Arjun, leaving him emotionally void and he moved to Saanjh. A woman has to learn to manage their husbands and not control them. He was not Ashwin, he was not Rajiv, he was , is Arjun Sharma. But then Maya's past interferred in their relation.

It was nothing different for Arjun. Maya was not Raksha, Vandana or Saanjh. He was supposed to give her time. He was supposed to invest time in their relation. Understand her insecurity with respect to Saanjh. Behave appropriately. Gain her trust so that she remove CCTV. It needed some changes in his way too. But he didnt change a bit. So the mess was supposed to happen.

But all said and done Maya experienced love from Arjun. When she is away from Arjun, she experiences it in vision, voice and feelings. Arjun is the light of her life, his love is her light from the darkness. It is her own battle. Battle between the darkness her childhood gave, selfishness the world gave and love world gave. What will she choose. Will she choose love and take the embrace of time closing her eyes forever. Because Arjun is different. Can his love work magic in Maya. Maya I cannot cure you, I can only love you tells Arjun when she brings her back from suicide attempt. Ladki he cannot remove the darkness inside you tell the Mauritus Pandit. But can Arjun's love enable her to fight the battle of darkness and come through it to light. Arjun's love get meaning only then. Only then he becomes different. He becomes hero. It is said you dont realize what you have done to someone, unless you see the impact of it with your eyes. The world has seen what has Ashwin done to his daughter. The world has seen what Rajiv has done to Maya. The world has to see what Arjun's love has done to Maya. It cannot be this sorry picture of Maya from a business woman to a dance class maid. Then that love failed. It cannot happen. We saw Maya's destructive love, her beyhadh love. Where is Arjun's junoon, his love was his junoon can the CVs stay away from the transformational power of Arjun's love. The world has to see Arjun's love and it can be seen only and only if Maya comes to light.

Story will end where it started. Yes it will end where it all started. Because world is round, what goes around comes around.
Edited by shruthiravi - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
I am finding it funny how people are saying Saanjh and Arjun are soulmates and Maya tried to break their relationship and allured him to marry her. This soulmate stuff is all crap fed to us for centuries by epic romantic novels and movies. Arjun is a grown up guy, it doesn't matter if he can behave like that or not. It was his decision to choose his partner and he chose Maya. Yes Maya did try to woo him with whatever she has and same goes with Saanjh. Maya was successful and Saanjh wasn't. Arjun is with Saanjh because his relationship with Maya failed otherwise he would not be. I can't get how Maya became all evil in this and Saanjh the epitome of pure love.
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@dexter Arjun and Saanjh are married because Maya didnt know how to handle her insecurities properly. It is because Maya became so much bad and mad Saanjh got Arjun. If even Maya had not made the mistake of texting Samay to remove the proof with Prem, Arjun would have forgiven for accusing Ayan of rape because she was pregnant.
In a way you look the path to Arjun opened up for Saanjh when Prem died. Coming to wooing both Suman and Vandana wanted Saanjh to woo Arjun. Maya too did it. And Arjun accepted it. Yes Maya was Arjun's choice. He put colors on her. Maya was afraid of colors. He bought her red dress, he gave her that corn first time, he proposed her under water in Mauritius.
Just because Maya was unable to control her past, and Arjun was unable to manage her insecurities that marriage broke. And he chose Saanjh because he wanted to win against Maya. It clearly looks marriage of convenience which many marriages are.

Edited by shruthiravi - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dexter3108

I am finding it funny how people are saying Saanjh and Arjun are soulmates and Maya tried to break their relationship and allured him to marry her. This soulmate stuff is all crap fed to us for centuries by epic romantic novels and movies. Arjun is a grown up guy, it doesn't matter if he can behave like that or not. It was his decision to choose his partner and he chose Maya. Yes Maya did try to woo him with whatever she has and same goes with Saanjh. Maya was successful and Saanjh wasn't. Arjun is with Saanjh because his relationship with Maya failed otherwise he would not be. I can't get how Maya became all evil in this and Saanjh the epitome of pure love.


Maya never came between Arjun and Saanjh. It was Arjun who brought her between them and it was him again who brought Saanjh between himself and Maya (a husband and wife). Now Saanjh is his wife but Maya is still between them because he is bringing her again by giving her more importance than what he has and what is in front of him. " The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference." If you say that you hate some one you love then that only means that you are hurt by them. You give that power to hurt you only to some one you love.

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