Search of Truth Part 40 updated page 149 - Page 59

Originally posted by: Sarana1234

The problem is that none of the characters have realised and accepted where have they failed. And that realisation has to come.

5. Ayan- I still don't understand, he was implicated by Maya i the rape case, he knew he was wronged then why did he instigate her when she was pregnant. If he knew she cannot change, then it was really bad timing. He should have maintained distance and planned his next move but confrontation? Really?

6. Arohi- I really hope she is not Arya's bandar, whichever way VM lost her life because of that. If either Arjun or Maya knew of her existence then this would be wrong to showcase the fight that happened thereafter.

Originally posted by: Sarana1234

This is an independent post, just that it still fits into this thread and that's why i am mailing it here.

1. The way i look at it, the reason no-one is complaining in this golden cage is that they are together and are not alone. It's like comparing to a lot of households or girls convent school hostels. The problem with Maya's cage was that jhanvi was alone.

2. When a child comes to this world, they do not know the social norms. A 1-2 yr old child would always snatch his favourite toy from another child. They have to be 'taught' to be social and they have to be checked right there and then. If parents/guardians fail to teach them social norms or give moral values, then yes they are the most irresponsible lot.

Jhanvi saying that maya is mad and bad and has anger issues is right but she has failed as a mother/guardian and she is equally if not more responsible.

It is not about her getting killed or anything, it is about realisation that she is the one who has not been able to give values and at the same time did not guard her from Ashwin.

3. Arjun- he failed miserably as a husband. He knew before marriage that Maya is possessive and had also seen her getting scared of Ashwin. But probably he has also not seen love of family as Vandana was always a felicitator and not his mother and was giving him everything but was not able to teach him to be responsible for his actions etc. He also has not experienced family values.

If i know a person has a problem, be it temperamental/suicidal/medical you deal with it by not stopping them only but give them enough confidence which i think Arjun did not try or do.

Maya had put cctv cameras in that 3 yrs time and not before that, which means he failed to earn her trust.

4. Saanjh- I really feel bad the way cv's have made her. She had a perfect family, perfect upbringing but failed her parents. Yes, her best friend needed her help and she should have given it but if you become the reason for insecurity you have to either help become a person secure and give the person more space for their relationship to grow. You don't complain.

Completely agree with u here, but that's how life is.

Sometimes u get best of upbringing like Prem n Suman yet u turn out to be a Sanjh who rather than concentrating on her career/ life went after to save her best friend from Mad Maya, even after Arjun insulted Sanjh again n again.

The problem withArjun n Vandana's relationship was that Arjun never accepted her as his mother. So whether she gave him any upbringing or not, Arjun learnt life his own way. Initially he wanted money fame etc n now he wants a family.

I don't think Arjun was a bad husband (despite the fact that he wanted the need to go to dusky every now n then). Arjun generally is a gud guy, but a wrong husband for Maya. Maya needed someone who can understand her, make her overcome her fears n not aggravate those. Who could have been patient with her, Arjun is a self centered person he just could not get what's going inside that brain of Maya's he didn't knew how to deal with her. In his life whenever he faced a problem the only person he could think of was dusky, that's the reason Dusky always meddled in their marriage. From his end he tried working out his marriage.

I think Maya is a victim of her own fears n insecurities. Obviously that's because Jahnavi failed as a mother to teach Maya Right n wrong. She lived in constant paranoia of losing Arjun n need to control him n keep him with her all her life, whereas Arjun wanted more space n other relations.

The biggest culprit of Maya's madness today is Jahnavi. She destroyed not just Maya's life but in the processArjun/SanjhAyan/Vandals/Mathurs too

I am not neglecting the fact that Arjun/Sanjh n Vandana Ayan don't have any flaws, they r flawed n grey characters but that doesn't mean that a person goes n kills them for revenge.

Even if Maya killed say Sanjh n she gets Arjun all for herself will all her fears n insecurities magically evaporate? Arjun will be lost without Dusky his guide (I am not saying Dusky is the right guide, but she has been one for Arjun since childhood n he doesn't know or can't take decisions without her). Will Maya then enjoy her life after killing so many people?

@sarana1234 u said all my points...even i will not justify maya's crimes...but she alone is not responsible for the crimes she committed..

Originally posted by: siri456

@sarana1234 u said all my points...even i will not justify maya's crimes...but she alone is not responsible for the crimes she committed..

everyone has their part...but no one is realizing it and they are simply blaming everything on maya...if they realize half of the problem will get solved...i really cannot connect with arjun and saanjh...knowing maya's issues the way they behaved when maya was pregnant cannot be considered as human flaw...even a normal wife cannot tolerate such toxic relation then how can maya..the difference between maya and other normal person is a normal person would have walk out from the marriage after seeing this dusky duffer relation..but maya being insane started committing crimes...even ayan could have control his anger till the birth of baby..but he instigated her very badly knowing her insecurities...the way arjun and saanjh behave before the 3yr leap was also not platonic..if cv's wanted to show maya as pure evil they could have not shown that holi dance and restaurant scene...this two incidents was the main reason why maya created golden cage for arjun ...he himself broke the trust of maya...and coming to saanjh why did she give clean chit to samay when he was the one who killed her father...samay was not a remote controller ...this creates a major doubt on saanjh character

Then what should a Normal wife do, if the husband goes behind his bestie all the time? Why does the husband feel the need to go behind the bestie? Even if after the wife tries from her end but still the husband doesn't listen, divorce is only an option. Y stay in a marriage where ur self respect is compromised.

U don't kill people because ur husband had an extra marital affair? If u do, law will catch up with u.

Samjh giving clean chit to Samay is wrong she shudnt have done that but how is Sanjh giving clean chit to her dad's killer make any difference to Maya? 🤪

Also Sanjh was such a hopeless character constructed by cvs she was ready to marry Samay too n needed Arjun's help to sort her problems out.

I wud have rather preferred if cvs created Sanjh as smart, independent rather than damsel in distress.

@anshvi, no one is contesting here, that maya is good ...what i am saying is everyone else is not perfect either. And those are not just human flaws. If at all... ayan's reaction could be considered as human.

Originally posted by: Sarana1234

@anshvi, no one is contesting here, that maya is good ...what i am saying is everyone else is not perfect either. And those are not just human flaws. If at all... ayan's reaction could be considered as human.

For saanjh... less said the better,.. she saves all her life...not for her education but to get married...in what generation do we live...forgives her father's killer. And yes... she hates maya not for being the reason for her father's death but for being Arjun's poison. And that is completely my perspective...because she is not what Prem would have wanted her to be.

And yes, i strongly believe the only thing you can give your children are the right values. And she has failed Prem for that.

The whole marriage thing is so overrated...assuming that Arjun and Saanj are in love...were always in love,.. best friends...and i mean in good sense...why is marriage is so important? Why couldn't they wait... What was the need for hurry?

@megha i have clearly mentioned in my post what would a normal wife do and maya is not normal ...that's why she is committing crimes...don't compare maya and saanjh in anyway...saanjh didn't go through what maya has gone through in her childhood..she had a very good upbringing and thank god she didn't had a parents like jhanvi and ashwin..

Originally posted by: Sarana1234

@anshvi, no one is contesting here, that maya is good ...what i am saying is everyone else is not perfect either. And those are not just human flaws. If at all... ayan's reaction could be considered as human.

For saanjh... less said the better,.. she saves all her life...not for her education but to get married...in what generation do we live...forgives her father's killer. And yes... she hates maya not for being the reason for her father's death but for being Arjun's poison. And that is completely my perspective...because she is not what Prem would have wanted her to be.

And yes, i strongly believe the only thing you can give your children are the right values. And she has failed Prem for that.

The whole marriage thing is so overrated...assuming that Arjun and Saanj are in love...were always in love,.. best friends...and i mean in good sense...why is marriage is so important? Why couldn't they wait... What was the need for hurry?

But if Arjun/ Sanjh n co r criminals n not flawed then how is Maya killing them justified?

How is Sanjh saving all her life for marriage a flaw? 😕

Yes She has failed Prem, she should rather have concentrated on her life n found a better partner for herself than Arjun as Prem advised. But still I just consider it a mistake not a crime.

N anyways even marrying Arjun fulfilling her only dream in life at the cost of her father's death is she happy? No. Isn't that a punishment for her bad karma's? Or only Maya killing Sanjh will be the ultimate justice?

Originally posted by: Sarana1234

The problem is that none of the characters have realised and accepted where have they failed. And that realisation has to come.

5. Ayan- I still don't understand, he was implicated by Maya i the rape case, he knew he was wronged then why did he instigate her when she was pregnant. If he knew she cannot change, then it was really bad timing. He should have maintained distance and planned his next move but confrontation? Really?

6. Arohi- I really hope she is not Arya's bandar, whichever way VM lost her life because of that. If either Arjun or Maya knew of her existence then this would be wrong to showcase the fight that happened thereafter.

Originally posted by: siri456

@megha i have clearly mentioned in my post what would a normal wife do and maya is not normal ...that's why she is committing crimes...don't compare maya and saanjh in anyway...saanjh didn't go through what maya has gone through in her childhood..she had a very good upbringing and thank god she didn't had a parents like jhanvi and ashwin..

Yes we all agree to that Maya is not Normal n any Normal wife wud divorce as I said. But here the problem doesn't lie only on Arjun Sanjh n co as it's being painted, here the problem lies with Maya too.