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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Iheart if Arjun had done that, why didnt he tell that also. Why play victim. Why didnt he tell to Ayan what all did he do to help his wife. As of now there is no evidence of Arjun doing anything of that sort . Unless it is shown with evidence he has done something to help her, Arjun's attitude on dumping all problems on Maya cannot be justified.
It is not with Maya. He has the habit of dumping all his problems on women. Earlier it was vm and saanjh. Now it is Maya.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _IHeartFriendz_

That's true

He should have taken her to a good psychiatrist very next day when she tried to harm herself. It's easier to do hands up when your spouse is mentally disturb, but hard to be with him/her forever.

But, what if he tried everything in all these years, but nothing worked. I would recommend not to leave your partner becoz of illness, that's real test of your loyalty, but Maya is something else, she's extream. When she's mad, she doesn't know one good limit and probably kill anyone, and when she's not mad, she starts living in her delusional land where there's nothing wrong with her marriage.

What if Arjun suggested to take help, but Maya refused. You can't drag someone to psychiatrist clinic. As I have said before in case of mental disorder self realisation is must.



You are right.. we still don't know if Arjun did try to help her get any psychiatric help all this while.. but so far he seems to have opened up quite a lot about all his miseries but didn't mention of any such attempt from his side.. not even when he talked about her suicide attempt to Ayaan.. the way he presents his case, he doesn't even seem to consider that Maya may have some serious mental issues..
@bold red- that is something I will not agree with.. there are several categories of mental disorders so one can not generalize.. in many cases patients are not aware.. that is why they say family support for such people is so important.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: MistyDawn



You are right.. we still don't know if Arjun did try to help her get any psychiatric help all this while.. but so far he seems to have opened up quite a lot about all his miseries but didn't mention of any such attempt from his side.. not even when he talked about her suicide attempt to Ayaan.. the way he presents his case, he doesn't even seem to consider that Maya may have some serious mental issues..
@bold red- that is something I will not agree with.. there are several categories of mental disorders so one can not generalize.. in many cases patients are not aware.. that is why they say family support for such people is so important.


@iheart

Red - what is self realisation do u even know ?
Self realisation is not possible most of the times in a person who is extremely disturbed in his mind.
A person who's normal mentally is only capable of self realisation.
And that's why mostly the mentally Disturbed people will be given a person's support for showing them right path.
You are trying to say whatever u feel like just to say maya is wrong but choose your words wisely .

And coming to arjun in FB he said ayan abt how he argued with maya and wanted to be out of that marriage just after sometime when he felt uncomfortable.
That means u can see here he didn't even try atleast once to see the problem in different ways but thought only to escape and leave from that problem. That's the most irresponsible thing by him.
Didn't he love her enough that he wanted to leave her on the first chance he felt uncomfortable ?
Why didn't he try more ? If he had asked for divorce after all these 3yrs trying to change maya or help her see a doc then it wud have been considerable but in fb after a year or something he wanted to leave just like that !
How is this justified even ?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The less said about Arjun the better... I will try to answer about Samay.
Samay, knows Maya inside out. He made a mistake and he reeped the consequence. But that only made his loyalty and love for Maya stronger.

Like Shruthi said in her posts Samay kept a test for Maya and Saanjh.

Saanjh failed that test and Maya aced it. The smirk I would like to think was his pride in Maya. That his girl is the right choice and this is the girl that one could trust with their life.

Samay gives Saanjh freedom and she runs to Arjun hides things from Samay her bf. She does not look at Arjun and Maya as a unit but is looking at the problems that Maya is causing... not the solution. Basically Saanjh is happy keeping Arjun single and Samay as her bf.

Samay offers himself to Maya, a woman who is in a very unhappy marriage, is unwanted by the society and talks the truth about her Hubby. But the girl is unwavering in her love and loyalty towards Arjun her husband. I am sure Maya knows all of Arjun's faults but she will not let another person insult him.

Given their past and knowing Maya... it will almost be next to impossible to get back in Mayas good books. Samay knew that he could not just go back to Maya to help her... she will refuse him and do the opposite. I would like to believe that Samay is also a manipulator, like Maya but he manipulates for Maya's good.

Will he be positive to Maya? The answer will be yes and no. His manipulations will make the current Maya extremely vulnerable and break her. And that will make her face the past. The good will be that no matter what he will be there for her...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss

The less said about Arjun the better... I will try to answer about Samay.

Samay, knows Maya inside out. He made a mistake and he reeped the consequence. But that only made his loyalty and love for Maya stronger.

Like Shruthi said in her posts Samay kept a test for Maya and Saanjh.

Saanjh failed that test and Maya aced it. The smirk I would like to think was his pride in Maya. That his girl is the right choice and this is the girl that one could trust with their life.

Samay gives Saanjh freedom and she runs to Arjun hides things from Samay her bf. She does not look at Arjun and Maya as a unit but is looking at the problems that Maya is causing... not the solution. Basically Saanjh is happy keeping Arjun single and Samay as her bf.

Samay offers himself to Maya, a woman who is in a very unhappy marriage, is unwanted by the society and talks the truth about her Hubby. But the girl is unwavering in her love and loyalty towards Arjun her husband. I am sure Maya knows all of Arjun's faults but she will not let another person insult him.

Given their past and knowing Maya... it will almost be next to impossible to get back in Mayas good books. Samay knew that he could not just go back to Maya to help her... she will refuse him and do the opposite. I would like to believe that Samay is also a manipulator, like Maya but he manipulates for Maya's good.

Will he be positive to Maya? The answer will be yes and no. His manipulations will make the current Maya extremely vulnerable and break her. And that will make her face the past. The good will be that no matter what he will be there for her...



BRILLIANT analysis of Samay ! yup that smirk/lop sided smile ( quite sexy btw😉) could be his pride on seeing Maya ace the test of loyalty ,the test he was talking about earlier.. now that I see it from your perspective.. he offered both the girls what they desire- and well I guess he guessed right about who would pass.. that smile..ya totally makes sense..
Edited by MistyDawn - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss

The less said about Arjun the better... I will try to answer about Samay.

Samay, knows Maya inside out. He made a mistake and he reeped the consequence. But that only made his loyalty and love for Maya stronger.

Like Shruthi said in her posts Samay kept a test for Maya and Saanjh.

Saanjh failed that test and Maya aced it. The smirk I would like to think was his pride in Maya. That his girl is the right choice and this is the girl that one could trust with their life.

Samay gives Saanjh freedom and she runs to Arjun hides things from Samay her bf. She does not look at Arjun and Maya as a unit but is looking at the problems that Maya is causing... not the solution. Basically Saanjh is happy keeping Arjun single and Samay as her bf.

Samay offers himself to Maya, a woman who is in a very unhappy marriage, is unwanted by the society and talks the truth about her Hubby. But the girl is unwavering in her love and loyalty towards Arjun her husband. I am sure Maya knows all of Arjun's faults but she will not let another person insult him.

Given their past and knowing Maya... it will almost be next to impossible to get back in Mayas good books. Samay knew that he could not just go back to Maya to help her... she will refuse him and do the opposite. I would like to believe that Samay is also a manipulator, like Maya but he manipulates for Maya's good.

Will he be positive to Maya? The answer will be yes and no. His manipulations will make the current Maya extremely vulnerable and break her. And that will make her face the past. The good will be that no matter what he will be there for her...


You are more or less right! Samay will stay with her in her battles till it is 'samay' for him to leave! Then her True Friend will take over, for her final rescue!
What Arjun or Samay failed to do for Maya, He will do it proving that He is her real Friend, Always!
Edited by Fernandes43 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss

The less said about Arjun the better... I will try to answer about Samay.

Samay, knows Maya inside out. He made a mistake and he reeped the consequence. But that only made his loyalty and love for Maya stronger.

Like Shruthi said in her posts Samay kept a test for Maya and Saanjh.

Saanjh failed that test and Maya aced it. The smirk I would like to think was his pride in Maya. That his girl is the right choice and this is the girl that one could trust with their life.

Samay gives Saanjh freedom and she runs to Arjun hides things from Samay her bf. She does not look at Arjun and Maya as a unit but is looking at the problems that Maya is causing... not the solution. Basically Saanjh is happy keeping Arjun single and Samay as her bf.

Samay offers himself to Maya, a woman who is in a very unhappy marriage, is unwanted by the society and talks the truth about her Hubby. But the girl is unwavering in her love and loyalty towards Arjun her husband. I am sure Maya knows all of Arjun's faults but she will not let another person insult him.

Given their past and knowing Maya... it will almost be next to impossible to get back in Mayas good books. Samay knew that he could not just go back to Maya to help her... she will refuse him and do the opposite. I would like to believe that Samay is also a manipulator, like Maya but he manipulates for Maya's good.

Will he be positive to Maya? The answer will be yes and no. His manipulations will make the current Maya extremely vulnerable and break her. And that will make her face the past. The good will be that no matter what he will be there for her...



Bold - so I wasn't the only one who thought that. I also thought and felt he was smirking because he was proud and had a huge respect for Maya seeing her loyalty and dedication. But at the same time I wasn't sure 100% if that was the reason and later cvs will reveal/show something else. However, that's what first came to my mind seeing that smirk, and it made the most sense for him smirking was because of her extreme loyalty.

Later he said he will drink poison for the girl which again reconfirmed that smirk must have been because of seeing her loyalty. He knows this girl is worth it, and he can even drink poison for her.
Edited by _Darling_ - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Darling_


Bold - so I wasn't the only one who thought that. I also thought and felt he was smirking because he was proud and had a huge respect for Maya seeing her loyalty and dedication. But at the same time I wasn't sure 100% if that was the reason and later cvs will reveal/show something else. However, that's what first came to my mind seeing that smirk, and it made the most sense for him smirking was because of her extreme loyalty.

Later he said he will drink poison for the girl which again reconfirmed that smirk must have been because of seeing her loyalty. He knows this girl is worth it, and he can even drink poison for her.


Yes Samay kind of thinks Maya is the ideal girl. He is in awe of her loyalty, trust and love and he wants it all for himself. That is why he is not jealous of what Maya shows to Arjun. But he is very unhappy when people fail to appreciate her goodness.

I dunno if Maya is Samays. But Samay is Mayas and thats that.

See this story is like ArYa story repeating again. This time Samay has fixed his target, Maya. He will move heaven and earth to reach her. But he is going to do that by opening Maya's eyes about herself and the world.

That I think is the key... unlike Maya who opened Arjun's eyes to her attractiveness, power and wealth. She did not wait for Arjun's true love... but she will learn the hard way that love is what will make people happy. Maya need to acknowledge that she suffocates and is equally unhappy in this relationship. And that to fail is ok.

Remember what Samay says, Maya needs no one... the world needs Maya!! In the end Maya would not need either Samay or Arjun. But this time not manipulation but love will make her choice.
Edited by poppinss - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Iheart if Arjun had done that, why didnt he tell that also. Why play victim. Why didnt he tell to Ayan what all did he do to help his wife. As of now there is no evidence of Arjun doing anything of that sort . Unless it is shown with evidence he has done something to help her, Arjun's attitude on dumping all problems on Maya cannot be justified.

It is not with Maya. He has the habit of dumping all his problems on women. Earlier it was vm and saanjh. Now it is Maya.


I dont know

I thought he might have tried something before giving up, but if he just got bored on fineday and decided to dump Maya then no one is more self centered than him. I really wish they reveal Arjun tried something, otherwise he'll come out as greed and selfish who wanted only bed of roses. The moment he noticed something is wrong, all he wanted to escape with that problem.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@poppins time has taken the test. And test of time always through fire. The quintessential agnipareeksha. The result of Agnipareeksha is seen when illusion breaks, perception breaks. Ram knew agni will not touch Sita or shall I say cannot touch Sita when she entered the fire. Because that's Sita and that is her dedication towards Ram.
Krishna knew what Arjun will chose when he gave him the choice on one side is my Narayani Sena and other side I am there Narayan without weapon. Make your choice.
Then why the test. It is to give the world the visual proof of what is the end result of those choices.

Here Saanjh chose past, Maya chooses present. No matter what the provocations are. Now the game will play to see what will be the result of these choices.

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