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Posted: 8 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: FlauntPessimism



This was never about Arya vs Saajun, its about the Beyhadness of Maya

Arya could be the end game post her treatment


Agree with you x
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Posted: 8 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: Darciny

I disagree with you slightly.

I admit Saanjh is getting too annoying with her constant arjun jhaap. It's been 3 years and she still is all about arjun which is very sickening.
But Arjun right now actually needs Saanjh. Not as a romantic interest but as a friend to him. Arjun needs his whole family too. For 3 years this guy has been isolated from everyone he knows and is comfortable with. On top of it, he is in an emotionally draining relationship. As much as Maya needs professional help, Arjun too needs some support system and that is his family and Saanjh.

P.S. Not a Saanjh/ Maya fan. I watch the show for the story and I have no problem with any endgames (be it arya or saajun or all 3 living separately). No bashing please!


agree
maybe i forgot to mention but i have no problem with saanjh helping Arjun but i want to feel that she has moved on but even after three year when she got a bf she is not paying any attention to him.

Arjun does need his family and friends around him at this point as he is not going through a good time right now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Maya needs counselling we knew from beginning. She has severe psychological issues. But as days progress I feel Saanjh also needs serious counselling.

You have a boy friend, you say you are comitted to him, then dont pay attention to him and only think about your ex lover ( Arjun is not a friend of Saanjh, she loved him or rather I would say still loves him) it is not a joke. It was sad to see Samay making parathas and only when he told Saanjh can go behind Arjun she paid some interest in those parathas.


well said, i completey agree with you

this is exactly what im trying to say
too much love is not good from mayas side and also being too clingy to one person is not good either
if i was arjun, i'd rather stay single forever 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

@xsumi true.

Saanjh Shud mind her own business but I doubt she ever will.
She is obsessed abt arjun and thinking ,talking only abt him.
And maya she definitely needs help of some doc.


both girls need help 😆
spare arjun pls 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: .bluebolt

Saanjh was away for 3yrs. What did that do to Arjun. Was he happy. His life got all the more messed up in 3yrs. I don't think ppl need to blow saanjh friendship out of proportion and equate her with mentally ill Maya. She will definitely move on if she found Arjun happy and settled in life. It's her friendship of 20+ yr which makes her feel Arjun is in trouble. What is that friendship, if you abandon your bestie when he is in trouble. I don't think any good friend should do that. She just want to talk to Arjun, she is not manipulating or playing mind games to separate Arjun Maya.


@bold honestly speaking if my best friend for 20 years came up to me and slapped me, treated me wrong and 3 years later i saw them needing help, i would not help. it was them who broke the friendship, thats the issue with people nowadays... they leave you and once you need help they come running back to you. it does not work like that.

after 3 years it did look as if saanjh moved on but ever since she come back from london her mind is focusing too much on Arjun. idm her helping him out but i want to feel as a viewer she has moved on

i dont mind saajun having best friend vibes together, but i want saanjh to give attention to her bf aswell but by the look of it it looks as if saanjh does not give 2 shots right now lol
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Posted: 8 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: _Darling_

Agree felt so bad for Arjun. Maya needs treatment badly and asap. Felt bad for both. More for Arjun. First time felt bad more for someone other than Maya. Also I thought Maya was trapping arjun and doing all that to prove Arjun as an abuser to the world? And here we instead saw her hitting herself at the thought of even the world to think that way about Arjun. Such desperation to make Maya negative by hook or crook with all kind of so called speculations just to make the s**tjun as end game, but all we get something else in the show. I knew Maya wasn't doing all that to plan against Arjun whom she loves more than her life.

As for the characterless one, no comments for today. She's a helpless case.


she needs treatment because at times it feels she knows she is doing a little wrong idk because she was slapping herself for being a bad wife, her slapping herself just proves she really needs help.

their relationship is very unhealthy and arjun needs some space.

the only character i feel who can help maya at this stage is samay for some reason

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Posted: 8 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: Nithunavi



Saanjh herself needs a help for her obsession and clingyness then how she's a better one than maya i don't understand.
Well it's ur pov and I can totally understand ur love for dusky😆



My love for dusky??? Why would I love dusky? How did you conclude I love her? Have I ever expressed my love for her? When did I say she is better

And by the way did you read my comment before responding, I said that loveless marriage is better than suffocating one, but in this case probably Saanjh would have been suffocating too,

I think this is pretty clear that I meant that Arjun and Saanjh's marriage would have had been equally unsuccessful

Just because I supported a Saanjh fan when she was abused in the most inhumane way possible over the net, I was tagged to be her friend (though I don't even know her), and now a Saanjh fan (although, I always ff her scenes while watching the show), but why am I even explaining to you, you seem to be pretty quick in making wrong conclusions
Edited by FlauntPessimism - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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will reply to the rest of the comments later 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: xsumi


@bold honestly speaking if my best friend for 20 years came up to me and slapped me, treated me wrong and 3 years later i saw them needing help, i would not help. it was them who broke the friendship, thats the issue with people nowadays... they leave you and once you need help they come running back to you. it does not work like that.

after 3 years it did look as if saanjh moved on but ever since she come back from london her mind is focusing too much on Arjun. idm her helping him out but i want to feel as a viewer she has moved on

i dont mind saajun having best friend vibes together, but i want saanjh to give attention to her bf aswell but by the look of it it looks as if saanjh does not give 2 shots right now lol


That is a difference between people. If I was that friend & if I was so close to a friend all my life, even if he slapped BC of some misunderstanding I would try to find out if I feel they are in trouble. I'm not saying saanjh would run behind arjun leaving her bf. As of now she is not wrong wanting to know if Arjun is in trouble. Her bf is also fine with it. But if she goes overboard I will change my views as of now she didn't suffocate arjun like Maya.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nithunavi



But saanjh is equally obsessed abt arjun she didn't even understand herself when he clearly said in park how they are only frnds.
And how come she can understand like no other.
And saanjh & arjun have diff views abt life. Arjun and saanjh r friends but saanjh only loves arjun, arjun never loved her and will be equally ignorant for towards if he married her also.
I don't think arjun wud be happy anyday if he married her bcoz she equally is clingy and obsessed of arjun who needs help like maya.
But idk what these two ladies have seen in this arjun guy that they r gng crazy for him in Beyhadh ways. 😆



Fact no 1 - Sanjh is not equally obsessed. That's absurd. She was/is far more in lover with her childhood sweetheart than Arjun ever could be and yes to some extent you can call her clingy. But she's no was as dangerous as Maaya and much saner in every way.

Fact no. 2 - Arjun has strong feelings of care and a dep bonding with her - just see his reactions when she was on fire. And Sanjh would have given him freedom and they would have been happy just like they were when there was no Maya in their life.

I guess we will never agree so I will leave it at that.
Edited by Lilac_N_Maple - 8 years ago

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