Both Maya and Saanjh need to give Arjun some space - Page 4

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

Ya...Since now Arya is not possible anymore...😆...Finally u can admit that...

So, rather than Saajun as endgame, better to hope for Arjun as gay, right?🤣

@xsumi true.

Saanjh was away for 3yrs. What did that do to Arjun. Was he happy. His life got all the more messed up in 3yrs. I don't think ppl need to blow saanjh friendship out of proportion and equate her with mentally ill Maya. She will definitely move on if she found Arjun happy and settled in life. It's her friendship of 20+ yr which makes her feel Arjun is in trouble. What is that friendship, if you abandon your bestie when he is in trouble. I don't think any good friend should do that. She just want to talk to Arjun, she is not manipulating or playing mind games to separate Arjun Maya.

Agree felt so bad for Arjun. Maya needs treatment badly and asap. Felt bad for both. More for Arjun. First time felt bad more for someone other than Maya. Also I thought Maya was trapping arjun and doing all that to prove Arjun as an abuser to the world? And here we instead saw her hitting herself at the thought of even the world to think that way about Arjun. Such desperation to make Maya negative by hook or crook with all kind of so called speculations just to make the s**tjun as end game, but all we get something else in the show. I knew Maya wasn't doing all that to plan against Arjun whom she loves more than her life.

Agree mostly except for the fact that Saanjh didn't ever choke arjun so it's strange that arjun needs space from her as well, because she wasn't in the picture for long. What I feel about her is that, she's not the only one who can help arjun like she believes. In fact no one in world can help arjun, or otherwise almost everyone can help arjun. The fact is help can only come if he's ready to open his mouth before anyone at all. The only difference being others will ask for proof that he's the one who's tortured, while saanjh won't. But doesn't make any difference till arjun lets anyone else an insight to the hell which probably he won't, because no matter what he cares for maya be it as a husband or as a human with a heart. Publicising is not what he's opting for otherwise he could have done that by hook or by crook.

Maya has no understanding of such things as giving space . If she would have she wouldn't do all these . Maya is a product of dysfunctional parents ..had an abusive childhood & her parents were never perfect & so she never had a perfect family. But she dreams of having one I feel & thinks she can get that just by controlling & manipulating things her way . She has no idea that she's suffocating the other person by trying to build her perfect family image She lives in her own delusional world & thinks she has a perfect family. . The way she jumped out of her balcony ..if Arjun hadn't got hold of her feet she would have been dead. So her suicidal attempts are not fake but she genuinely has no love for her life minus Arjun . She is not afraid of death .

Maya is not evil .. she is not torturing Arjun knowingly like Amy Dunne in GG used to do. She cannot see Arjun in pain but has no idea that she's the cause of his pain. To normal people she will come across as evil person torturing a helpless husband but in reality this girl is totes damaged in the brain. She needs treatment & we can't expect giving space & all from her.

I would have loved if Arjun had not been this white character that they r showing him now cuz now he appears to be a totally helpless man trapped in a toxic relationship. In the first phase he actually had flaws now he's pura victim 😕

Saanjh on the other hand is totally obsessed person. It seems after their meet Arjun is not shown thinking about her or sad that she has moved on in her life .. hes in his own dark world with Maya .. but this girl .. in spite of others telling her she should move on with Samay she seems totally uninterested as always & started meri duffer problem main hai jaap ! Its we who know Samay is fishy & has some other motives & he's just not the bf he claims to be . But Saanjh & all doesn' t know that ..matlab woh sabki life kharab karegi in her mission to make her duffer happy . Did Arjun ask her for help but NIKLO was his words to her. He doesn't want her or anyone in his dark world.
This Samay i think wants to make Saajun together. At the party he left them to have their moment .. now he tells her to get involved in Arjun's life .. the green signal that Saanjh was waiting for & Ms.Smiley gave the biggest smile hearing his words 😆
I can understand being a friend Saanjh cannot see him unhappy but dude he's not wanting you to interfere in his matters .. so please at least respect what he wants !
Vandy suman Ayaan everyone knows Arjun has problems ..but they also know he has to deal with that alone.
saanjh and arjun relationship was not mental torture for him ..but that wasn't perfect either. Saanjh was always nagging him ..& invaded too much of his space ...not suffocating him like Maya does but made him totally dependent on her. If Arjun & Saanjh end up together it would just be like he will take her for granted & she would be his doormat.

So basically we can't expect Maya to give him space something she doesn' t even understand & Saanjh she thinks she's the only person who can help her duffer & so don't expect her to give him space either.

arjun dont want it , vandna gave him space now he is angry on her det she forgot him 😆 if sanjh did it he'll blame her too , arjun is most confuse n weak character of dis show , he dont know wat he want

Originally posted by: .bluebolt

Saanjh was away for 3yrs. What did that do to Arjun. Was he happy. His life got all the more messed up in 3yrs. I don't think ppl need to blow saanjh friendship out of proportion and equate her with mentally ill Maya. She will definitely move on if she found Arjun happy and settled in life. It's her friendship of 20+ yr which makes her feel Arjun is in trouble. What is that friendship, if you abandon your bestie when he is in trouble. I don't think any good friend should do that. She just want to talk to Arjun, she is not manipulating or playing mind games to separate Arjun Maya.

Basically, Arjun has been spoon fed all his life. Both Saanjh & Maya has been doing that. Both the ladies never allowed him to grow. The only difference between them is Maya is more controlling. I don't expect her to know the concept of giving space as she was brought up that way. No one was there to knock some sense into her head. She does not know what is love as she has never experienced it. I liked Saanjh when she was defending Maya against Vandana but again she has been invading in Arjun's life, time & again. Now her parents & Vandana also tells her to move on in her life but she does not. Samay has got an ulterior motive behind pushing Saanjh towards Arjun. Maya needs treatment very badly. She needs to stop thinking that the whole world is against her.

Wow woke up to quite a lot of comments 😃
Sorry on my way to university now so will reply to everyone in the evening x

Read them all and very good points, will reply soon x thanks xx