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Nithunavi thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
#11
No 101% No at this moment.
And I have no hopes on that girl. She will again come back like a chipku if she sees arjun once.😆
All her life she has only one thing in life Arjun. And still she didn't get over him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Agree, Saanjh was not all that pure! (but I give it to her, after all , she is a young girl and sometimes fails to fight her emotions). But was she not selfless when the indecisive Arjun was about to get-up from the Mandap, during Shadhi rituals. She forced him to sit there when Maya looked on, nervously. Even VM was against Arya' marriage but Saanjh suppoted them. If this is not self less act, what else could it be?


That's not any selfless mahan act ! Even if she had not come & created that whole nonsense of scene maya&arj marriage wud have happened.
That girl came & spoiled their Marriage singing such song to gain sympathy & declaration of her love.
Who in the world sings such song in someone marriage if they really want to make happen marriage all happy for that person !
She was just trying desperately her attempts of making arjun show that she loves so much,thats it.
On that day she wasn't needed at all .
And don't forget that she wanted arjun to be unhappy on his marriage.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fernandes43

Agree, Saanjh was not all that pure! (but I give it to her, after all , she is a young girl and sometimes fails to fight her emotions). But was she not selfless when the indecisive Arjun was about to get-up from the Mandap, during Shadhi rituals. She forced him to sit there when Maya looked on, nervously. Even VM was against Arya' marriage but Saanjh suppoted them. If this is not self less act, what else could it be?


But then it is the same Saanjh who sang the emotional song to get the sympathy of others and get Arjun's attention. After the wedding, Suman told her not to be the third wheel between them but she has not listened to her parents. The restaurant & holy scenes are very much awful. If you or anyone else say that Maya had spiked the drink for that PDA, I will never buy that excuse because they were not the only ones to consume it. Even if a person drinks, they would not lose the complete control. Saanjh & Arjun wanted to behave that way. If Saanjh was so pure, she should have maintained a respectable distance from Arjun. She should've given him a tight slap when he said I love you. She should have quit the job. Any normal woman would do that. This shows her hypocrisy.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14
No
She thinks yes, but no. Maybe when she gets to know her Duffer more closely, then she can, she can learn amazing things about him😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nithunavi


That's not any selfless mahan act ! Even if she had not come & created that whole nonsense of scene maya&arj marriage wud have happened.
That girl came & spoiled their Marriage singing such song to gain sympathy & declaration of her love.
Who in the world sings such song in someone marriage if they really want to make happen marriage all happy for that person !
She was just trying desperately her attempts of making arjun show that she loves so much,thats it.
On that day she wasn't needed at all .
And don't forget that she wanted arjun to be unhappy on his marriage.Point conceeded. Maya would have made sure shadhi takes place, come what may. She does not need S
aanjhs help . But ,what about Saanjh's reaction when Arjun was hesitant ? Was it just a play-act?

Edited by Fernandes43 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What ! When was arjun hesitant ! He was the one to ask his mom shut up & told her strongly 'come what may his marriage with maya take place' .
It was maya who locked up herself in room but then surely she & arjun wud have solved their problem within less time & married.
Saanjh made a showoff herself to let whole world know that she is sacrificing arjun which in first place arjun was never hers clearly.
But she had to do that to gain herself sympathy from arjun.
Anyway i don't care abt arjun or saanjh. Both r no less of evil.
One is selfish & greedy ,other is obsessed & dont see ppl suffering bcoz of her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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What selfishness has saanjh portrayed is beyond my understanding. Sometimes she even behaved like doormat.
Arjun was someone who she loved from childhood. If childhood shaped maya the way she is then childhood shaped saanjh the way she is. Why is it so difficult to accept? Vandana needed saanjh since arjun hated her from childhood. So obviously saanjh turned to be closest to arjun. Arjun was more dependant on saanjh. Everybody in family also wanted them to be together. She just accepted it subconsciously. So what wrong? So she always kept arjun s happiness above her. It was difficult to watch ArYa but arjun never let her go and she dint go because his happiness was above her. Dancing with a married man was she was drunk. She wasn't in conscious state. Subconsciously she always loved arjun. One cannot stop loving an individual it takes time to get over it. What matters is saanjh had no intention of stealing him from maya.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I m sure people know the truth but people have blind love for maya and blind hatred for saanjh.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

What selfishness has saanjh portrayed is beyond my understanding. Sometimes she even behaved like doormat.

Arjun was someone who she loved from childhood. If childhood shaped maya the way she is then childhood shaped saanjh the way she is. Why is it so difficult to accept? Vandana needed saanjh since arjun hated her from childhood. So obviously saanjh turned to be closest to arjun. Arjun was more dependant on saanjh. Everybody in family also wanted them to be together. She just accepted it subconsciously. So what wrong? So she always kept arjun s happiness above her. It was difficult to watch ArYa but arjun never let her go and she dint go because his happiness was above her. Dancing with a married man was she was drunk. She wasn't in conscious state. Subconsciously she always loved arjun. One cannot stop loving an individual it takes time to get over it. What matters is saanjh had no intention of stealing him from maya.


@bold: if that is fine with you, what would you do if you were in Maya's boots? You will say that you would have divorced but it is easier said than done. If you have married the person you loved and if the same thing had come to your doorstep, then you will know what it is.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I m sure people know the truth but people have blind love for maya and blind hatred for saanjh.


Nobody loves Maya blindly. At least Maya does not interfere between husband & wife like Saanjh does.

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