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Posted: 8 years ago
It's only because the DT of this forum is totally inactive that members think they can get away & are getting away with this kind of blatant name calling...Ike "bashers"..."Maaya haters" etc...
Along with delusions of a non existent love story, some people also believe that members are not posting on their threads of an open forum, because of their most ridiculous lines like ," Bashers stay away"...😆

Ignorance is indeed bliss 😃


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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kavsy


After what Maya saw, she had decided to take revenge from Arjun by making his life a hell. After he moved out of Vandana's place, it is his fault for lying to her and drinking with Saanjh in the restaurant. It is not easy for any woman to forget it and more so with Maya. We have to wait & see what has happened in those 3 years that has brought a drastic change. But definitely, there are faults from both the sides. Maya is manipulative but Arjun is not a saint either.


When did I say Arjun is a saint??? And revenge, Maya still feels that Arjun is bhola. 😆

If Arjun isn't a good husband, she should have either confronted him regarding the same or divorced him, rather than controlling him. If she chooses the method of controlling him, it is not only because she never has seen real love, it is the fact that she wants to win him, to control him, to control her love, because she feels its her right. If he didn't love her, yet she wants to control him, she clearly doesn't see that there is space between two people no matter how they are close.
Clearly, her love is toxic. That believes in choking the person too if he doesn't love her too. Because, that is her definition of love. He doesn't love her was clearly established in the later episodes of marriage. But, she doesn't leave him, she doesn't hate him, instead she controls him. Because she believes that love works that way.

Arjun is clearly at fault. But had if she had got a good husband too, somewhere her insecurities might have showed up. But that husband would have taken her care and understood her emotional needs and would have asked her to show up for treatment.

But, it is Arjun and her Beyhadhness has showed up now. That suppressed feelings have come up and no one is tending to it. AND that is the whole point of how thrilling Beyhadh is going to be. Because Beyhadh was about a dark thriller and not a love story where the guy changes the girl with his love. It is not a gender role reversal of other serials.

I repeat, I never said Arjun is a saint and I never said Maya is the sole cause or whatever. If I liked the episode doesn't mean, I hate Maya.

Anyways, we might agree to disagree. So, I end my argument here. 😛
Edited by Intuitive - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Since you have mentioned it is for like minded people, I guess it was inappropriate to post here. I felt you were speaking of bashers, and I clearly never bashed any character. Anyway, thanks for clearing it that you meant like minded people. If caused any inconvenience, it was unintentional.

Peace out!
Edited by Intuitive - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
@kavsy allow the story to unfold. How do you think Arjun will clear Maya's darkness. No that darkness she only has to clear, by believing in herself, by throwing away her need to have a facade. That path is only through darkness and if we have to see light we have to see absence of it also
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Khushi---

It's only because the DT of this forum is totally inactive that members think they can get away & are getting away with this kind of blatant name calling...Ike "bashers"..."Maaya haters" etc...

Along with delusions of a non existent love story, some people also believe that members are not posting on their threads of an open forum, because of their most ridiculous lines like ," Bashers stay away"...😆

Ignorance is indeed bliss 😃



Yes, I agree wth you that mods or DT are inactive in this forum. Even people from your end keep telling that you are ridiculous, delusional, idiot and what not & get away. They are Saanjh supporters. Even one of the members has badmouthed a character which Nithu has already pointed out. This is nothing compared to what we are using. I know the usernames but I don't want to tell the names here openly. I have seen in some of the threads that bashers & non-supporters need not reply in which the mods are active. If you comment n SNS forum in case you are watching the show, you will find that mods are very much active & are very strict.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Intuitive

Since you have mentioned it is for like minded people, I guess it was inappropriate to post here. I felt you were speaking of bashers, and I clearly never bashed any character. Anyway, thanks for clearing it that you meant like minded people. If caused any inconvenience, it was unintentional.


Peace out!


Well, if you are not bashing you don't have to take it personally.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kavsy


when you say that you don't have to explain about what you have posted or on what you have clicked on like button, how can you expect an explanation from others? You say that forum is not divided to which I agree but our views are divided. To answer this question more precisely, this particular thread is only for the like-minded members.


I have not demanded an explanation, there's a difference between demanding an answer and a query that aims at understanding something better. Latter is what I was doing. I have never once asked you to explain me as to why you posted what you did or why you pressed liked button for a post, on the contrary, you seem to do that a lot to me.


I have always believed that forum is divided into sections, as in the viewers of this show are divided into sections based on what they think of the show and its characters. But I can't be expected to wrap my head around the notion that the ones who liked the episode are 'haters'. This is exactly what I had told you in one of your other threads too, if you're okay with terming a section of audience as 'haters' or 'bashers', please remember you might have to be okay with it too if any of the other sections refers to you as a 'hater'.

Now that you have said that the thread is for like minded members (although the note on the first page isn't supporting your answer) I'll make an exit. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Intuitive


When did I say Arjun is a saint??? And revenge, Maya still feels that Arjun is bhola. 😆

If Arjun isn't a good husband, she should have either confronted him regarding the same or divorced him, rather than controlling him. If she chooses the method of controlling him, it is not only because she never has seen real love, it is the fact that she wants to win him, to control him, to control her love, because she feels its her right. If he didn't love her, yet she wants to control him, she clearly doesn't see that there is space between two people no matter how they are close.
Clearly, her love is toxic. That believes in choking the person too if he doesn't love her too. Because, that is her definition of love. He doesn't love her was clearly established in the later episodes of marriage. But, she doesn't leave him, she doesn't hate him, instead she controls him. Because she believes that love works that way.

Arjun is clearly at fault. But had if she had got a good husband too, somewhere her insecurities might have showed up. But that husband would have taken her care and understood her emotional needs and would have asked her to show up for treatment.

But, it is Arjun and her Beyhadhness has showed up now. That suppressed feelings have come up and no one is tending to it. AND that is the whole point of how thrilling Beyhadh is going to be. Because Beyhadh was about a dark thriller and not a love story where the guy changes the girl with his love. It is not a gender role reversal of other serials.

I repeat, I never said Arjun is a saint and I never said Maya is the sole cause or whatever. If I liked the episode doesn't mean, I hate Maya.

Anyways, we might agree to disagree. So, I end my argument here. 😛


This is the umpteenth time I am getting this question as to why Maya didn't confront Arjun & I have already answered to Tanvi. If you want to see my answer, please refer to that post. When I tell the full Ramayan & if people ask me who is Ram or Sita, there is no need for me to answer it again. We don't actually know what happened in these 3 years. Beyhadh is a dark thriller cum love story. I had initially signed up for the suspense. It has assured us that it will be different from other shows. It has to give justice to all the characters including Maya. If Maya is mentally sick, the cause has to be found out as to what made her like that instead of branding her MAD.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kavsy


Well, if you are not bashing you don't have to take it personally.


I don't take anything personally from the forum.😆

In my opinion, I know not of one member who bashes Maya. Because everyone is here because of her. So I don't get who bashes or hates Maya? They disapprove of her actions, but I've never seen words of level like homewrecker, mistress that are used for Saanjh for Maya.

My advice is don't generalize things. But, it's all left up to you. 😛
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: .annihilation.


I have not demanded an explanation, there's a difference between demanding an answer and a query that aims at understanding something better. Latter is what I was doing. I have never once asked you to explain me as to why you posted what you did or why you pressed liked button for a post, on the contrary, you seem to do that a lot to me.


I have always believed that forum is divided into sections, as in the viewers of this show are divided into sections based on what they think of the show and its characters. But I can't be expected to wrap my head around the notion that the ones who liked the episode are 'haters'. This is exactly what I had told you in one of your other threads too, if you're okay with terming a section of audience as 'haters' or 'bashers', please remember you might have to be okay with it too if any of the other sections refers to you as a 'hater'.

Now that you have said that the thread is for like minded members (although the note on the first page isn't supporting your answer) I'll make an exit. 😊


Even I have not demanded any explanation or the answer from you. I had asked you this question because you had posted in one of the threads saying you are an idiot etc..just cos the other person does not agree with them. And on the other hand, you had hit the like button. Even if you don't give any explanation that is fine with us but you were contradicting yourself. Anyway, I will edit that & put like minded.

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