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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Saanjh is condemned when she acts insensible, by me and, i can't vouch for all of them but some sensible viewers that i know of. I for one, didn't approve of her going to mauritius or thinking maya has committed a crime by taking antidepressants and not telling Arjun.

As for today's episode, i totally get why Saanjh held his face in her hands. Arjun is her biggest weakness. He has the power to control her every action. After putting up a brave face throughout the wedding and thereafter, she fell weak when Arjun said ILU to her. Her love for Arjun made her weak and reduced her thinking power. I say this, not because I'm blindly supporting Saanjh, but because had this not been the case, she wouldn't hv seen the tattoo and come back to her senses. If she really was a homewrecker, she wouldn't have given a damn about the tattoo and would have gone ahead and kissed him. So a mistake has happened, surely, but it was quickly rectified by Saanjh herself. Now, coming to Arjun, i have said it earlier, he had no business leaving his pregnant wife and going to drink with Saanjh. It was totally wrong on his part. But this mistake, needs to be dealt with in the right way. What maya is doing is not justified, even if Arjun has hurt her because it simply is not the solution. What if tomorrow Arjun does the same thing with another girl? She being Maya will surely eliminate that girl too, and all the other girls/ppl that come in Arjun's life. End result? Arjun's identity will be reduced to Mr. Maya and nothing else. He will hv no friends but maya, no well wishers but maya. And the worst part? He won't even realise what's happening. And I'm sure that nobody deserves such a fate for just being close to their best friend.

About the holi spoiler. I will still not comment because then even if it's not the case, it will look like I'm blindly defending Saanjh, so i will rather wait until the episode airs to clear my doubts before commenting.

Mistakes are accepted when they are genuine and condemnable, it's just that some ArYa fans feel that anyone who speaks against maya is a Saanjh/Arjun/Vandana lover who has some hidden agenda against maya's character.

Maya told them both. She talked to both, Arjun and Dusky dont cross the limits. Maya talked to Dusky more than once, several times. How many times more should she say? Trillion?
And talked to Vandana too
Maya said, Maya warned

When people do not understand words, you start acting in other ways
And then there's nothing to complain about when something happens, yeah

And yes, in fact, Maya just needs to get away from Arjun, and not talk and do not self-torture - this is the only really right decision
But what can we do if your holy innocent Dusky took this opportunity from Maya?
And Dusky didn't pull herself in hands soon, she crossed the limits! It's not the first time by the way!
And by the way, she accept Maya as a friend, and she betrayed her friend!

Coming to Arjun Dusky's weakness, she loves him, so she is to blame, but not quite
Maya loves him too! He's her weakness too! So why the hell can you justify Dusky's continuing crossed all possible limits of this love and weakness, but for Maya there's never any excuse?
Although in fact, Maya doesn't need to be justified - she didn't throw garbage on people, she didn't dig in someone's personal and medical records, she didn't confess in love to someone's fiance, she didn't intend to kiss her friend's husband, so why the hell Maya must pay? For what?
Edited by Laska - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Nietzy

V can't justify everything in d name of weakness right? She shud learn to say no. Her parents hv been guiding her n she is a grown up sensible woman... she has to think of her own good.


If a best friend whom u love needs u n wants ur support, will u say no to him? Yes, i agree she should move on with her life and think about her well being, and not Arjun's. But Saanjh was never that kind of a person. Had she not tried to stay away, then probably she was worthy of questioning but the fact is that she did try move away from Arjun. She was going to Singapore, she gave her resignation in f n c. It's Arjun who is not letting her go, not she not trying to maintain her distance.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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^ So if dy end up sleeping together, wud it still not be a mistake, but just her weakness?
Edited by Nietzy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Laska

Maya told them both. She talked to both, Arjun and Dusky dont cross the limits. Maya talked to Dusky more than once, several times. How many times more should she say? Trillion?
And talked to Vandan too
Maya said, Maya warned

When people do not understand words, you start acting in other ways
And then there's nothing to complain about when something happens, yeah

And yes, in fact, Mae just needs to get away from Arjun, and not talk and do not self-torture - this is the only really right decision
But what can you do if your holy innocent Dusky took this opportunity from Maya?
And Dusky didn't pull herself in hands soon, she crossed the limits! It's not the first time by the way!
And by the way, she accept Maya as a friend, and she betrayed her friend!

Coming to Arjun Dusky's weakness, she loves him, so she is to blame, but not quite
Maya loves him too! He's her weakness too! So why the hell can you justify Dusky's continuing crossed all possible limits of this love and weakness, but for Maya there's never any excuse?
Although in fact, Maya doesn't need to be justified - she didn't throw garbage on people, she didn't dig in someone's personal and medical records, she didn't confess someone's fiance, she didn't intend to kiss her friend's husband, so why the hell Maya must pay? For what?


Ur first line, when did this happen? Pls tell me the episode no, and scene, will correct myself.
If u mean the dinner threatening scene to Saanjh, it was at a time when Arjun was not even Maya's. So where does the question of talking to them both arise?
She threatened vandana, didn't 'talk' to her. Anyway, i don't even know why u brought up vandana in the first place.

I don't want to argue with u about Saanjh, because u have totally missed my point. Happily believe whatever u wish.
Maya's intentions are morally wrong! Her actions, are morally wrong and not justifiable. And pls don't argue with me that Saanjh's intentions or actions are not morally right, i have said why Saanjh's intentions or actions are not wrong, read n understand if u want, otherwise I'm really not interested in convincing u. Because no matter what, Ur badmouthing Saanjh is not going to stop and this thread will be dragged unnecessarily.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: Nietzy

^ So if dy end up sleeping together, wud it still not be a mistake, but just her weakness?


They won't, i trust Saanjh enough for that. N even if it hypothetically happens i wont be defending Saanjh for being downright stupid.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16
I don't see Maya happy. She keept on wiping her tears when she saw Arjun and Saanjh cheating behind her back.
Looks like a dead Ashwin is making sure Maya is kept out of happiness as Arjun is becoming another Ashwin in the making!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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^ Just like Saanjh's excuse is her weakness for Arjun, Maya's excuse is also her weakness for Arjun and her past. Just like according to you, Saanjh is not at mistake till she sleeps with Arjun, Maya will not be wrong till she kills anybody.
Anyway, i was just pointing out certain things. I do feel Maya, Saanjh n Arjun are all flawed characters n are wrong.

BTW what is your take on emotional infidelity?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: lumos_31



Ur first line, when did this happen? Pls tell me the episode no, and scene, will correct myself.
If u mean the dinner threatening scene to Saanjh, it was at a time when Arjun was not even Maya's. So where does the question of talking to them both arise?
She threatened vandana, didn't 'talk' to her. Anyway, i don't even know why u brought up vandana in the first place.

I don't want to argue with u about Saanjh, because u have totally missed my point. Happily believe whatever u wish.
Maya's intentions are morally wrong! Her actions, are morally wrong and not justifiable. And pls don't argue with me that Saanjh's intentions or actions are not morally right, i have said why Saanjh's intentions or actions are not wrong, read n understand if u want, otherwise I'm really not interested in convincing u. Because no matter what, Ur badmouthing Saanjh is not going to stop and this thread will be dragged unnecessarily.


She talked to Saanjh the day Arjun and Maya got engaged in that scene with Maya wearing the orange dress. Maya told Saanjh to maintain the relation of a friend... Saanjh crossed that today
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@lumos_31, Maya told Arjun as well, remember when Maya was in hospital (that's after saanjh-confessing-to-Arjun scene I guess) she told arjun that I don't have problem with your and Saanjh friendship but know the limitations. Even he agreed with her at that time.
Edited by Lovepreet1 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: lumos_31


Ur first line, when did this happen? Pls tell me the episode no, and scene, will correct myself.
If u mean the dinner threatening scene to Saanjh, it was at a time when Arjun was not even Maya's. So where does the question of talking to them both arise?
She threatened vandana, didn't 'talk' to her. Anyway, i don't even know why u brought up vandana in the first place.

I don't want to argue with u about Saanjh, because u have totally missed my point. Happily believe whatever u wish.
Maya's intentions are morally wrong! Her actions, are morally wrong and not justifiable. And pls don't argue with me that Saanjh's intentions or actions are not morally right, i have said why Saanjh's intentions or actions are not wrong, read n understand if u want, otherwise I'm really not interested in convincing u. Because no matter what, Ur badmouthing Saanjh is not going to stop and this thread will be dragged unnecessarily.

Maya told to Dusky in Mauritius, Maya told to Dusky at the engagement "Don't cross the limits" And do as much as you like, but don't cross the limits of friendship. "Maya told Arjun in the hospital - "to differentiate between love and friendship is not so difficult. Draw and keep the line"
Has anyone listened? Maya warned. You have been warned, you are not listening, you are getting consequences. That's all! Everything else is lyrics. Arjun is her husband, and she has the right to deal her family life as she sees fit

When Dusky was within hers limits, nobody touched her. Crossing the limits - be kind, get the result. And do not complain later. Because you had a choice. You made it. Get the result

To confess to love a someone's fianc when his fiance is in the hospital to you is right intention, right?
To drag a married man late at night to a restaurant, this is to you right intention, right?
Going to kiss a married man to you is the right intention, right?
And after all this, you are talking about Maya's intentions, seriously?
Here the double standards are in full growth, easy!
Here the logic in the trash is broken, and you continue to close your eyes
Saanj isn't a saint and her actions are not subject to either excuse or redemention. She is confused with a married man! She's a fallen woman!

And Maya's intentions are wrong, and bad, yes exactly, yeah😆😆😆

Edited by Laska - 8 years ago

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