Jealousy?.. Or the limit?..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This cute Arjun begins to understand how it is ...
What does it mean to share relationships, how to conduct border. Until recently, even after recognition of Dusky, he told this Maya, Arjun did not see anything strange in that hugging with Dusky. Share your moments of personal friendships whatsoever without looking at anyone.
It would seem that after the wedding, there is nothing change, however ...
There Ayan, and he likes his Bahu, he likes to joke with her, and he did not see anything strange in the fact, to hug her.
It all started with a air kiss that Arjun has decided to intercept and keep.
Continued nice hugs, when Arjun has just takes Maya to himself. And in the air rings a warning "Don't get too close!" ...
At Arjun there is no reason to be jealous - Ayan doesn't love Maya, and to have a doubt in Maya's love he has no necessary at all (in contrast to the situation in which Maya), but it is not comfortable, and even a joke will limit its comfortable relationship for Ayan and Maya.
This border Arjun did not want to accept and understand, he thought that should remain as before - all his habits with Dusky, and his new relationship must get along on their own, but it still has to make an effort not to break someone else's comfort, comfort one who he loves.
And Arjun does not embrace Dusky, but simply extends his hand.
His behavior changed, for his own private correction to display Ayan attention to Maya.
The thin limit between where you comfortably, and when something goes farther than your comfort can tolerate...

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shruthiravi thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Laska every relation has a limit. Whenever a new relation comes all relations have to redraw their boundaries. It takes some time, but then it has to be done.
Maya says devar in relation is brother but the relationship maintained is that of a friend. Yes Ayan can be friendly, but then the relation has to be always remembered she is his sister.
And in a way Vandana was right while she scolded Ayan for calling Maya hotness ki Devi. A devar has to know what he should and should not call his bhabi.

Saanjh-Arjun also has to re draw boundaries, else it will be uncomfortable for Maya. All problems happens when the re drawing of boundaries doesnt happen.

Because whenever a new relation comes something changes and we have to accept that change. unless everyone understand it change doesnt happen and the result will be kit pit.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ayan always had a crush on Maya right from first time he saw her😆😆 Maybe that's why also Arjun get annoyed 😆
ishakumar thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's good to see that everyone changed their behavior according to time and situation now :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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lol its very obvious that if maya had a male friend that she hugged or said 'i love u' to arjun wud be very jealous

so i dont know why people expect maya to not feel anything about arjun and saanjhs friendship, wen we know openly that saanjh loves arjun
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: zara321

lol its very obvious that if maya had a male friend that she hugged or said 'i love u' to arjun wud be very jealous

so i dont know why people expect maya to not feel anything about arjun and saanjhs friendship, wen we know openly that saanjh loves arjun


Exactly!
Many people think it's ok for a guy to do it
But if a girl gets jealous it's wrong 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I guess in any r/ship there should be a limit ... 😆 hadh se zyada
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You made a very good point...I hadn't really thought much about it...now that you said this, I honk Arjun only shook Saanjh's hand during the after marriage police fiasco as well!
Ayaan is cute and has always been open about his likeness for Maya, but yes, every relationship has a limit and the boundary, so does the Maya-Ayaan relationship! There definitely is a limit to what he can say or not say about her!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now that you pointed it out I realized it too. After the drama that Arjun & Saanjh did during marriage it's good that now they have learnt to draw the line.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Laska every relation has a limit. Whenever a new relation comes all relations have to redraw their boundaries. It takes some time, but then it has to be done.

Maya says devar in relation is brother but the relationship maintained is that of a friend. Yes Ayan can be friendly, but then the relation has to be always remembered she is his sister.
And in a way Vandana was right while she scolded Ayan for calling Maya hotness ki Devi. A devar has to know what he should and should not call his bhabi.

Saanjh-Arjun also has to re draw boundaries, else it will be uncomfortable for Maya. All problems happens when the re drawing of boundaries doesnt happen.

Because whenever a new relation comes something changes and we have to accept that change. unless everyone understand it change doesnt happen and the result will be kit pit.

Yes, exactly. Relations between the two person have their limits and beyond. When to the relations between two comes somebody else, the relationship will inevitably have to change, or they simply do not survive.

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