'You can never love anyone to your own detriment...'| 6th feb-epi 85. - Page 3

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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@annj i can imagine arjun n saanjh dark if this movie will take inspiration from zid movie.

Otherwise i agree arjun have not planned to trap maya or he is marrying for revenge.

but i feel i expect to see grey arjun, Surely in future he will forget how he got ceo position , he will be blinded by his greed n ego .


I highly doubt that. If so many characters of the show go dark/grey, it will lose its relatability completely. I don't think they intend to go by any movie but since according to most people, it gives off major Gone Girl vibes, they might be drawing their inspiration from there. As long as its written and executed well, its all good. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Arjun might be the greedy one- and now Maya will drive the shiz out of him. He is already turning schizo.
Have you watched S4 of sherlock? Where his sis comes up and pretends to be someone else- and gets himself to doubt whether she was real or he is turning schizo? Bachelor party gave me serious vibes of that one.
So even if Maya messes his life , I want it to be in a mindgame kinda way. I don't even mind if they give sherlock official credits. :P
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NAUCholic

Arjun might be the greedy one- and now Maya will drive the shiz out of him. He is already turning schizo.

Have you watched S4 of sherlock? Where his sis comes up and pretends to be someone else- and gets himself to doubt whether she was real or he is turning schizo? Bachelor party gave me serious vibes of that one.
So even if Maya messes his life , I want it to be in a mindgame kinda way. I don't even mind if they give sherlock official credits. :P


Haha, that's a good analogy. 😆 Although, Eurus and Maya are poles apart in terms of characters. Yeah, I would like them to do it in an intelligent way too but Sherlock (meaning, the show) ke level ki intelligence is legit tough.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think arjun trapped maya for his money. there were plenty of instances where I thought he cares for her but her wealth is one of the reasons why he she appeals to him. it is conditional love and a mutually beneficial relationship.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pomegranate

I don't think arjun trapped maya for his money. there were plenty of instances where I thought he cares for her but her wealth is one of the reasons why he she appeals to him. it is conditional love and a mutually beneficial relationship.


It would be really sad that Maya's husband will turn out to be like her father
I hope cvs don't show so much bad luck in Maya's life.. it would be really upsetting that she couldn't get true love from anyone in life 😭
I agree it's a mutually beneficial relationship, and maybe he was actually saying that to act cool in front of his friends. And if not, then Maya baby should really show him that she's done phd in the game, in which he is just a mere intern 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I sometimes wonder if this conflicting shades we see in Arjun and Maya relationship is flawed writing or if it is intentional. Like just before the Mauritius trip we see Arjun saying I am not in love with anyone and if Maya is in love with me it is her problem. And then immediately he is shown as someone deeeply in love with maya. I always wondered if it is an error in how the scenes were written or whether the writers wanted to portray Arjun's feelings as shallow. For a while I thought it was to show his love to maya as an impulsive shallow feeling. But then we see him showing genuine concerns for Maya and her feelings etc. so I am quite confused what is going on with him. Similarly maya at certain scenes I feel she truly love and care for Arjun then in certain scenes it looks like she don't really love him but he is just someone she wants to control. I wonder why the writers are not consistent with how they portray Maya and Arjun's relationship.

Arjun was always shown to be eager to want to be successful and rich and maya being rich I think was a factor for his attraction towards her. He always talks about middleclass and he always seemed to be wanting to be not a middle class. Everything around Maya is glittering for him. Maybe these dialogues are supposed to show that in him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: BIaddict

I sometimes wonder if this conflicting shades we see in Arjun and Maya relationship is flawed writing or if it is intentional. Like just before the Mauritius trip we see Arjun saying I am not in love with anyone and if Maya is in love with me it is her problem. And then immediately he is shown as someone deeeply in love with maya. I always wondered if it is an error in how the scenes were written or whether the writers wanted to portray Arjun's feelings as shallow. For a while I thought it was to show his love to maya as an impulsive shallow feeling. But then we see him showing genuine concerns for Maya and her feelings etc. so I am quite confused what is going on with him. Similarly maya at certain scenes I feel she truly love and care for Arjun then in certain scenes it looks like she don't really love him but he is just someone she wants to control. I wonder why the writers are not consistent with how they portray Maya and Arjun's relationship.

Arjun was always shown to be eager to want to be successful and rich and maya being rich I think was a factor for his attraction towards her. He always talks about middleclass and he always seemed to be wanting to be not a middle class. Everything around Maya is glittering for him. Maybe these dialogues are supposed to show that in him.


I think that's the whole point of the thrill
They want to repeatedly play with our minds lmfao
So that we will doubt everyone in the show but the actual villain will turn out to be someone totally unexpected... let's see where the story takes them, but as of now I know two things that if two people mutually love each other in a romantic way it's Arjun and Maya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: BIaddict

I sometimes wonder if this conflicting shades we see in Arjun and Maya relationship is flawed writing or if it is intentional. Like just before the Mauritius trip we see Arjun saying I am not in love with anyone and if Maya is in love with me it is her problem. And then immediately he is shown as someone deeeply in love with maya. I always wondered if it is an error in how the scenes were written or whether the writers wanted to portray Arjun's feelings as shallow. For a while I thought it was to show his love to maya as an impulsive shallow feeling. But then we see him showing genuine concerns for Maya and her feelings etc. so I am quite confused what is going on with him. Similarly maya at certain scenes I feel she truly love and care for Arjun then in certain scenes it looks like she don't really love him but he is just someone she wants to control. I wonder why the writers are not consistent with how they portray Maya and Arjun's relationship.

Arjun was always shown to be eager to want to be successful and rich and maya being rich I think was a factor for his attraction towards her. He always talks about middleclass and he always seemed to be wanting to be not a middle class. Everything around Maya is glittering for him. Maybe these dialogues are supposed to show that in him.


It must be flawed writing. Arjun's the least developed and the least interesting character in the show. His existence is basically for Maya and Saanjh to fight over him.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: .annihilation.


I don't understand the forum's need to bring Saanjh in every time there's a discussion on Maya. I don't mean you particularly, its just a general observation. Its almost like, for anything and everything Maya does, says or anything even remotely related to her, most people go, 'agar iske jagah Saanjh hoti toh so and so person wouldn't have reacted, would have accepted, would been okay, etc'.

Anyhoo, the bachelor party concept is essentially a western one but seems to have become a common fad everywhere. So, while I don't personally like the concept either, I don't really get the argument of it being 'wrong'. What wrong did he do exactly? He's partied like most fictional would-be husbands do before their marriage.

You can look at it that way but I don't. I could see that sense of fear, although its quite subtle as of now but not so abstruse enough for me to not be able to see it all. Those later bits of him bragging about having successfully won over a rich girl were just show though, that I agree. He didn't mean he didn't love or did it all just for the riches.


If someone talks about Saanjh, the main purpose is to know whether you think the same for her if she is in that place. If you guys are taking that as criticizing her, that is your mindset. I have been finding her annoying but I have never badmouthed or abused her with bad words.

Coming to the bachelor's party, any woman would be insecure to see their man partying with other women. even a man would do the same if he gets the doubt on his woman. A person in drunk state can never lie. So we have to wait & see what happens next.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I wont touch Maya or Vandana as you have already read my post and views on them. Coming to Arjun you have bought an interesting point. Fear. Does he fear Maya. Is it to ward off the fear he told the dialogues he told. Maya's remote is in his hands, he wants to believe that whereas he knows it is not like that.
He wants to prove in every step he is not in Maya's control. Even in her presence he can do what she doesnt like knowing fully well she wont like it and she can be angry at him too for that. See Maya's or for that matter any wife's anger on her hubby partying with half naked girls or drinking too much is justified. But a man expects a wife to tolerate all such snobbish behaviour of them. Why. Because they are men. They will do as they please right or wrong.
If you look so far whether it is Vandana or whether it is Saanjh they have allowed this man to be what he is. Vandana to get his acceptance has moved heaven and earth.
Saanjh has been over protective. Whatever he does she gets angry but then immediately goes to solve his problem. She is there at his beck and call and do his things. It is for the first time this girl is standing mute without talking to him and he calls it her ego. He doesnt realize what he spoke to Saanjh in Maya's room in front of Maya was terrible, too terrible.

So whatever this guy does so far the woman in his life has supported with chalta hai attitude. Now Maya is not going to do that. She will pull him up if he decides to cheat her or misbehave with her. Arjun's subconscious knows this and he is suddenly wary of this. Someone is going to watch him and may not bend to him the way Vandana and Saanjh does. How will he bring this woman in his control or rather the realization that he needs to bring this woman under control so that he can do whatever he wants.

It need not be money always, but the disrespect behaviour also. Just like Jhanvi goes Ashwin Ashwin he wants Maya to be emotionally dependant on him.

In a way I am happy Ashwin is dying. Whatever is Maya's secret that is secondary. But the person with whom Arjun can manipulate Maya 's vulnerability is no longer there.

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