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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: lumos_31


So her intentions were defended but not her actions. There is a difference. Ppl went on to say she did this to separate ArYa, what do u have to say about that? That was where she was defended and not her snooping around. I myself said I didn't like her eavesdropping.
Saanjh is just as qualified as an intern. She is still learning. Who said she is a bright lawyer? Not checking the ip address was a mistake intentionally created by CVs. If she'd check the ip address and check its Ashwin this track would end there and there.


No, her intentions and her actions were defended, i.e. what Saanjh did was ok because after all she did not mean to harm anyone. That tone does suggest that in light of the intentions, her actions could be accepted. I don't see how willingness to lie to obtain private information can be accepted.

Her boss in the previous role said she was a bright professional or something along the lines.

It was an intentional mistake but a very glaring one. Tracking down who is sending mail to one's official email with the help of the IT department is not unheard of.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: lumos_31


It was her business since it concerned Arjun's life and future. Saanjh wouldn't go out screaming to the world that Maya is a psycho. She'd speak to Arjun and end it at that, which she did.


Maya's private records are absolutely not her business. She should have brought up the email with Arjun and then acted after that. Doing something potentially illegal and certainly unethical by extracting confidential health records is going beyond what is acceptable.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely


No, her intentions and her actions were defended, i.e. what Saanjh did was ok because after all she did not mean to harm anyone. That tone does suggest that in light of the intentions, her actions could be accepted. I don't see how willingness to lie to obtain private information can be accepted.

Her boss in the previous role said she was a bright professional or something along the lines.

It was an intentional mistake but a very glaring one. Tracking down who is sending mail to one's official email with the help of the IT department is not unheard of.


Nope, I hv never suggested anything like that. I hv always defended her only when ppl hv wrongly accused her of having bad intentions. I dunno who or which ur post ur talking about, since i was the only one defending her while this track was going on.

Ohk, malkani may have said, I may have missed it. But we have seen of saanjh being gullible enough to believe that arjun arranged the proposal. So her believing the mail was not really a surprise. She let her emotions get the better of her, something that she does time and again.

So thats what im saying, checking the ip address was not unheard of, but it was intentionally created so that Saanjh could look bad in front of Arjun.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely


Maya's private records are absolutely not her business. She should have brought up the email with Arjun and then acted after that. Doing something potentially illegal and certainly unethical by extracting confidential health records is going beyond what is acceptable.


They are her business if Arjun is going to be affected by Maya's mental condition. Shed bring the email up with Arjun, u think hed believe it? He would accuse her like always of not accepting that he loves maya and that she is doubting Maya for no reason, and he shouldnt too, considering how much Maya is binding him with her vachans. And she did try speaking to arjun, didn't she? But Arjun was too busy with Maya to listen to her. Fine, even if i accept she shouldn't have used to her position to extract info, how else but would she get to the supposed truth? The fact that she was cla of mayas company was what helped her get to the supposed truth, otherwise u think any other employee would be disclosed such info by the doctors?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: lumos_31



I'm not justifying or saying her snooping around was right either. As for who sent the mails, u want to wait till Mon wait but yesterday's episode was clear enough.


Ashwin only said to Maya so you were the one behind these emails?
Right after that Maya slapped him, and the episode ended
How could she be sending the emails if she was with someone most of the time?
It really doesn't make sense
I still think someone else is behind this email drama
Rest we shall see!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: ishakumar


Ashwin only said to Maya so you were the one behind these emails?
Right after that Maya slapped him, and the episode ended
How could she be sending the emails if she was with someone most of the time?
It really doesn't make sense
I still think someone else is behind this email drama
Rest we shall see!


Yes from maya's pov we don't know if she is the person who sent the emails. If she was with arjun all the time when saanjh was checking mails then how did she sent such email from ashwin PC.
I think there's more to it. May be jhanvi can also do this... Who knows !
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: ishakumar


You just negated your own question!
Didn't Saanjh use manipulationnand her power and position to illegally get confidential information out of the doctor, the insurance agent and the teacher? 🤣
Stop making Saanjh seem like an angel! She is also flawed and Grey
In fact everyone in this show is either grey or flawed...
and btw Maya was not happy to see Arjun and Saanjh fighting
She was genuinely sad to see them fight
She wants to make her relationship with Arjun stronger, but at the same time she doesn't want to ruin his relationship with others




Once again everyone misunderstand things. I never said saanj was a saint. I know she has flaws as well. I've said it in my post. Maya doesnt want to ruin their friendship? I'm sure she didnt. I mean she tried before an hired to keep her close. An lets not forget the email. But yes she was definetly sad about saanj an arjun fight😛
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Posted: 8 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Nietzy


1. Shez d same person who was sad seeing Arjun n Maya in d press conference (wn she shud hv been happy for her so called l ove) n she cut their pic too (Maya hadn't proposed Arjun dn) She was d same person who said she doesn't care if Maya dies. Shez d same person who wasn't happy dt Vandana n Arjun patched up !n Ayaan was released from jail, just coz it was coz of Maya. Shez d same person who keeps saying mere hisse ki kushi, mera pyaar blah blah tho Arjun doesn't love her. She is just like Maya minus d manipulation, bad past, crazy fam n riches. Her love is not selfless n she is also grey.

2nd part i already replied in other post.

Anyway, i know u wudn't agree, so letz agree to disagree.



I agree to disagree for many reason. When arjun an vandana had that fight. Usually saanj would be their to help them. So knowing maya was the one to patch things up with the family made her upset, but none the less she was happy for them. With the jail scene arjun asks saanj to help save ayan. He never ask maya, maya over heard him on the phone with the inspectors an made it her business. When saanj found out maya was their she was fumming , an to know she freed ayan made her upset, because it made her effort look pathetic.

Even though she was upset, she thank maya . she was still happy that he was out. The newspaper eps . i dont know which one your referring to but if its the one with arjun project then saanj was extrmely happy for him. She even went their to hear his speech, but arjun didnt give her recognition instead maya. But even through that, when arjun showed her the newspaper she was happy for him, but became jealous seeing maya besides him.

You said saanj wasnt happy on the examples you gave, but i reread the eps an watch it. She was for arjun. Not maya .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49

Guys when Saanjh got those emails, she had a choice to make. It was either to track down the email sender or believe in those emails. She chose the later because she is secretly selfish and those emails gave her a hope to stop ArYa marriage.

Because any person in Saanjh's place wouldn't have easily believed those emails especially after learning about Maya's abusive childhood past. Another thing is she knew Maya had Saved Arjun in Mauritius while not caring for her life then how could she possibly doubt Maya being harmful to Arjun?

In yesterday's episode I like one dialogue of Arjun to Saanjh. He said "agar mujhse Maya koi jhooth bolti bhi hai, toh yeh hamare beech ki problem hai, tujhe koi haqq nahi banta." Which is right, she should let Arjun deal with Maya and let ArYa decide rather then interefering between them. I understand since Arjun is her bff she is worried for him. But she should still stay in her limits and if anything happens to him in the future she will be there anyway to help him. Afterall that's what friends are meant for.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: lumos_31


They are her business if Arjun is going to be affected by Maya's mental condition. Shed bring the email up with Arjun, u think hed believe it? He would accuse her like always of not accepting that he loves maya and that she is doubting Maya for no reason, and he shouldnt too, considering how much Maya is binding him with her vachans. And she did try speaking to arjun, didn't she? But Arjun was too busy with Maya to listen to her. Fine, even if i accept she shouldn't have used to her position to extract info, how else but would she get to the supposed truth? The fact that she was cla of mayas company was what helped her get to the supposed truth, otherwise u think any other employee would be disclosed such info by the doctors?



I agree, even i didnt like the way saanj handle to get the information, it was wrong. But at the same time, her need to make sure maya wasnt dangerous was stronger. But it made no sense for maya who is very clever to leave her purse in the opening. Lets not forget it was that easy for saanj to get the pills. It didn't add up. I knew it was a set up because maya has cameras everywhere. Remember the eps when arjun had a party in her office an she watch the camera.

I knew maya would find out . then the texting jhanvi part telling her she needs her help. An jhanvi fake story. Everyone thought ashwin was behind this. We all suspected it. But we were wrong. In today eps arjun called to track the email leading to ashwin computer, someone is setting saanj an ashwin up. Both mother an daughter have many reason to frame them. But it could be someone new.

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