Dont be that person - Page 4

Originally posted by: angelk1

Her love is selfless , because she knows when she has lost. She supported him even though she was in pain. She doesnt ask for anything but arjun love. She doesnt force him to love her. She just wish he would look at her with love in his eyes . at one point she tried getting along with maya. Matter fact she had no ill treatment towards her until maya fell for arjun an she started playing tricks. An no her snooping in maya business doesnt mean she want arjun to crawl back to her. She was just concern for his well-being.

2. Saanj is his bestfriend, they've been inseparable for a long time. They might fight, but at the end of the day they make up. So to answer your second question. Arjun already said it himself when she tried leaving. So i don't have to repeat it.

Originally posted by: ishakumar

You just negated your own question!
Didn't Saanjh use manipulationnand her power and position to illegally get confidential information out of the doctor, the insurance agent and the teacher? 🤣
Stop making Saanjh seem like an angel! She is also flawed and Grey
In fact everyone in this show is either grey or flawed...
and btw Maya was not happy to see Arjun and Saanjh fighting
She was genuinely sad to see them fight
She wants to make her relationship with Arjun stronger, but at the same time she doesn't want to ruin his relationship with others

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Brilliantly said ! Abb mazaa ayaa mujhe !

Idk why ppl are rubbing their opinions on our faces like " appreciate her don't bash".

@tm u need to understand that people are different & their opinions vary so if we bash or appreciate any character one can't say don't do this & dont do that.. this is like saanjh saying 'i-know-what's-right-for u' .

So it's okay to have different opinions & we aren't asking u saanjh supporters to stop supporting her right ?! Then even u shud also understand this simple thing.

What's with all of u saying manipulations about Maya ?

Its not Maya doing manipulation but it's bcoz of her too much insecurities & more of requiring assurance. Any mental illness person has that in them that they need such assurance bcoz of their experiences. And maya was isolated all the time. Never for once there was anyone to give her confidence by staying & showing her right path in growing years.

Yes she had seen them on road but she's his gf. Any gf would do that out of insecure feelings when his bff is proposing HER bf.

Coming to saanjh she's just a frnd & it's creepy to hear a couple convo & seeing them all the time .

Her friendship limits she shud realize. She's in some delusional world of I know what's right for arjun.

But let me tell u. If Maya is wrong, time will answer her & there's no need of saanjh to interfere & go after maya back.

Honestly a person who tries to move on will just go on a trip alone or make new friends. But here she's still sticking to arjun.

What I'm saying maya & saanjh are selfish in their own ways. Saanjh & maya hate eachother & for obvious reasons. Saanjh & maya can't accept eachother that quickly their presence in arjun life.

So saanjh isn't an angel mata either. Her insensitivity is at peals when she questioned maya abt her depression. Her way is super insensitive. That's not how u ask abt such sensitive things. And who are u to question abt it. It's arjun who shud do. And he will deal abt it.

Borderline personality disorder is your assumption right. That's why I'm saying still her mental problem isn't out so why are u so confident in your post. You could say a may be if u found such symptoms right ?!

Originally posted by: lumos_31

^ who is justifying her ways? I hv not seen one post by any Saanjh supporter who liked Saanjh fishing into Maya's bag. And maybe ur forgetting, Saanjh's ways were defined by maya. She set this all up.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

^ who is justifying her ways? I hv not seen one post by any Saanjh supporter who liked Saanjh fishing into Maya's bag. And maybe ur forgetting, Saanjh's ways were defined by maya. She set this all up.

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

There have been at least a couple of threads on the forum implying that since she was doing the snooping with Arjun's best interests at heart, it was understandable.

Saanjh chose to go about snooping without verifying who was sending her the emails. She chose to lie and misuse her position. Nobody could have forced her to take such actions. Even if it was all a set up, Saanjh should have been more sensible and used better judgement as a supposedly bright lawyer.

Originally posted by: DriftInfinitely

Another thing is that even if the teacher, doctor, etc were briefed in advance, we still cannot negate the fact that Saanjh was willing to and did lie and make threats just to extract information that was none of her business.

Originally posted by: ishakumar

if She set this whole thing up is still not cleared yet...
we are still not sure who sent the emails, shall find out on Monday...
and even if she set herself up, Saanjh still doesn't have any right to go into a persons bag, and in no case is that justified...