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poppinss

@poppinss

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

My first post in this forum... and will try to keep this short. While we all take sides to either bash Saanjh or Maya... in today's episode there was a clear message.

The family of Saanjh is so supportive of her and is united in love and pain. There is no question of anyone not loving their child and it is a pretty normal happy close knit family. Financially, Saanjh is a nobody but she has not just her family but also Vandana and Ayaan rooting for her.

In stark contrast is Maya. Her mom is an unstable person and her dad is pure evil. She has materially everything but emotionally no support and no person to share it with.. not to mention the torturous past whose memories she is slowly fighting and trying to let go. If Maya were not to be strong with her parents they would throw her to the sharks. And at this moment she thinks Arjun is her rock.

As acquaintances go Saanjh and Arjun have known each other for a long time... but it was not Saanjh but Maya who unknowingly broke almost all of Arjun's habits that Saanjh never could... be it staying in the hospital, making him understand about Vandana etc. Even helping Arjun without him telling a word about Ayaan. While the connection of Saanjh and Arjun is very long... that of Maya and Arjun will be deep.

Yes Maya's darkness is going to affect Arjun. But will Arjun be able to love Maya? Only if he truly loves her would he be able to guide himself and her towards the light.

Maya never seems to be interested in being Arjun's friend. Maya I think would consider Saanjh a threat if and only if Saanjh tries to become Arjun's love.

Edited by poppinss - 8 years ago

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Sonali Mishra

@sellysona

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

Maya also made arjun pray in front of god which saanjh was not able to do in years..
And i agree, maya only reacts to saanjh presence whn she feels threat or else she doesnt care . saanjh practically has all the love but she is stuck on arjun whereas maya doesnt know what is being loved. For her, arjun is her only support, pillar, saving grace, love etc.. .
Arjun love for maya not only needs to be true but also he must be strong enough bcoz not only he has to protect himself from maya darkness but also fight that darkness and bring himself and maya to light..

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Rebecca Valentine

@RebeccaValentin

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Posted: 8 years ago

1st post? & its this awsm? 😃

beautifully written..👏👏

agree wid evry wrd 😃😃

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

That's what I feel sad for Maya.

Maya doesn't care about saanjh if saanjh wasn't interested in arjun as in romantically. Maya knows saanjh wants arjun so like a child she fears her lil bit of happiness will be lost & she is trying to hold it tightly.

Nice post.

Jhanvi is a worst mom ever I say. How can she believe Ashwin knowing his deeds to her daughter. She's mad.

Arjun shud go through test of love.

Saanjh will fight & take daringly paths never taken to get back her arjun. Like pandit told.

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@TheUnique

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Posted: 8 years ago

Ditto. That was the first thought that came to me.as well ...the striking difference between two families..

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

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Posted: 8 years ago

I'm still surprised Maya managed to come this far. with a history and parents like hers, I would expect her to be in jail/mental hospital, rehab or dead. No matter what people think of her, she deserves to applauded for the life she carved out for herself-for where she has come. this is not enough, Maya still has a long way to- she still has to burn her demons otherwise darkness will swallow her, but still she deserves credit for it

Maya has no one really, I thought her mother is a support but I guess it was wrong. she has money but no love, and her own mom betrays her. If not the darkness, then the emptiness will eventually consume her. what does maya mehrotra exactly have? even better, why can't she deserve a second chance?

In contrast,Saanjh has all the wealth in the world. A beautiful childhood, loving parents, vandana and ayan's unending support and arjun's friendship. Yet she still complains to god for taking arjun away from her, when in reality she arjun's friendship is the most valuable thing.

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Japrilforever

@Japrilforever

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Posted: 8 years ago

Maya insecurity is obviously going to surface when Arjun and Saanjh seem likely to be a couple. But when Arjun keeps choosing Saanjh over her, albeit as a friend, maya is not going to let go easily. Her insecurity will surely get the better of her. Yes Arjun is her pillar of strength and that's why she has all these feelings for him in the first place.

Maya deserves love, surely but not when that love is going to cost others. Such a love is in no way healthy. And before anything, even love, Maya needs to come to terms with the darkness in her. She needs to accept her condition, which is very difficult, tbh but not impossible. Only when she shows her real self to Arjun will he be able to truly love her, as right now Arjun is attracted to just one aspect of her personality, ie the good side. If he accepts her knowing her dark side only then can we say he loves her for real.

Sure Saanjh has had a loving family, Ayaan and Suman's support, but does that mean she deserved this heartbreak? Surely not. And maybe I got the point u were trying to put across as wrong, but if u were suggesting that Saanjh has her family's support that's why she doesn't need Arjun then I highly disagree.

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Sonali Mishra

@sellysona

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: pomegranate
I'm still surprised Maya managed to come this far. with a history and parents like hers, I would expect her to be in jail/mental hospital, rehab or dead. No matter what people think of her, she deserves to applauded for the life she carved out for herself-for where she has come. this is not enough, Maya still has a long way to- she still has to burn her demons otherwise darkness will swallow her, but still she deserves credit for it
Maya has no one really, I thought her mother is a support but I guess it was wrong. she has money but no love, and her own mom betrays her so what she have? If not the darkness, then the emptiness will eventually consume her. what does maya mehrotra exactly have? even better, why can't she deserve a second chance?

In contrast,Saanjh has all the wealth in the world. A beautiful childhood, loving parents, vandana and ayan's unending support and arjun's friendship. Yet she still complains to god for taking arjun away from her, when in reality she arjun's friendship is the most valuable thing.

It always happens with humans yaar. Thy donot appreciate what thy already have and run for something which maynot be thiers, which is just a illusion. But some ppl donot evn have privileage of those basic things..
How can when one not sympathize wth maya. She has got betrayal from her own parents. Its the deepest wound one can get. She absolutely deserves a second chance. She deserves to live and live a real life, not just life of emotionless robot...

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Sonali Mishra

@sellysona

Voyager

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: lumos_31
Maya insecurity is obviously going to surface when Arjun and Saanjh seem likely to be a couple. But when Arjun keeps choosing Saanjh over her, albeit as a friend, maya is not going to let go easily. Her insecurity will surely get the better of her. Yes Arjun is her pillar of strength and that's why she has all these feelings for him in the first place.
Maya deserves love, surely but not when that love is going to cost others. Such a love is in no way healthy. And before anything, even love, Maya needs to come to terms with the darkness in her. She needs to accept her condition, which is very difficult, tbh but not impossible. Only when she shows her real self to Arjun will he be able to truly love her, as right now Arjun is attracted to just one aspect of her personality, ie the good side. If he accepts her knowing her dark side only then can we say he loves her for real.
Sure Saanjh has had a loving family, Ayaan and Suman's support, but does that mean she deserved this heartbreak? Surely not. And maybe I got the point u were trying to put across as wrong, but if u were suggesting that Saanjh has her family's support that's why she doesn't need Arjun then I highly disagree.

Saanjh has everything it doesnot mean she doesnot deserve arjun love. It means she has so much support that she can stand back more firm from this heartbreak. Whn one is hurt thy mostly crave a support system. Maya lacks this support system.
This means that saanjh must be thankful for how much love she has instead of blaming god for one she couldnot get . not everyone gets evrything, right.. If you compare her life to mayas thn maya must be abusing god evryday for giving her such a life.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: sellysona

It always happens with humans yaar. Thy donot appreciate what thy already have and run for something which maynot be thiers, which is just a illusion. But some ppl donot evn have privileage of those basic things..
How can when one not sympathize wth maya. She has got betrayal from her own parents. Its the deepest wound one can get. She absolutely deserves a second chance. She deserves to live and live a real life, not just life of emotionless robot...

That's why it's arjun going to be in Maya's life as per gods sign u can say. Saanjh will fight however she can't be love of arjun but only bff.

I agree maya has a past but every love shud go through tests to come out strong so its fine to see arjun giving his test of love as well as maya to make their love strong.

Saanjh losing her locket only tells it all if u observe. And I'm not saying she doesn't deserve anyone but for her someone will be out there. As far for arjun he's in maya fate , if u see first episode where saanjh tried to throw that dupatta he keeps it to himself.

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