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Diya

@Angelicdiya

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: tanvismile

So telling again and again what I can do for you, what you are to me, I l keep waiting for you like insane isn't emotional blackmailing the person to love her... This is actual force... What suman, vandana, saanjh they aren't doing anything. They are just telling saanjh to do it while she wants him to realise it on his own which isn't happening.

Maya is not crybaby like Saanjh. She has guts to tell Arjun about her feelings. Telling someone how much he/she is important is not wrong. Maya never asked Arjun to break his friendship with Saanjh, But Saanjh can't tolerate Maya as Arjun's friend. She wants Arjun to take her permission for everything. She is a possessive lover not Maya. For god sake it's Arjun's life, Let him decide whom he wants to choose as his life partner. He is mature enough to decide what is good for him. Don't force him to be in relationship with Saanjh,

Edited by Angelicdiya - 8 years ago

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Sonali Mishra

@sellysona

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#52

Guys, just chill... Why making war.. Saanjh fans i would like to request plz yaar dont go personal critics on jennifer. Its ok if you dont like maya.. But why do we care how jenny looks on the show.. Thier are makeup artists on show.. Thy decide how will maya charachter appear onscreen.. Whether she has to look mature or gorgeous or plain, its up to makers of show.. Thy know how maya has to look.. Whether jenny needs to look chubby or not its not up to us to decide...moreover she has to dress in colourless wadrobe..
We maya fans got instigated bcoz of persnl comment on jenny. Maybe TM intention was not bad but coming these from saanjh supporter, we are natural to take in negative way.. Comment on Aneri was done just to givr back at the comment on jenny.. We maya supporters respect Aneri as well and we may bash saanjh but we dont comment on aneri.. Here we were defending ourselves..
But this fight is going too far now.. Uselessly fighthing wont change neither saanjh supporters views nor maya supporters view.. So leave it.. Evryone has right to keep thier opinion and evn discuss here cordially but if the opinion is getting personal its better to keep it to ourselves..

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Remsi

@Remsi

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: lumos_31

I can't help but notice how Saanjh is always brought into the discussion. Why are u guys comparing her and Maya all the time??? They are two different characters. You really CANNOT expect vandana to warm up to Maya. She saw the glass breaking, the gifts that Maya sent, the chillies Maya ate without drinking water, the wreck that Maya's entry into the house caused, her coldness towards Maya is not only because she wants Saanjh-Arjun together but also because she fears relationships breaking because of her. Just because Arjun the duffer and you all cannot see it, doesn't mean that fear cannot come true. I'm just trying to make u all see from Vandana's perspective.
Saanjh was not tortured by her father, she is not a victim of mental illness like Maya so why are people comparing their reactions to every situation. If you all really want to compare then,
Maya has a troubled past, hence she is this way- we sympathise with Maya here and the very next moment Saanjh is bashed for crying that her bestie has gone away? Like really?
Whenever Maya does something the opposite of that is thought about and presented as Saanjh's reaction. Why do there have to be comparisons ALL THE TIME?
I'm a Jen fan but the TM did not say anything derogatory about her, she just said the look is rough, I agree the aged part was a bit rude but she did present her comments respectfully. But calling Aneri chicken legged was indeed rude and disrespectful.

Let us have constructive discussions on this forum please, rather than fan wars.

Sanjh is being dragged because the story itself is about Maya and Sanjh's bout to win Arjun's love, at least I think it is that. It is quite okay to bring other characters into this as long as they are part of the story. Bringing the actors gets a bit nasty. It is okay though, I don't think either of them meant any harm, they were trying to put forward their opinions, it was a bit rude on both their parts but I don't think either of them meant to cause hurt.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Angelicdiya

Maya is not crybaby like Saanjh. She has guts to tell Arjun about her feelings. Telling someone how much he/she is important is not wrong. Maya never asked Arjun to break his friendship with Saanjh, But Saanjh can't tolerate Maya as Arjun's friend. She wants Arjun to take her permission for everything. She is a possessive lover not Maya. For god sake it's Arjun's life, Let him decide whom he wants to choose as his life partner. He is mature enough to decide what is good for him. Don't force him to be in relationship with Saanjh,

Exactly, more than anyone else, it is Arjun who has to decide whom to marry. After all, he is the one who has to spend his entire life with that person whether it is Saanjh or Maya. He has to consider his capabilities of handling the negatives of Saanjh and Maya and decide on that basis.

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Bharathi_gurti

@Bharathi_gurti

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#55

@tanvismile ...Lesson learnt in this forum...don't talk good about saanjh,if you do so no one will even care to read about it 2)don't defend saanjh if you do so you are forcing them.3)don't say a word against Maya she is the best soul and should not be criticized, she should get whatever she wants and she will do whatever she likes ..because she is interesting,correct, beautiful,smart, have a troubled past ,has guts so and so...

Coming to your post...regarding yesterday's episode I didn't find Maya wrong but I felt bad when vandana stepped back..

She may feel bad about Maya but she can bless her...I didn't like that part because Maya really wholeheartedly helped arjun, she just can't see him upset...she asked for a blessing nothing wrong in that tanvi...as I said earlier vandana can't show her coldness to Maya if Maya is going to be arjuns choice...she need to accept her if can't at least respect that girl..this is my genuine opinion...what no one could do these years Maya did...Maya is giving arjun everything that he needs, hope she stays this way forever...But this is not going to happen only.

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kavita

@kavitha_r

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 8 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: lumos_31
^ you sure can't. But u can be supportive of the people who are.

Tell me any one member who has not crossed the limits whether is is Saanjh supporter or Maya supporter. First of all, this title itself is more than enough to bash Maya. The second thing is to find fault with her. The third thing is commenting about Jennifer looking elder than her age. Though for the third, I personally don't care. You guys are fine with Vandana being biassed and prejudiced but don't care for Maya's genuine efforts but are finding fault with Maya like her. That's why I said that.

Edited by katrinasalman - 8 years ago

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Naam mein kya rakha hai

@TheUnique

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#57

I usually don't comment on posts which are pro Saanjh & anti Maya cuz I respect their opinion but when you say things about actors & then say it's just my opinion & did not mean to offend anyone I seriously don't get this shit ! 😕 Just cuz u have been polite & used some flowery language in order to make your comment not look like offensive while the other person has reciprocated bluntly to your comment doesn't mean people will not take offense just cuz you have been polite . At the end of the day it's bashing only .

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Naam mein kya rakha hai

@TheUnique

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti
@tanvismile ...Lesson learnt in this forum...don't talk good about saanjh,if you do so no one will even care to read about it 2)don't defend saanjh if you do so you are forcing them.3)don't say a word against Maya she is the best soul and should not be criticized, she should get whatever she wants and she will do whatever she likes ..because she is interesting,correct, beautiful,smart, have a troubled past ,has guts so and so...
Coming to your post...regarding yesterday's episode I didn't find Maya wrong but I felt bad when vandana stepped back..
She may feel bad about Maya but she can bless her...I didn't like that part because Maya really wholeheartedly helped arjun, she just can't see him upset...she asked for a blessing nothing wrong in that tanvi...as I said earlier vandana can't show her coldness to Maya if Maya is going to be arjuns choice...she need to accept her if can't at least respect that girl..this is my genuine opinion...what no one could do these years Maya did...Maya is giving arjun everything that he needs, hope she stays this way forever...But this is not going to happen only.

Very nice piece of advice you gave her but you just left out the most important part .. like don't bring in actors criticizing her & then saying we have put it politely blah blah blah ...if the last part hadn't been added in TMs post referring the actress many wouldn't even have bothered to comment over here & you could have continued with how selfless& angelic Saanjh is & how manipulative & evil Maya is in peace

Edited by TheUnique - 8 years ago

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Remsi

@Remsi

Inactive

Posted: 8 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti
@tanvismile ...Lesson learnt in this forum...don't talk good about saanjh,if you do so no one will even care to read about it 2)don't defend saanjh if you do so you are forcing them.3)don't say a word against Maya she is the best soul and should not be criticized, she should get whatever she wants and she will do whatever she likes ..because she is interesting,correct, beautiful,smart, have a troubled past ,has guts so and so...
Coming to your post...regarding yesterday's episode I didn't find Maya wrong but I felt bad when vandana stepped back..
She may feel bad about Maya but she can bless her...I didn't like that part because Maya really wholeheartedly helped arjun, she just can't see him upset...she asked for a blessing nothing wrong in that tanvi...as I said earlier vandana can't show her coldness to Maya if Maya is going to be arjuns choice...she need to accept her if can't at least respect that girl..this is my genuine opinion...what no one could do these years Maya did...Maya is giving arjun everything that he needs, hope she stays this way forever...But this is not going to happen only.

It is not about praising Sanjh or bashing Maya. I don't think half of them would have minded if Jenny was not brought up. And the reaction given was like...you dare insult my bias, now take it, I'll insult yours. As it is said a reaction for an action. When fandoms are created they sure have to clash, that is very normal. But I hope people are a bit more careful with their words here onwards, because from what I have seen in interviews Aneri and Jenny are enjoy nice working chemistry, and the fans should also co-exist, and such things should not be brought up. However Jenny looks, it is her makeup artist who is responsible, and they sure know their work. And as for Aneri, she is beautiful however she is, and it should not bother us, whether she should eat more or less. If only the characters were mentioned such things wouldn't have occured.

And nobody said defending Sanjh was wrong. Defend her, that is alright, but defend her for the right reason at least. People telling that she is being forced is not because she herself is forcing her love on Arjun, rather it is being said that she is being forced by Vandana and Suman, which I don't think can be denied, since they actually act as if Sanjh is the only woman Arjun should have, whereas the poor fellow keeps showing his uninterest for love as a whole itself.

Edited by Remsi - 8 years ago

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Mahadevi

@Morana

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: ishakumar

She has seriously made a place
Today Arjun brought her to his home
With her hand in his
Feelings are clearly changing 😳

She'll soon enter the house as Arjun's wife , holding his hand , as the rightful member of the family, whether Vandana likes it or not.

I don't wanna say it , but vandana is making me say so, ki saagi aur sauteli mein thodi to farq hoti hai sayad , Vandana can not be happy for Arjun , with his own choice decisions and preferences. She can only be happy for him when things happen according to her preference , 😆

But man proposes God disposes. Maya is the one for Arjun. The sooner she understands and accepts that fact the better off she'll be . Even Saanjh's father can see that it's Saanjh who's coming between Arya and Not Maya who's coming between Saanjh n Arjun. It's time for Ayaan n Vandana to open their eyes n smell coffee ! Hope Saanjh doesn't let Vandana n co. brain wash her once again to fruitlessly and desperately chase Arjun. She'll be in for more heart break only. A girl should know when to back down , if she loves her dignity n self respect.

What she couldn't do in years , Maya managed to do in a day. That did make her feel that Maya is the right girl for Arjun. 😃 ⭐️