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Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: GeekSquad
Maya is going to be that dupatta that falls on Arjun . With Saanjh's efforts finally someday he can pull himself out of it..She will always stand by Arjun no matter what. Significance from ydays episode.

Yep, yep.

Originally posted by: naaju
To me..Jhanvi seems more mad than Maya..
atleast Maya knws wat she is doing n consequences..but
Ashwin comes to Jhanvi acts to love her n she believes him so easily n eats so many sweets which r actually poison to her..
wats wrong wid her😕

This is how it is when people with multiple mental heath issues live together. I am not a professional nor do I claim to know enough about mental health conditions but Maya shows signs of PTSD (and more) and Jhanvi of depression (and more). So, they both continue to suck the life out of each other's lives. Tragic. 😳

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Sanya17

@Sanya17

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Ruthlessness brings ruthlessness cruelty bring cruelty Maya is the biggest example of that being ruthless and cruel specially to kids make the kids ruthless and cruel they start believing the world is cruel so they should only handle it with cruelty that is exactly what hpnd with Maya

The cruelty she got in her childhood made her cruel and the poison she is holding in herself made her dangerous I agree that arjun's love is not going to cure Maya right now I am not seeing what can cure Maya arjun will not be able to cure Maya the only thing that can cure Maya is the fear of much more bigger cruelty than what she bearer in childhood at the same time someone else need to go extreme to protect her from that cruelty so that Maya starts believing the world is not cruel what I saw till now it is not possible for arjun alone to go to that extreme to protect her he needs sanjh all in all the one who is going to suffer the most the one who is going to lose everything in this journey is not arjun it is sanjh

From what I saw till now Maya is able to separate sanjh and arjun but in the end when arjun will got trapped in the illusion of Maya sanjh will come back to protect him from the illusion arjun always tells that when he is in trouble sanjh is the one who saves him protect him

I am not shipping any couple but I think in the journey of maya's healing Maya's obsessive love arjun and sanjh will separate they will burn sanjh will go away from arjun she will lose something important she will lose something dear she will stop loving arjun repress her love for arjun in the deepest of deepest corner that arjun will find it impossible to find that love but in the end arjun will find that love he will start loving sanjh from all the hint I think arjun sanjh will be the end game but before that they have the most toughest journey ahead they had to heal Maya they had to cross the illusion name Maya

Edited by Sanya17 - 8 years ago

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

So we were right . . . Maya can physically harm anybody . . . The biggest lesson maya should have learnt we can't control others . . . Accept jhanvi with her flaws . . . Just like jhanvi accepted maya with flaws. . . They both are imperfect . . . They need each other to heal each other . . . Jhanvi Is really weak . . . That's not an excuse . . . She also needs help and love . . .

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love_taher

@love_taher

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#14

More than PTSD, i feel its a personality disorder. Sure there is huge trauma involved, but her characteristics( based on what's shown till now) point to a borderline personality disorder...emotionally unstable, deliberate self harm...these are the traits. Yes jhanvi does show signs of depression, and part of it stems from not being able to do anything for maya and at the same time also coz maya has caged her. Jhanvi feels helpless n her character is emotionally very stupid when it comes to love. She may be wanting to defend maya n protect her but her love for Ashwin always overpowers that feeling. Whether bad parenting or not, its too early to say now coz we do not know what actually happened, I think more info is needed to throw more light on this topic..

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annihilation

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Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Sanya17
Ruthlessness brings ruthlessness cruelty bring cruelty Maya is the biggest example of that being ruthless and cruel specially to kids make the kids ruthless and cruel they start believing the world is cruel so they should only handle it with cruelty that is exactly what hpnd with Maya
The cruelty she got in her childhood made her cruel and the poison she is holding in herself made her dangerous I agree that arjun's love is not going to cure Maya right now I am not seeing what can cure Maya arjun will not be able to cure Maya the only thing that can cure Maya is the fear of much more bigger cruelty than what she bearer in childhood at the same time someone else need to go extreme to protect her from that cruelty so that Maya starts believing the world is not cruel what I saw till now it is not possible for arjun alone to go to that extreme to protect her he needs sanjh all in all the one who is going to suffer the most the one who is going to lose everything in this journey is not arjun it is sanjh

From what I saw till now Maya is able to separate sanjh and arjun but in the end when arjun will got trapped in the illusion of Maya sanjh will come back to protect him from the illusion arjun always tells that when he is in trouble sanjh is the one who saves him protect him

I am not shipping any couple but I think in the journey of maya's healing Maya's obsessive love arjun and sanjh will separate they will burn sanjh will go away from arjun she will lose something important she will lose something dear she will stop loving arjun repress her love for arjun in the deepest of deepest corner and arjun will be unable to find that love but in the end arjun will find that love he will start loving sanjh from all the hint I think arjun sanjh will be the end game but before that they have the most toughest journey ahead they had to heal Maya they had to cross the illusion name Maya

The reason I said I don't Maya and Arjun or even Arjun and Saanjh at this point is because I too think this show is so much more than just that. Yeah, its a clear case of 'as you sow, sow you reap'. But then they're also people who despite having suffered the worst don't believe in making others suffer. So, ruthlessness may not always bring ruthlessness. Like I said though, Maya seems to be on her way to become the second kind I spoke about or already is by now.

As far as the endgame goes, I am more inclined towards Arjun and Saanjh too but that's not because of my own preferences, I just think that's more likely to happen. Although, the writers can very well decided to go with Arjun and Maya as well. Yep, difficult times lie ahead.

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annihilation

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Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: love_taher

More than PTSD, i feel its a personality disorder. Sure there is huge trauma involved, but her characteristics( based on what's shown till now) point to a borderline personality disorder...emotionally unstable, deliberate self harm...these are the traits. Yes jhanvi does show signs of depression, and part of it stems from not being able to do anything for maya and at the same time also coz maya has caged her. Jhanvi feels helpless n her character is emotionally very stupid when it comes to love. She may be wanting to defend maya n protect her but her love for Ashwin always overpowers that feeling. Whether bad parenting or not, its too early to say now coz we do not know what actually happened, I think more info is needed to throw more light on this topic..

It's more likely a case of multiple disorders. I just stated one example because she's majorly what she is now because of the trauma she's suffered. Yeah, obviously we aren't professionals nor can we diagnose a fictional character. So, unless the shows states it explicitly and addresses the matter, its all theories and speculations.

Originally posted by: tanvismile
So we were right . . . Maya can physically harm anybody . . . The biggest lesson maya should have learnt we can't control others . . . Accept jhanvi with her flaws . . . Just like jhanvi accepted maya with flaws. . . They both are imperfect . . . They need each other to heal each other . . . Jhanvi Is really weak . . . That's not an excuse . . . She also needs help and love . . .

This isn't about flaws anymore. Both Maya and Jhanvi are suffer from various issues. The heavier and crucial part of the responsibility was on Jhanvi which she miserably failed to fulfil, the result of which both she and her daughter are bearing.

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Isha Kumar

@ishakumar

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

The point is Jhanvi couldnt help Maya change her personality and nature... Jhanvi could have made so many changes to Maya's nature if she had been a good mother. To bo honest Jhanvi has failed her duties as a mother.
Agar maa ko hi nahi pata kya sahi hai and kya galat beti ko kahan se pata hoga
Now lets see if Arjuns love can change her
Maa ka pyaar toh change nahi kar saka kya pata bf ka pyaar change kar dey ;)

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#18

@isha

Lol...but Arjun have to love her back...😉

Don't know how much times he will take...😆

But seeing today's interaction between jhanvi and Maya.. one thing is cleared.. .

Jhanvi has miserably failed as a mother..

She should have protected her child..cuz that time..maya was only a little girl and moreover she didn't have anyone beside her mom...

Today's interaction clearly points that Maya is totally frustrated with what happened with her when she was just a child..she felt helpless just like arjun in hospital when his dad died...

Just like arjun who doesn't wanna feel helpless again that's y he has stopped going to hospital..

Just the same way...maya doesn't wanna feel helpless again..thats y ..she wants to control

Yes wants to control...everything..literally everything and everyone near to her..especially her loved ones...

Because of her mother's nature..from her childhood a massage has been sent to Maya that...

If she doesnt process so courage just like her mother..she will too face the same fate.. as her mother ...So I think that's y she has become so possessive.. control-ic

Edited by ArYa-JenWin20 - 8 years ago

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anjaanichudi

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Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

With every epi dy r revealing Maya little by little... Today v got to know she can b dangerous. Now m having doubts whether she will ever heal. I still don't get what r dy trying to show... Maya had a bad childhood, so she is insane... Nothn astonishing in dt... Only few of her actions may make us go... Wow v didn't c dt coming. What is never seen before in dis?

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Sharmin

@Sharmin-JW-20

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: nitzy_21
With every epi dy r revealing Maya little by little... Today v got to know she can b dangerous. Now m having doubts whether she will ever heal. I still don't get what r dy trying to show... Maya had a bad childhood, so she is insane... Nothn astonishing in dt... Only few of her actions may make us go... Wow v didn't c dt coming. What is never seen before in dis?

@a good point..

But hoping...we won't be disappoint..

They should really show us something strong but unique thing behind maya' s behaviour..

Edited by ArYa-JenWin20 - 8 years ago