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Originally posted by: ishakumar

hey yea well that is your point of view, and i completely respect that.
But to be honest never did i see maya as irresponsible.
she is very responsible actually thats why she has been so sucessful without the help of any man she has proven that she doesnt need anyone. especially when it comes to her loved ones, she is very responsible and takes good care of her mother.
She is not ruthless, because if she was ruthless she would never forgive Arjun and employ him in her office again.
she is not impulsive, because woh har kadam soch samajh jke rakhti hai. impulsive is someone who does things without thinking, and maya on the other hand take every step very carefully and with thought. like inviting saanjh to dinner, usne bahot soch samajh ke plan kiya.
Feeling of guilt is not foreign to her, because when she didnt let her mom go out much she felt bad and took her out shopping and let her go out with friends to spend time with them
her self esteem doesnt increase when she causes pain to others. she didnt look happy when she tore up Saanjh's papers. she did it only because saanjh got her mad. otherwise she was actually quite nice at first asking her what she wanted to drink or eat...

Sharmin sweety what do you think?

Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

Agree boss+buddy..

You have pointed out those things..correctly..

You have proved that..maya isn't a psycho..and I can't thank you enough..

About being foreign guilt..

I would like to point out another thing..

When she made arjun drink those beer . .

She apologised before her bappa . .saying..

Bappa am I doing the right thing..

Also in yesterday's episode

When she was praying she was saying..

Bappa..do I think I am doing the right things..meaning..what she did with Saanjh..

If she was a psycho then y she would feel that guilt..

Tell

oh yea i completely forgot about that part...
very good point!
she is a very repentful person
she feels guilty when she behaves in a wrong way to a nice person

the only part when she doesnt feel guilty is when she does something bad to ashwin
and to be honest she shouldnt feel bad. he is a horrible person. he doesnt deserve anything in life.

Originally posted by: ishakumar

oh yea i completely forgot about that part...
very good point!
she is a very repentful person
she feels guilty when she behaves in a wrong way to a nice person

the only part when she doesnt feel guilty is when she does something bad to ashwin
and to be honest she shouldnt feel bad. he is a horrible person. he doesnt deserve anything in life.

Absolutely bang on post !

Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Absolutely bang on post !

Was much needed. I can't believe people thinks Maya is a villain ! Whoa ! Judgemental much ?? 😲 🥱

Originally posted by: ishakumar

hey yea well that is your point of view, and i completely respect that.
But to be honest never did i see maya as irresponsible.
she is very responsible actually thats why she has been so sucessful without the help of any man she has proven that she doesnt need anyone. especially when it comes to her loved ones, she is very responsible and takes good care of her mother.
She is not ruthless, because if she was ruthless she would never forgive Arjun and employ him in her office again.
she is not impulsive, because woh har kadam soch samajh jke rakhti hai. impulsive is someone who does things without thinking, and maya on the other hand take every step very carefully and with thought. like inviting saanjh to dinner, usne bahot soch samajh ke plan kiya.
Feeling of guilt is not foreign to her, because when she didnt let her mom go out much she felt bad and took her out shopping and let her go out with friends to spend time with them
her self esteem doesnt increase when she causes pain to others. she didnt look happy when she tore up Saanjh's papers. she did it only because saanjh got her mad. otherwise she was actually quite nice at first asking her what she wanted to drink or eat...

Sharmin sweety what do you think?

Hey, I understand what you are thinking about. But, no one would have done such things to get what she wanted. Yes, she cares about people.. but only about people who are important to her.. For example her mother.. then comes her job and then her love. But she doesn't care about others. I can't tell about the latest episods.. I don't know what happened.. But am talking about, how she is behaving when she sees Arjun near someone. She looks like she wants to kill Saanjh. Remember when she has broke the glass what she has in her hand when she saw Saanjh and Arjun dancing together. You could clearly see her anger towards Saanjh. But what did Saanjh do that she got angry of her and broke the glass even? Just think, when nobody were there.. she would even go to Saanjh and harm her anyway. She is obsessed with Arjun, but this is even OVER OBESSION that I can't even call her feelings obsession! She can't put her into someone else position that means, she can't think of how would Saanjh feel when she does that to her. She only feels the pain what she would get. Yes, she believes in God and she even prays to god.. but that doesn't mean she is not sycho.. And I didn't say if people don't pray to god they are sychos. 😆

1. Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
2. Absence of anxiety or other "neurotic" symptoms. Considerable poise, calmness and verbal facility.
3. Antisocial behavior which is inadequately motivated and poorly planned, seeming to stem from an inexplicable impulsiveness.
4. Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior.
5. Pathological egocentricity. Total self-centeredness and an incapacity for real love and attachment.
6. General poverty of deep and lasting emotions.
7. Ingratitude for any special considerations, kindness and trust.

1st and 2nd: yes, she is fearing of her dad.. but except her dad, does she has any other fear?

3rd and 4th: She is definitely untisocial! She doesn't go anywhere than work-home home-work.. She doesn't seem to have any friends or contact to anyone.. She doesn't have anyone to talk about her feelings not her fears.

5th: She doesn't love Arjun.. it's just because of him.. She only wants to achieve him because it seems to her like impossible and she wants to make it possible.. like opening any company was like impossible to her but she did it. She has obsession with impossible to makei it possible. She doesn't love him, it's just a obsession.. because only he cared for her.. because only he was the one to her who she would call a friend and she would trust. Whoever she met in her company, everybody felt like pretending/acting.. But only Arjun was someone who didn't act and was just like himself and that's why she felt something for him. As she doesn't know what a love is, she thinks so.

6th: She doesn't show any emotions than anger! No one could read her feelings from her face. Only god and she knows what she thinks&feels.😆

7th: Kindness... hm.. she was never so kind to people working for her in the company.. She is soo rude to them.. Whenever Arjun did for her, she never said thanks except once. (I guess).

So, the point is: Arjun changes her! That's definitely for sure. Let's see, what Maya will do next.

Originally posted by: ..Violetta..

Hey, I understand what you are thinking about. But, no one would have done such things to get what she wanted. Yes, she cares about people.. but only about people who are important to her.. For example her mother.. then comes her job and then her love. But she doesn't care about others. I can't tell about the latest episods.. I don't know what happened.. But am talking about, how she is behaving when she sees Arjun near someone. She looks like she wants to kill Saanjh. Remember when she has broke the glass what she has in her hand when she saw Saanjh and Arjun dancing together. You could clearly see her anger towards Saanjh. But what did Saanjh do that she got angry of her and broke the glass even? Just think, when nobody were there.. she would even go to Saanjh and harm her anyway. She is obsessed with Arjun, but this is even OVER OBESSION that I can't even call her feelings obsession! She can't put her into someone else position that means, she can't think of how would Saanjh feel when she does that to her. She only feels the pain what she would get. Yes, she believes in God and she even prays to god.. but that doesn't mean she is not sycho.. And I didn't say if people don't pray to god they are sychos. 😆

1. Absence of delusions and other signs of irrational thinking
2. Absence of anxiety or other "neurotic" symptoms. Considerable poise, calmness and verbal facility.
3. Antisocial behavior which is inadequately motivated and poorly planned, seeming to stem from an inexplicable impulsiveness.
4. Inadequately motivated antisocial behavior.
5. Pathological egocentricity. Total self-centeredness and an incapacity for real love and attachment.
6. General poverty of deep and lasting emotions.
7. Ingratitude for any special considerations, kindness and trust.

1st and 2nd: yes, she is fearing of her dad.. but except her dad, does she has any other fear?

3rd and 4th: She is definitely untisocial! She doesn't go anywhere than work-home home-work.. She doesn't seem to have any friends or contact to anyone.. She doesn't have anyone to talk about her feelings not her fears.

5th: She doesn't love Arjun.. it's just because of him.. She only wants to achieve him because it seems to her like impossible and she wants to make it possible.. like opening any company was like impossible to her but she did it. She has obsession with impossible to makei it possible. She doesn't love him, it's just a obsession.. because only he cared for her.. because only he was the one to her who she would call a friend and she would trust. Whoever she met in her company, everybody felt like pretending/acting.. But only Arjun was someone who didn't act and was just like himself and that's why she felt something for him. As she doesn't know what a love is, she thinks so.

6th: She doesn't show any emotions than anger! No one could read her feelings from her face. Only god and she knows what she thinks&feels.😆

7th: Kindness... hm.. she was never so kind to people working for her in the company.. She is soo rude to them.. Whenever Arjun did for her, she never said thanks except once. (I guess).

So, the point is: Arjun changes her! That's definitely for sure. Let's see, what Maya will do next.

all the symptoms u have just given are that of an introvert, and an antisocial person in general.
not much of a pyschopath, but yes lets see how arjun is the twist to the tale. 😃

Originally posted by: ishakumar

all the symptoms u have just given are that of an introvert, and an antisocial person in general.
not much of a pyschopath, but yes lets see how arjun is the twist to the tale. 😃

I don't say, she is sycho.. But I am scared if she will be a sycho! Becasue as I said, no one can read her feelings and no one can know her next steps... hopefully after Arjun gets to know her feelings about him , he will change her in a good way. As of now, Maya is NOT a psychopath! But even she is NOT normal! Dunno what to call her.. 😆 but she is definitely more near to psychopath than normal..

i think if you want to label her with a disorder the only one as of now seems to be antisocial personality disorder. this is what she is fitting into as of now. According to me, nowhere near a pyschopath.
yea i am waiting to see what magic Arjun will play on her. because that is when the whole story will begin...

Originally posted by: ishakumar

i think if you want to label her with a disorder the only one as of now seems to be antisocial personality disorder. this is what she is fitting into as of now. According to me, nowhere near a pyschopath.
yea i am waiting to see what magic Arjun will play on her. because that is when the whole story will begin...