Arjun should give respect to maya

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Seriously man this arjun should give respect to Maya no matter whether he is elder to Maya but she is his boss so one should give respect to his/her boss why he always call her by name and why he use tum instead of aap and the way he comes to Maya's room without permission is too much ...as we seen in many serials where a heroin will give much respect to hero when he is her boss like in ipkknd,geeth etc but in this serial it is female boss so he is not giving respect to Maya .just to show heroism director too much showing arjun disrespecting Maya..so as per shows only male boss will be respected but female boss will not ... atleast in serials don't show gender biasness... arjun is too much 😔
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yeah tbh I was wondering why he's calling her by name. The entire office calls her Ma'am, and he has just joined his job. And she isn't correcting him either.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rope_and_anchor

Yeah tbh I was wondering why he's calling her by name. The entire office calls her Ma'am, and he has just joined his job. And she isn't correcting him either.

just to satisfy heroism as per our indian films/serials hero should not give respect to heroin no matter she is boss etc hero should dominate heroin so that he will become hero
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Posted: 8 years ago
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New theory , calling some one tum= disrespecting him/ her šŸ˜• šŸ‘
So does that mean , if we call some one aap we are really respecting her/him ??

The entire office calls her maam and aap etc becoz they're shit scared of her , all of them considers her as Lady Hitler , how much they respect her as a person is up to question , two of her employees were in fact happy and giving out sweetmeats after getting sacked !!! 😲 šŸ˜†

Arjun is a chilled out person , he likes to be friendly cordial and informal with people, it has nothing got to do with him disrespecting her as a person and thank God , Maya , being smarter than us, can see the difference between informality and disrespect.

Have we forgotten how he hurried went to explain his flirtation with the designer guy as soon as they left to Maya ?? He didn't wanted Maya to misunderstand his character and that proves that he respects her though he's often pissed off by her iron glove policy and strict enforcement of rules , or else he wouldn't have bothered , because the important thing , to get the job done and convince the clients , was achieved by him and hey, wasn't it Maya who expressly told him he should be ready to do anything for the sake of success ??
So ?? Why did he bother explaining his behavior ??
He's of a good character , come on , give him some credit , at least he doesn't ogle Maya as if she's a "babe" .
Plus he craves for getting acknowledgement from her , that's why he ran after her car to hear a thank you from her mouth .

Maya have seen too many people in her life to differentiate and understand things with much greater depth.

Why people only talk about him drinking in the office and breaking rules ?? what about his good qualities ?? If we go on harping on his faults only we won't be able to look beyond them and see the good qualities.
He's loyal to his team mates , he's asking to get sacked but pleading to keep the other two team members in job. The way I've seen this world , most guys would try to save their own job , no matter how many lose their job in the process.
Previously also he insisted to bring back those employees who lost their job , the receptionist and the guard.
The fact that Maya gave a big explanation and almost requested him to choose to stay on the job proves the fact that she's impressed with his ingrained loyalty to people . This is more than what she'll do for most.

Edited by Lady_Macbeth - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Plus the very fact that he is chilled out in her presence and not at all intimidated by her and also calls her openly and casually by her name and Tum are some of the things that sets him apart from the thousand of other handsome guys she has seen in her entire life. His different attitude is what pisses her off , annoys and infuriates her , but at the same time challenges her and he's always in her radder . She wants Arjun to sit at a place where she can keep her eyes on him and by doing so , she's unconsciously making sure she's always eyeing him , even when she's busy with her work she's time and attention to notice his phone buzzing !
Had Arjun been how many forumites want him to be , polite , non-rebellious , rule-abiding , their love story wouldn't have ever happened.
Plus human mind is a mystery , you can't dictate or predict how person A will behave with person B , based on how she/he behaves with persons C to Z. So there's no point or logic in saying "She should've permanently fired him by now" She should've objected to being called Tum and Maya. " , heck for all we know she secretly enjoys being addressed so..
Even in the meeting , after the presentation was over , Maya straight went to ask Arjun , and not her old loyal long term employees , for ideas and once he , a complete novice and with out any experience , said he's some plans , she just left it on him to handle !!!!
She trusts him , he's a rule breaker but he's talented and extremely ambitious and loyal , plus there's a hidden under current of attraction ( not love , not yet mind it ! ) between them , which we must take into account or we'll miss half the scenerio.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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To the extent I have seen, in corporates, no one addresses anyone as Sir or Madam but they are called by names, be it a supervisor or TL or manager or HR or CEO or MD. I don't find anything wrong in Arjun calling her by name. Calling your boss by name does not mean you are disrespecting a person. On the contrary, it gives them a personal touch. I agree that Atjun is a rule breaker & unprofessional but he has always been trustworthy & reliable. He takes an initiative to do any kind of work. even at the time of collecting the termination leter, he arranged all the dresses at the proper place which made Maya change her mind. Even the clients like his presentation. He gets business for Maya & that is what any boss would want.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

New theory , calling some one tum= disrespecting him/ her šŸ˜• šŸ‘

So does that mean , if we call some one aap we are really respecting her/him ??

The entire office calls her maam and aap etc becoz they're shit scared of her , all of them considers her as Lady Hitler , how much they respect her as a person is up to question , two of her employees were in fact happy and giving out sweetmeats after getting sacked !!! 😲 šŸ˜†

Arjun is a chilled out person , he likes to be friendly cordial and informal with people, it has nothing got to do with him disrespecting her as a person and thank God , Maya , being smarter than us, can see the difference between informality and disrespect.

Have we forgotten how he hurried went to explain his flirtation with the designer guy as soon as they left to Maya ?? He didn't wanted Maya to misunderstand his character and that proves that he respects her though he's often pissed off by her iron glove policy and strict enforcement of rules , or else he wouldn't have bothered , because the important thing , to get the job done and convince the clients , was achieved by him and hey, wasn't it Maya who expressly told him he should be ready to do anything for the sake of success ??
So ?? Why did he bother explaining his behavior ??
He's of a good character , come on , give him some credit , at least he doesn't ogle Maya as if she's a "babe" .
Plus he craves for getting acknowledgement from her , that's why he ran after her car to hear a thank you from her mouth .

Maya have seen too many people in her life to differentiate and understand things with much greater depth.

Why people only talk about him drinking in the office and breaking rules ?? what about his good qualities ?? If we go on harping on his faults only we won't be able to look beyond them and see the good qualities.
He's loyal to his team mates , he's asking to get sacked but pleading to keep the other two team members in job. The way I've seen this world , most guys would try to save their own job , no matter how many lose their job in the process.
Previously also he insisted to bring back those employees who lost their job , the receptionist and the guard.
The fact that Maya gave a big explanation and almost requested him to choose to stay on the job proves the fact that she's impressed with his ingrained loyalty to people . This is more than what she'll do for most.

oh god it is not only arjun calling Maya with name but also he is not giving respect to her like he won't ask permission from Maya while entering to her room,the way he talks with her also not in good way so I find him annoying
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luckyiam

oh god it is not only arjun calling Maya with name but also he is not giving respect to her like he won't ask permission from Maya while entering to her room,the way he talks with her also not in good way so I find him annoying


I think you didn't read my post at all. Sigh ! If you're hell bent on hating a character for basically no fault with out even understanding the characters or story , well I can't help you. 🄱
Please carry on. šŸ˜† 🄱
Please at least read the comment before quoting it , small request. 😃 😳
Edited by Lady_Macbeth - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Plus the very fact that he is chilled out in her presence and not at all intimidated by her and also calls her openly and casually by her name and Tum are some of the things that sets him apart from the thousand of other handsome guys she has seen in her entire life. His different attitude is what pisses her off , annoys and infuriates her , but at the same time challenges her and he's always in her radder . She wants Arjun to sit at a place where she can keep her eyes on him and by doing so , she's unconsciously making sure she's always eyeing him , even when she's busy with her work she's time and attention to notice his phone buzzing !

Had Arjun been how many forumites want him to be , polite , non-rebellious , rule-abiding , their love story wouldn't have ever happened.
Plus human mind is a mystery , you can't dictate or predict how person A will behave with person B , based on how she/he behaves with persons C to Z. So there's no point or logic in saying "She should've permanently fired him by now" She should've objected to being called Tum and Maya. " , heck for all we know she secretly enjoys being addressed so..
Even in the meeting , after the presentation was over , Maya straight went to ask Arjun , and not her old loyal long term employees , for ideas and once he , a complete novice and with out any experience , said he's some plans , she just left it on him to handle !!!!
She trusts him , he's a rule breaker but he's talented and extremely ambitious and loyal , plus there's a hidden under current of attraction ( not love , not yet mind it ! ) between them , which we must take into account or we'll miss half the scenerio.

Iam a working women but I won't call my superiors with names like arjun calls Maya ok i accept their is no rule we should not call our boss with names but their is a rule that we should ask permission from our boss while entering into their room,no drinking in office,should be polite with our boss etc so I personally don't like arjun behaviour with maya
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman

To the extent I have seen, in corporates, no one addresses anyone as Sir or Madam but they are called by names, be it a supervisor or TL or manager or HR or CEO or MD. I don't find anything wrong in Arjun calling her by name. Calling your boss by name does not mean you are disrespecting a person. On the contrary, it gives them a personal touch. I agree that Atjun is a rule breaker & unprofessional but he has always been trustworthy & reliable. He takes an initiative to do any kind of work. even at the time of collecting the termination leter, he arranged all the dresses at the proper place which made Maya change her mind. Even the clients like his presentation. He gets business for Maya & that is what any boss would want.

Iam a software engineer in pune but ill call my superiors Mr.x,Ms.x,Mrs.x but not directly with names and I'll be polite to my superiors not only me everyone will be polite to their boss so I find arjun very annoying even my mom asked me why he is calling her with name will you also call ur superiors with names then I said to my mom no I won't

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