30/11/2018
Once again I am left to decode Aditya's problem because the show didnt get to explore the most important part. Aditya's problem was not he didnt trust Zoya, or he associated her purity with her body. His problem was the deal. See if Zoya was raped or she was trapped by Rajvir Aditya wouldnt have given a hoot. But here the issue was Zoya decided on her own to share a night with Rajvir. It was consensual.
Though he understood why she had to do what she did, his mind couldnt take away the fact that his wife shared something with another man, that was so something between them. In the dream he sees Zoya happy with him and then Zoya happy with Rajvir. That deal, that consensus factor had somehow drilled Zoya willingly shared herself with Rajvir. That was his battle of head and heart. His heart knowing she is pure, that's why he didnt throw away anything, he didnt destroy anything. His head unable to erase that image.
That image has its origin with Pooja who had a consensual relation, who had EMA. Also the broken trust across board wanted Aditya something solid to belief his heart voice is true. What I actually wanted was that nani to show the video of what rajvir did to Zoya. I had wanted Aditya to see in the so called consensual night spending what that girl went through. Just like the tears he saw on that divorce papers, I wanted him to see what she had done is actually allow someone to rape her and yet unable to complain about it, because she gave consent to spend one night.
Yes he wanted proof to calm his head and not play its games because of past. He trusted his father. Broken trust. He trusted Pooja without any proof. Broken trust. He trusted Sakshi without any proof. Broken trust. So much trust has been broken for this guy he had reached a point where even to believe his trust, he needs proof.
The best thing he told was he is not Ram, he is a normal human, with human flaws. And yes it was his mistake to shout at her, but he wants a second chance with her. Atleast his bharosa on her didnt break. He was willing to trust himself once again. This I knew he will have to go to her as his dad ask for forgiveness and if the story had continued Zoya was not going to forgive him that easily. Because she asked now you think I am eligible for you. So it was going to be takkar and Zoya would have made him take that long walk for this mistake of his. Unfortuantely we missed that journey. We missed that battle of head and heart. Cant do anything about it.
Also Anjana turned to be the murderer. This aspect also I had noted as I knew Zoya will remain the only truth of his life as each and every of his other perception break about his parents, most importantly of his mother. Because there is no lie about Zoya.
Whatever she was, she was right in front of him. While each of the people wore mask in front of him, this was the only woman who didnt had that mask. But the mask others put will ensure, this will be the woman also who will have to give proof of her actions to rekindle his bharosa and faith. Because his scars are deep. These things were supposed to be dealt in depth, but we got so little. That hug after Anjana was arrested, there was only one person for him and that was Zoya.
Last but not the least. One of the best things they showed was, u dont get anything destroying others. You cant live happily taking revenge. Rajvir didnt live long enough to enjoy the revenge he took on Adiya. And nani is condemned to a lonely life. The very same life she had prescribed for Adiya most importantly Aditya taking everything away from him. That life has come to her. Alone. What you give others, it comes back to you.
Love will come to you, only if you give love. Zoya had given love. She refused to give proof, but proof finally went to Aditya. Aditya loved Zoya, he was fighting his past. He wanted to close it once and for all. Finally the proof to close his past presented itself in front of him.
It's said the biggest thing about love is forgiving, if someone repents from their heart. Aditya repented to Zoya from his heart, for his mistake and Zoya forgave him from her heart. Something Anjana couldnt do to Harsh. The aspects of love, trust, understanding and forgiveness was there to explore in the story, but couldnt be explored fully. But yes they explored the most important aspect trust and forgiveness. For a couple to sustain ur married life there has to be an ability to forgive. Self respect, ego everything has to be there. But things have to be communicated. Sorry and accepting sorry can go a long way in saving a relationship and sometimes that sorry is worth it.
Adija and Zosh didnt get second chance because they didnt communicate. Aditya was not sure whether Pooja will forgive him, Zoya was not sure why her love couldnt keep Yash to her. But in case of Adiya, Aditya walked the path to ask that sorry and for once Zoya could be at peace that her love this time was enough to keep Aditya to her. True second chance is not when you love your partner, but when you understand your partner with all the flaws.