Understanding Aditya.

...Doctor... thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 7
Posted: 7 years ago
#1
I think people are misunderstanding and misinterpreting Aditya's motives. Aditya is not making Zoya realize her feelings, he was never keen on doing that. He always wanted to confess his feelings to her and give her time and space to realize her feelings for him. So what is Aditya trying to do, you ask?
Aditya is trying to explain it to his friend and the love of his life that she is committing a grave mistake by marrying Arshad. His major concern right now is that Zoya is succumbing to family and Aditya's pressure and taking the wrong route again. He knows her pain and he doesn't want her to suffer again.

If you see closely, he almost always tells her to not marry Arshad or to think thoroughly before taking a decision. Now that Zoya is getting married in 7 days, that's when he started hi incessant trials of making her realize her feelings because that's all the time he has got. If Zoya breaks up with Arshad today, he'll give her time and space to think about her feelings.

As he said "Pyaar mein zor hai, zabardasti nahi."

He is going to try his best to win his love till he can but he will never force her into it. That is Aditya Hooda for you

Created

Last reply

Replies

10

Views

1.2k

Users

11

Likes

50

Frequent Posters

Aaliya_Fizz thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 7 years ago
#2
Agreed
His best dialogue so far ' pyaar Mein zor hai, zabardasti nahi'
❤️
Kiruravi thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#3
Agreed.😊 More than her realisation all he wants now is to stop zo frm takng wrong decision tht too within short span of time.
crazypoodle3 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#4
Exactly, and given the time he has no choice but to act in situations where he knows Zoya will react even if that comes at the cost of his self-respect because the biggest loss for him would be losing Zoya and allowing her to be in an unhappy loveless marrriage when he knew how she felt and did nothing to stop her. He knows how she felt with Yash and can't allow her to do that again.
myluvHarshadCho thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#5
thts tht i want
i want zoya to tell adi tht she will not marry arshad(for this smthng major shud happen) bt he shud also leave her alone & promise her abbu tht she'll not be in touch with adi,etc
and at tht time adi shud back off and give her space so tht she cud realize on her own
& tgen zo realizing his worth n imp in hr life


sheermischief thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#6
That's right. He only has 7 days to play with. He will try his utmost best to get Zoya to feel what he feels.
However as he said when Arjun asked him what if she still marries Arshad. Then Aditya said he would do nothing more and leave it.
Stakes are high. Zoya is stubborn and she will do what she wants no matter how hard Aditya tries. She has a mind of her own. Remember when she went against everyone's wishes and reopened the Yash/Pooja case. She was determined to prove everyone wrong. And she did. She won.
So I don't think Aditya can force her or coerce her into loving him. From his point of view he can only try. At the end of the day its Zoyas decision. She's a strong woman who knows her own mind. And I think that's what might make Aditya go slightly overboard cos he's afraid he might lose this time too.
sweetsorrow18 thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 7 years ago
#7
Exactly what you said

Aditya never wanted to force Zoya into marriage with him, he also never wanted Zoya to confess her love for him the minute he did. Time and again, he's always said that HE WANTED to confess.

His confession didn't work out the way he wanted, the prank he played also didn't work out too well - and on top of that, the girl he loves wants to get married in 7 days...somewhere, he also deep down probably feels responsible for her sudden jump into marriage.

This isn't Zoya, and he knows it, which is WHY he's so persistent. He even said it today - why is she so angry?, why is so upset?...it's because of her feelings ...the minute her best friend confessed, she also has begun to realize that she's been feeling the same, except she covered it with a mask of friendship ...that's all Adi is trying to show her.




brishtii78 thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#8
Exactly!!! Aditya is doing all this only to make Zoya realize that she' making a big mistake by rushing in to marriage with Arshaad... the guy she barely knows and a guy who barely knows her. Aditya is not trying to force his love on her and make her love him back. His best friend and hmtge love of his life is about to make the most terrible mistake of her life which she'll regret later on. Zoya is rushing to marry Arshaad only to prove Adi that she doesn't love him. Its her Zid now. She's not thinking from her thanda demaag. So thats why Adi is all hell bent to make her realize that. Even if that means taking Waseem's insults and bowing down infront of Arshaad.
SaloniVats thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#9
Yesss! I so agree with you.. I wrote it in another post.. Aditya doesn't want Zoya to SETTLE for anything now.. he has seen her in her lowest and just wants the best for her. He knows Arshad is not coz she is settling for him just because her father thinks its the best for her. Its not her natural progression to marry Arshad.. its the pressure of your past .. repercussions of bad choices..
Aditya just wants to make her realize that its okay to make mistakes..he did too..but that doesn't mean she would just about settle for something! She deserves the best and god forbid if it wasn't Adi and someone else her heart wants, I am pretty sure he would have happily let her go considering she is happy! Such is his love!
Kaaria thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#10
I'm so with you on this!!
Yes!!
He's trying to make her understand that she is running away from him because he loves her and doesn't wanto face the situation because shez scared to be scarred again in love.
Adi's lines... you need to be loved because she lived a loveless marriage before too.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".