People are messy, relationships will be messy - Page 2

@adhira seeing ur post I am reminded of an interesting experience. See the problem is our culture don't encourage questioning. If u read Ramayana and Mahabharata questions will come to u. But if u ask elders the reply u get us ram is God so he is correct. Krishna is God what he did is dharma. Believe my questions were really crazy. Why ram banished sita.why agnipareekaha. If bhishma is so good how he allowed disrobing of panchali. How could he take three princesses from swayamvar,how could he terrorize king of gandhar subtely to force them to marry their princess for the blind prince. What is being with a friend of it means killing a 16 year old. Which dan and which dharma can protect karna from that crime. It is endless u can say. Again if krishna loved radha why he didn't marry her and married rukmini. So many. But even the question freak in me was not prepared for the question I faced as part of a personality contest in my professional sphere. I was among 5 finalists and among my hobbies I had written mytho freak. One of the question was if kamsa knew devaki eighth born will kill him why he kept them in the same cell. If he had kept them in seperate cell the problem itself wouldn't have happened. He didn't had to kill six babies too. I was stumped for sometime. But I answered and I was first runner up for the competition. I am not putting the answer I told. U can discuss. Why did kamsa allow the birth of devaki son.

Originally posted by: mans1234

your posts is really nice and makes u think like ya whatvever it is written is true .. i kept nodding my head with every point of yours ..

i just want to say ever since this Arshad track has started writers need to be careful with their writing and not meddle with characterization of their own leads ...

Really? Glad you like my posts :) Yeah they have to be careful with their characters!

Great point adhi..when we look at it..both did the same thing..wrong to do it..but their intentions were never evil..

Originally posted by: Dragonfly88

Really? Glad you like my posts :) Yeah they have to be careful with their characters!

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@adhira seeing ur post I am reminded of an interesting experience. See the problem is our culture don't encourage questioning. If u read Ramayana and Mahabharata questions will come to u. But if u ask elders the reply u get us ram is God so he is correct. Krishna is God what he did is dharma. Believe my questions were really crazy. Why ram banished sita.why agnipareekaha. If bhishma is so good how he allowed disrobing of panchali. How could he take three princesses from swayamvar,how could he terrorize king of gandhar subtely to force them to marry their princess for the blind prince. What is being with a friend of it means killing a 16 year old. Which dan and which dharma can protect karna from that crime. It is endless u can say. Again if krishna loved radha why he didn't marry her and married rukmini. So many. But even the question freak in me was not prepared for the question I faced as part of a personality contest in my professional sphere. I was among 5 finalists and among my hobbies I had written mytho freak. One of the question was if kamsa knew devaki eighth born will kill him why he kept them in the same cell. If he had kept them in seperate cell the problem itself wouldn't have happened. He didn't had to kill six babies too. I was stumped for sometime. But I answered and I was first runner up for the competition. I am not putting the answer I told. U can discuss. Why did kamsa allow the birth of devaki son.

wow! Although I didn't know these stories in depth but whatever I knew I remember I use to question my mom too. Specially the sita getting banned and agnipariksha is still a question mark for me. I don't know krishna story that much so I can't say much about devki and her 8 th born. Would love if someone does throw a light on it :)

Originally posted by: deeps07

Great point adhi..when we look at it..both did the same thing..wrong to do it..but their intentions were never evil..

I dnt think zoya will be this angry for.prank call..i still.feel she will.be angry when it will be revealed to her that aditya did all this becz he loved her..its not the act she is angry abt..but the love..which she was least expecting from the very person who was her confidante...tht feeling of betrayal would be the reason for her anger regarding all the accusations..she might chose not to trust aditya for tht matter..

Yeah, it's not the prank. It would not have blown out of proportion if this slap and fight between arshad and Zoya had not happened. Now the problem is when one trust gets broken she might think he actually did the other prank too

Originally posted by: alizia_malik

It is so true that every person gets refined due their experiences and past. Putting yourself in their shoes can't actually tell us the depth of the emotions other person is feeling at particular situation. Maybe it is because most of us haven't gone through such traumatic past. We all can think rationally and if i try to see AdiYa from those lens then def they will appear to be childish, impulsive, immatured.. but that doesn't mean they don't consider the gravity of the situations around them. They are just so damn broken and still trying to get through the life. There will be many thing in the show that will be shown only for the entertainment and drama purpose. What makes BP different is that they both are still not some perfect prism even after going through the past they had. A person can grow with time and it is needed for them for their own betterment but to change the nature or character completely is something that can't be done that easily. It will be beautiful to see them grow together but still i do believe person should balance the emotional and practical aspect of their nature. We need to give space to others so that they can refine themselves with their mistakes and trials.. so do we need to give that space to ourselves.

nothing more to add, you said everything beautifully :)

Originally posted by: mans1234

Yes really !!! U sounded so surprised ..😆 I dint get ..

Haha no it was a happy kind of reallyy' 😆