Why doesn't Zoya hold any anger for Pooja? - Page 3

Originally posted by: delena90

Because Zoya rightly realises that Yash is the one who owed her fidelity not Pooja.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Accepting Ur mistake , taking whole blame on urself , TS completely wrong more than adiya it was poosh's mistake , I will say 99% mistake was poosh , 1 % mistake was adiya. One is d bitter truth Zoya lack self respect & highly dillusional she don't know how d real world work , no woman with a sane mind will ever support aur called a EMA a pakk pyar, ADI was right that Zoya will feel very proud to tell d world her mahan Yash made Pooja pregnant . She read pooja's diary started seeing world from pooja's eyes that ADI was a bad husband infact ADI did much more 4 Pooja , which Pooja dint mentioned in diary. Yes ADI is wrong in calling Zoya a bad wife he has no right to do .

ADI is not delusional who don't know what is EMA , take whole blame on himself.

Gods know what will be her reaction after knowing Pooja was pregnant by adi

Originally posted by: malarmia

Simple.

She had no rights on Pooja as she had on Yash.

If Yash was loyal and Pooja was after him, then she could blame her.

In this case, Yash deliberately signed the divorce papers.

Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara

I couldn't agree more.. your each sentence reflects my thought.

I love the fact that both Adi and zoya are shown as imperfect which make them look human..there are moments when I am irritated by them and there are moments I cried with them..

But sometimes this forum hypocrisy gets on my nerves.

Few days back I came across a sentence "FL are often bashed harshly for even their small mistakes(if it's something which hurts the ML then poochna mat) and ML are often excused citing their current situation,bad past etc etc"

I would say truer words were never spoken. This sentence reflects the reality of our society as well as all the forums, and bepannah forum is no different.

If we see from the beginning it was Adi who hurted and troubled zoya more and not the other way round..He called her dumb,an incompetent wife and blaimed her for the EMA,m manhandled her and mistreated her. It was then when the poor girl had not even recovered from the loss of her husband..He didn't show an ounce of sympathy/humanity towards the one who was going through the same pain as him..all that mattered to him was his pain only and to escape from it he made zoyas life even more miserable..he was pure selfish there.

That time I didn't see any outburst towards Adi like the outburst zoya is getting for calling Adi imperfect(mind you imperfect not incompetent or bad like he did)..All I could see was "oh my poor Adi"reactions..Yes there were a very few mature ones who called out Adis behavior but even then the intensity was low and there was no mass outburst.

And another thing for which zoya is being blaimed is for being thankless towards Adi..but I fail to understand how is zoya indebted towards Adi..she was just minding her own business after her husbands death and it was Adi who interfered in her life and made it a mess..it was all his doings which made zoya and him to end up in jail so it was his duty to save her as well..now the scores are settled..they both don't owe each other anything..but they will risk their life for each other because of the connection they share..dard ka rishta.

I gets irritated whenever zoya tries to justify PooSh..zoya is wrong in justifying an EMA..But her acknowledging her shortcomings was a mature move from her side which Adi lacks..Yes like you said Zoya accepted her mistakes but she never said Yash went to someone else because of my shortcomings..she never did..instead she said she would never forgive Yash.

I support Adi in this whole poosh case reopening matter..he is the practical one and I am with him...but I didn't like it that he didn't acknowledge zoyas concern for him and her goodness in letting him know ab the pregnancy before hand and instead he used her selflessness against her..I didn't expect it from him.

One more thing about the poosh case reopening..Harsh varan hooda cunningly put all blame on Yash(and in that process made zoya look like an incompetent wife) and cleared poojas name from all accusations and saved their family reputation..if it was the other way would Adi have been so cool about it like he is now.. ofcourse not and he showed it when he tried to slap zoya when she badmouthed Pooja..Adi lost the right to question zoyas action then and their..I thought he would understand zoyas feeling then but no he is acting as a hippocrite..

And at last about the title of your post..that's one of the most positive thing I am seeing in this show.. Usually in our society when an EMA happens all blame goes to the other woman..even the wife blames the other woman for snatching away her husband than her husband..it's the husband who took vowes with her and it's him who is answerable to her not the other one with whom she has no relationship..and in this show not only zoya but her entire family blames only Yash and they don't care about Pooja..even in hooda family no one blames Yash except for Adi..it's Adi who blames Yash and zoya than his own wife. And he hates Yash more than Pooja and it's very immature from Adis part.

And about Adi always imagining poosh to be physical while zoya understood their emotional connect..i have read an article few years back where it's said that for a woman it will be more painful to know that her husband has an emotional bond with another woman(her husband loves another woman) than to know that he had random sex with someone else and they said it's the opposite for men..they will forgive them and accept back if it's only an emotional bond but won't forgive a physical relationship..and I feel it's true.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

Yes I agree with u that ADI has no right 2 blame Zoya or call her but I agree with his anger with poosh both deserve this ,

Zoya can't t blame Pooja coz she dint signed d papers but Yash did sign divorce papers , diary Yash mainly blamed Zoya showing himself a victim