Why doesn't Zoya hold any anger for Pooja?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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The biggest parallel between Aditya and Zoya's reaction in this EMA fiasco is Zoya never blamed pooja for anything. She never held any anger for pooja, never called her cheater. Doesn't she hold the rights as a wife to blame the other woman for snatching the husband away? She blamed Yash and realized her own short-coming. She just said to Aditya that he is not a perfect husband but Aditya on the other hand blamed Zoya for everything.. even taunting that " tumne hi kuch kami hogi " ( Indirectly referring to lack in physical relationship ), called her "dumb with a beautiful face". He in his anger mishandled & mistreated her often. She never blamed Aditya for being a bad husband and so his wife ran into the arms of her husband. She just said that he is not "perfect" never the word "bad". Aditya on the other hand downgraded her to every worse thing.
Aditya is practical, his intentions are not wrong but he is the one who has hurt Zoya more.. through words and through actions. Can't he realize that Zoya is hurt too? He will realize it later and then run around her to amend ways.

Aditya always sees Poosh affair as physical ( In his head poosh are all lovely-dovely, touchy-feely ). When his sees poosh ki aatma, he always feel both of them are taunting him.

But, Zoya realizes that poosh connected on an emotional level.

I know everybody have their favorites but most of the time Zoya is called dumb and selfish because she is being compared to Aditya. But, if you compare Aditya to Zoya, he is more selfish and manipulative one.

Because, I am more interested in the story, I find both of them extremely mature at certain point and thoroughly annoying in other parts. But both balance the story out. So, cheers 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Because Zoya rightly realises that Yash is the one who owed her fidelity not Pooja.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Because she never had expectations from pooja she never met her it was yash who she expected to be faithful to her. But more importantly Zoya keeps blaming herself for yash cheating on her she has to realise ultimately Yash was more of a failure in their marriage if he wasn't happy with her he should have spoken up but didn't.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cherryfairy

Because she never had expectations from pooja she never met her it was yash who she expected to be faithful to her. But more importantly Zoya keeps blaming herself for yash cheating on her she has to realise ultimately Yash was more of a failure in their marriage if he wasn't happy with her he should have spoken up but didn't.


Blaming yourself and realizing one's own shortcoming are two different things. Zoya knows her short-comings but she never blames herself for the affair. She never said "mujh mein kuch kami hai" she always said "main yash ko samaj nai payi" unlike aditya who blames himself, zoya, yash, pooja, sakshi, arjun, police, postman, plumber, aliens etc etc for the affair. 😆

And, aditya never knew yash personally too.. so why does he have the luxury to throw shades on him always?

Zoya should have this luxury. She should also badmouth pooja in every episode.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90

Because Zoya rightly realises that Yash is the one who owed her fidelity not Pooja.


Like Zoya, Aditya should realize it too rather than burning down the whole world.😆

Pooja owed him fidelity not yash.. but more than blaming pooja, he blames yash ki woh uski biwi chori karke le gaya.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: hookahbar

Because yash promised her commitment and honesty,not pooja


Aditya should realize that too that pooja promised him honesty and commitment not yash or zoya or sakshi or anyone else he blaming.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm gonna be super filmy and quote my favorite movie but "parai log se kya shikayatein, ghaav toh apno ke zyada chubte

So basically...how can she have any qualms with a stranger (Pooja), it's her own (Yash) that hurts her

Edit: She is more sensible in realizing this but honestly I think Aditya's ego hates Yash.
I could be wrong in saying this but my mom and I were discussing this last after last night's episode 😆 and we came to the conclusion that men can't bear a woman cheating because it makes him feel incompetent whereas women are quicker to forgive infidelity because society makes them believe they couldn't keep their husband/boyfriend happy. Disgusting but I've seen it time and again
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ishana-

I'm gonna be super filmy and quote my favorite movie but "parai log se kya shikayatein, ghaav toh apno ke zyada chubte

So basically...how can she have any qualms with a stranger (Pooja), it's her own (Yash) that hurts her


So, I'll take the quote as a statement that Zoya is more mature in handling this situation.😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pri89



So, I'll take the quote as a statement that Zoya is more mature in handling this situation.😆



She is! Also I edited it 😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I loved Zoya for not blaming Pooja for the affair and her stance on Pooja has stayed the same since her suicide attempt. BUT I don't resonate with Zoya's current stance because:
Firstly she's jeopardising her and Adi's freedom in her mission to absolve Yash, a person who'd cheated on her and had literally mocked her intellect, of false murder charges.

Inconsistent dialogues given to Zoya that dilute her character credibility. She says Pak rishta on one day, bewafai the next day, "hum achhe patni nahi the", says she would not forgive Yash for his infidelity yet keeps his photo as the screensaver etc etc whilst Adi has been the only consistent character in this mess. His dialogues today were off the charts and this is exactly HOW 90% of the general populace react to cheating! Zoya's character should have at least taken the middle-ground after reading the wretched diary instead of this extremely warped narrative the writers are trying to vindicate by the end of this track.

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