Aditya and the raised hand

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Hola guys,

A quick small post given the number of threads debating the precap already.

Am slightly lost here.. why are we so surprised with adi's reaction here?

Isn't he the same guy who nearly threw Zoya off the roof in an earlier episode? Isn't he the same guy who during the riot night, manhandled Zoya for saying something as trivial as kaun banega aapki video, resulting in a slap to his face?

Isn't he the same guy who pushed Zoya out of his way acriminously, during the near hit incident by his car and she cites something about his flying abilities?

My point being aditya has manhandled Zoya quite a number of times in the past.. I guess we cut him some slack as he wasn't as bad as the other misogynists on TV.. and unlike them, Aditya never did it intentionally.. he has been shown to be carried away by impulse and then regret his actions immediately or in due time..

So here too by raising his hand, he is being true to character and he is responding in the heat of the moment, to zoya.. yet again his impulse is immediately reined in and he doesn't finish the deed..

The other thing with Aditya is, his impulsive streak cuts across gender..infact it does not see gender here.. he is a raging bull with everyone.. no am not justifying him.. it's just the character that he is

Finally, looking at if from another perspective.. were Zoya slaps justified? Whatever adi said to provoke her, should she have hit him?

Just a thought to mull over.

In all the debate on feminism, I think it's about being equals.. and not one rule for guys and that women can get away with slaps or for that matter murder

Thoughts?

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Tardis

@DreamOfEndless

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Posted: 7 years ago

Equality doesn't mean that gentlemen would abandon their courtesy. That is just good manners, nothing to do with equality.

For slap or aggression, neither Zoya nor Adi, are right in slapping or attempt to slap. Adults are supposed to have mature conversation.

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Tardis

@DreamOfEndless

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+ 19

Posted: 7 years ago

This is just my opinion... don't take personally. No offence!

PS: Forum hi hawa badalne lag gyi h..

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Pri89

@Pri89

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Posted: 7 years ago

It's more about human behavior and how we react in certain situation.

Zoya is correct in her argument and Aditya, the human won't slap zoya but any human will react adversely in such situation.

Let's see the situation from a human's perception.

And, applause to the CV's. They have shown both Zoya and Aditya as flawed characters. Let's see the situation in a realistic manner. There's nothing wrong with the scene.

Edited by Pri89 - 7 years ago

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara
Equality doesn't mean that gentlemen would abandon their courtesy. That is just good manners, nothing to do with equality.

For slap or aggression, neither Zoya nor Adi, are right in slapping or attempt to slap. Adults are supposed to have mature conversation.

Precisely, dreamy.

My reason was calling it out is to say neither are correct.. we can't condone Zoya for the slaps and condemn adi for raising his hand. period.

And why gentlemen alone adhere to courtesy and manners.. it's universal.. the behaviour cuts across gender is my point.

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Maryam

@Maryam2

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Posted: 7 years ago

i mean adi's reaction was just a human reaction as well as zoyas

nothing to judge here.. both loved their partners even though they cheated on them, they LOVED them and it's hard for anyone to hear bad stuff about the person they love.. both have said things and both have reacted.. as simple as that

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Subha

@Life_Is_Dutiful

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+ 40

Posted: 7 years ago

U have a point. Slapping someone is wrong, whether it's a guy who does it to a gal or vice versa.

The first time Zoya slapped Aditya, she was broken, shocked and shattered due to the untimely death of her husband and Aditya was continuously annoying her. That was an instant reaction which she regretted immediately.

The second time she slapped him, Aditya said something even more worst. He said that she couldn't satisfy Yash physically so he went to another woman. No woman in this kalyug will ever tolerate that. She slapped him hard and never regretted.

In all these instances, Zoya reacted when Adi said something to her. In the first instance, he called her bewakoof and gadhi. In the second instance, he accused her of not satisfying yash.

But this time, Zoya didn't say anything to Adi. She said something about Pooja. She questioned Pooja's character and that made Adi angry and he raised his hand.

So that's the difference between Aditya and Zoya. Even if he raised his hand, he stopped himself because he realized he was about to slap a woman he cares and respects more than anyone in his life.

Another difference here is Zoya cannot stop herself from slapping but Aditya does stop himself from harming Zoya.

In the terrace scene, Zoya was being delusional. He got angry with her and pushed her but at the same time, he held her hand tightly because his intention was not to hurt her.

So even if Adi is impulsive, gets angry easily but he does control his anger on time which Zoya can't.

I am just mentioning the difference between Adi and Zoya in these situations.

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Pri89
It's more about human behavior and how we react in certain situation.
Zoya is correct in her argument and Aditya, the human won't slap zoya but any human will react adversely in such situation.

Let's see the situation from a human's perception.

And, applause to the CV's. They have shown both Zoya and Aditya as flawed characters. Let's see the situation in a realistic manner. There's nothing wrong with the scene.

Yes Pri.. I agree with you

That's why I was talking about the character here... Adi s actions are in congruence to his character.. it's a split second reaction to an attack on a loved one..

I brought in the feminism debate/ the right or wrong of it , only with my second point..just as angle to be mulled over

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara
This is just my opinion... don't take personally. No offence!

PS: Forum hi hawa badalne lag gyi h..

No worries.. we are just discussing a point na.. what's to be personal here.. and no am not offended.. 😊

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#10

Originally posted by: Maryam2
i mean adi's reaction was just a human reaction as well as zoyas
nothing to judge here.. both loved their partners even though they cheated on them, they LOVED them and it's hard for anyone to hear bad stuff about the person they love.. both have said things and both have reacted.. as simple as that

With you, Maryam

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