Isnt Sakshi wrong ?

I am Achu...i am active on this forum as i have exams now but i love the show...havent missed a single epi I believe...will be more active next month onwards.

Something from yesterday's epi left mr in thoughts. Couldnt help disvussing. So yesterday Sakshi as she tells Adi to not judge Pooja without knowing her side of the story and asks him to think over what was lacking in their relationship. Is this right ?

I accept that Adi was childish and perhaps hurt Pooja unknowingly by like the time he refused to accompany her for the poetry night event. But does that justify Pooja's actions ? Pooja and Adi did mot gave an arranged marriage where they had no idea about their partner's choices and behaviour before getting married. They were childhood friends. Pooja knew him best. So didnt she know what dhe was getting into when she married him ?

Perhaps as Pooja says in the diary she had no idea what it is like to be in love until she met Yash. For the first time she met a man who can take care of her and not the other way round. She fell in love. That does happen. But then as Adi asks why didnt she tell him ? He would havr been angry. Would have hated her. But she wouldnt have to live with burden of a loveless marriage. But then she was his friend. She didnt want to hurt him. Maybe she decided to end her relationship with Yash for him. Hence the divorce papers were left unsigned. But in that case would she have been able to be happy with Adi like before. Probably not. Wouldn't Adi have found out some day ? Even if she believed she coukd bring things back to normal did she want to continue with thr same marriage which lacked something ? Why in the first place did she never ask Adi to change himself a bit for her ? Why didnt she fight for Adi to see what she liked was important too ?

No i dont blame Pooja for falling in love with Yash. But why couldnt she just take a divorce from Adi and tell him the truth ? Or if she wanred her marriage to work why didn't she ever talk to Adi ? Pooja is mature young woman. Why she did what she did is yet to be revealed. But what Sakshi said made it seem like its Adi's mistake that Pooja left him. That was rude. Specially considering his present condition.

Dont you think so ?

N what was shcking... was Sakshi reminding Adi all this now?... when he told her to leave... that too when she was wrong n Adi was broken? Whch lady... who claims to love a person as ver own son wud add salt to his wound that way??

Exactly...Sakshi should have talked about this to Adi when Pooja was alive...not now abd not when he just had his trust broken again... she knew about Pooja and Yash and advised them to break up...maybe the duo accepted her advice and Pooja wanted to give her marriage another shot...in that case she couldnt tell Adi about it as she didnt wanna hurt Pooja and Adi...but she could atleast havr talked to him about "what is lacking" bsck then casually...or she could have told Adi about it atleast after Pooja's death...but she too betrayed him...n then now she asks