I guess it wasn't justification... She was trying to imply why it shouldn't be done what they are doing...
See, I will explain it in a simpler manner.
She is telling bukhaar kin reasons se ho sakta hai.
She is not telling ki bukhaar hona achha hai ya bura.
Kin reasons se shaadi kharaab ho sakti hai ye jaanne mein kya buraayi...
After all she is telling how to save a marriage before it gets spoiled.
Aur rahi baat communication ki, toh I am not telling that it wasn't Poosh's fault. But I am saying, it wasn't their fault alone. Sirf ek partner ki galti se do logo ka rishta nahi toot ta, only if the other one is strong enough to sustain it.
The issue is, Adiya never realised their mistakes until Sagarika mentioned it just by chance. To blame the evident cheaters is very easy. To take the blame of the wrongs they themselves did is very difficult.
Today was the realisation bit. They just touched the tip of the iceberg.
To understand and to imbibe is even difficult.
And it is well said- To value your most prized possession, you need to lose the second highest first.
Losing Pooja and Yash respectively, Aditya and Zoya know exactly what they need to NOT do in their second marriage, the partners of which will be their invaluable possession... They'd know that no matter how great friends you turn out to be, you cannot take your spouse for granted.
Communication is indeed important, so is the respect for each other's feelings.
I hope this helps...
Edited by Aazeen02 - 7 years ago