DiD they SERIOUSLY ???

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Did they seriously just justify cheating
Common there is nothing better than communication and if that doesn't work then just walk out of the marriage
Cheating is not and should never be an option
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think more than justifying cheating, the message she was trying to portray was that "A Marriage is all about compromising for eachother"

Adi and Zoya definitely realized where they were wrong in their previous relationships!
I am loving Sagrika Bhabhi
Edited by Songbird12 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't think she justified cheating.. She just told that what might happen, if there is no communication between the partners and if one is taking the other for granted.. She did not say that extra marital affairs are correct..
She wanted to say that marriage is something where both the partners have to put in efforts..
Even the flashback made AdiYa realise that they probably weren't giving attention to those things which mattered to their partners..

I agree that communication should have happened from poosh, but in Aditya's flashback we can see that she was disappointed when he blatantly denied to accompany her.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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But in the end she did say that that is why extra marital affairs occur
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I guess it wasn't justification... She was trying to imply why it shouldn't be done what they are doing...
See, I will explain it in a simpler manner.
She is telling bukhaar kin reasons se ho sakta hai.
She is not telling ki bukhaar hona achha hai ya bura.
Kin reasons se shaadi kharaab ho sakti hai ye jaanne mein kya buraayi...
After all she is telling how to save a marriage before it gets spoiled.
Aur rahi baat communication ki, toh I am not telling that it wasn't Poosh's fault. But I am saying, it wasn't their fault alone. Sirf ek partner ki galti se do logo ka rishta nahi toot ta, only if the other one is strong enough to sustain it.
The issue is, Adiya never realised their mistakes until Sagarika mentioned it just by chance. To blame the evident cheaters is very easy. To take the blame of the wrongs they themselves did is very difficult.
Today was the realisation bit. They just touched the tip of the iceberg.
To understand and to imbibe is even difficult.
And it is well said- To value your most prized possession, you need to lose the second highest first.
Losing Pooja and Yash respectively, Aditya and Zoya know exactly what they need to NOT do in their second marriage, the partners of which will be their invaluable possession... They'd know that no matter how great friends you turn out to be, you cannot take your spouse for granted.
Communication is indeed important, so is the respect for each other's feelings.
I hope this helps...
Edited by Aazeen02 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I get it guys its just the word cheating gets me haywire
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think waht they wanted to sshow is that Adiya should have a realisation that They were not perfect partners.Infact they were too demanding and maybe never cared for the likings of their partners.
BUT THIS DOES NOT JUSTIFY CHeSTING.actually nothing can
But I actually I was happy that makers finally remembered to show what the show is about.I thought this show is becoming a stupid love triangle making Mahi a vamp and uopar se Madhu.unka bhashan hee nahi khatam hota hai

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