Would you? - Updated

Edited:

So some said yes and some said no. And then there were some boys, so they completely backed out😆

The ones who replied, had varied perspectives behind their reasonings. That was the purpose of this poll. Perspective. It's a very strong and underrated word. We all are different people, with different personalities. So the judgements we make are almost always biased based on our personal knowledge and experiences. In my case, I wouldn't have been in a good place if I was in a relationship with the old Adi. Mostly because having such a person, who takes you for granted, by your side 24/7 would make it intolerable for me. I can't help it because that's how my personality is! However, I would have tried my level best to communicate and make him understand the problem, because at the end of the day he is a loving, caring, loyal and funny guy. And someone who I loved. That's my perspective, but some people may not agree with that because of the way they see things. Some people may want people like Adi in their lives because that would match or contrast with their personality.

The way we look at a story makes a lot of difference. In this case, the show is from Adi and Zoya's perspective so we automatically sympathise with them. However, if this was a show from Pooja and Yash's perspective, and if Harsh and Jenny played those characters, we might have viewed the show entirely in a different way. It's just like Mahabharat. The entire world termed Pandavs as the good side and the Kauravs as the bad side, because the final victory was Pandavs. Can you imagine how we would look at Mahabharat if the Kauravs had won? Would we not blame the Pandavs for 5 brothers marrying one woman (Draupadi)? Would we not blame them for betting their wife? Would we not blame them for not standing up for their wife when she was insulted in front of the entire kingdom? Would we really go out of our way and term Kauravs as the bad guys and Pandavs as the good guys? I don't think we would.

That's the thing about human psychology, we always see things uniquely. No two people can think exactly the same. Nothing's black and white. Shades of grey, often more than 50😛 always exist. That's what Bepannaah is trying to do, they are not glorifying infidelity, they are just showing the other side which we never see. And I wholeheartedly appreciate the team for it's originality. I really appreciate the makers for showing a different perspective of the same story that has been shown over and over again in shows and movies, in a new way, where its highlighted that the person who cheated is not always the only one at fault.

Note: Many people are saying that Pooja justified her infidelity in her diary. But why does she need to justify and write into something that was meant for no one to read. She just confessed all her feelings into the diary. She never said what she supposedly did was right or wrong.

That's nice to know :)