Too young for engagement?!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arey people leave everything. I strongly am against Aayat going lovey dovey for Rizwan and their engagement. She is just too young for it. 😛

I know they're not getting married but then after engagement, she won't even study instead they will keep talking on phone. Aayat is just 20, at least graduate tou karley 😡 Seriously, Ghulam and Shabana dont even care about getting their daughter educated?! Even if they have plans of only engagement right now, then does it mean that they will get Aayat narried after 4 years.. when she turns 24? Then why getting her engaged so early? 😕


From the beginning of Rizwan Aayat love story, i find this bad. And in today's generation, no parents worry about their daughter's engagement/marriage especially when she is so young. 🤢


Like one thing i wanna say: Aayat you're a kid, shut up and do your homework 😆



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Posted: 11 years ago
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20 is not so young... people get married when they are 16/18 yrs of age... its not about age...its more to do with how mature the individual is and whether or not they are ready for marriage... some may be as young as 16/18 but be very mature and ready for marriage while some maybe 26/27 but still be immature and just not ready for a commitment like marriage. 20 is not a bad age to get engaged...I know many that have got engaged at 20 and married a yr or two later.
and who said u cant study after marriage or an engagement...?? and even if they do talk on the phone it doesn't stop someone studying, plus aayat has a secure job in a company...so she must have already quit studying.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Though I like Riz Aayat but in some places I do find that age gap ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think she is really immature for getting married😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

20 is not so young... people get married when they are 16/18 yrs of age... its not about age...its more to do with how mature the individual is and whether or not they are ready for marriage... some may be as young as 16/18 but be very mature and ready for marriage while some maybe 26/27 but still be immature and just not ready for a commitment like marriage. 20 is not a bad age to get engaged...I know many that have got engaged at 20 and married a yr or two later.

and who said u cant study after marriage or an engagement...?? and even if they do talk on the phone it doesn't stop someone studying, plus aayat has a secure job in a company...so she must have already quit studying.


Yeah i agree with all what you said. But i was just trying to make a fun post to bring in some positivity and keep up the forum activity 😉😃

Everybody is making posts about blaming Aaliya or Aayat. So i thought to make a different post.

And yeah as Tee pointed out i too think she is immature to get married.
Edited by -ZaYalicious- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -AkkiLuvsNBT-

Though I like Riz Aayat but in some places I do find that age gap ...


Yeah. In today's generation the husband and wife like have a difference of only 2 to 3 years. Okay, we can ignore this age gap but Aayat is just too childish.. its time for her to study
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well my mom get married at the age of 19 n my nani at the age of 13 or 14...bt nw time has change so when gal turn 23-24 then parents start luking for a match for them if she has nt selected her herself
N here aayat has herself selected rizwan so wht her parents cn do if miya biwi raazi toh karega qazi wali situation...if she herself getting so desperate to get married without even caring for her studies wht others cn do.
Love is blind when sumone fall in love he/she doesn't care for anything else so ths age factor is nothing...atleast thy r adults n I think tatz enuf for them😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -AkkiLuvsNBT-

Though I like Riz Aayat but in some places I do find that age gap ...

age gap?? aayat is 20 and rizwan is 24 (becos him n zain r the same age and studied together) the difference is 4 yrs...thts not so bad?😕 I think the age gap everyone finds difficult to accept is that between the actors and not the characters... shivangi does look young for her age which makes it looks like vikas/shivangi and aayat-rizwan have a huge age gap...
about studying, aayat left studying becos she got a job offer in a Mumbai company so her elders advised it was better 4 her to work rather than study... her stopping studying wasn't becos of rizwan or their relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: zaya.fan

I think she is really immature for getting married😕


That's what I was abt to say.I m not saying abt age but d way she bahaved today,she is not mature to get married for sure.Imagine,she's ok with d fact dat Rizwan might b d father of d child but she Luvd him so much dat it doesn't matter.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aneesha.

Well my mom get married at the age of 19 n my nani at the age of 13 or 14...bt nw time has change so when gal turn 23-24 then parents start luking for a match for them if she has nt selected her herself

N here aayat has herself selected rizwan so wht her parents cn do if miya biwi raazi toh karega qazi wali situation...if she herself getting so desperate to get married without even caring for her studies wht others cn do.
Love is blind when sumone fall in love he/she doesn't care for anything else so ths age factor is nothing...atleast thy r adults n I think tatz enuf for them😆


Yeah i know about old generation people... but my mum got married at the age of 24. Lekin now its new generation. Hahahah! Good definition..blind love lol!

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