What's your Beintehaa story ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: --epiPhobia--

I met this guy over FB ages ago...and then we got really close since we literally chatted all the time non-stop for about 3 years...and then he wanted to meet up and i was not too sure...and then there was issues in my life so we stooped chatting.

after i stopped chatting to him i missed him so much and just couldnt handle it so started to chat again and thats when i realised i love him and since other guys came in my life too but i refused as i couldnt get him out of my head..and that it was not infatuation

i hope to get him back in my life as i really love him but dont know if it will happen...cause i wont be able to forget him.

Originally posted by: NinjaInPyjamas

Hi! 😃
I am new to the forum..well I did stalk earlier, LOL, but seeing your topic and moreover your post, I had to comment 😊

Similar to yours, I liked this guy for a really long time. I think for as long as I remember knowing the difference between a boy and girl. LOL. We were family friends and childhood buddies, but then drifted apart though our parents were close. And all of a sudden I landed in the same college as him. Destiny? People used to term it love, haha, but I don't know...love is too strong a word...🤔

Sadly, some friends plotted against me and turned him against me so now we don't even recognize each other and I feel completely betrayed as a friend from his side, so now..well things are not nice. LOL

So yeah, mujhe friend-turned-foes se beintehaa nafrat hai aur usko main beintehaa like karti thi 😆

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

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Thank you, Taniya! :)

and wow, that's bad. I despise guys that cheat on girls & think they can play them whenever they want to. It's good you've stopped feeling anything close to love for him..yeah, the hatred part, I understand. Actually,think of it, ifsuch people are worthy of your hatred..cause even hatred for someone occupies space in our lives..if he doesn't matter to you anymore, that's great..but if he does hurt you or bother your thoughts, even in the form of hatred, then just let go Taniya.. a peaceful way out.. :)

Beintehaa pyaar se Beintehaa nafrat...true, your experience completely justifies this.

thanks unnati... yes he is definitely not worth... it was a 4 yr relationship broken in an ugly way which was quite disturbing... anyways its been an yr it all happend and i moved on from it...since then he started interfering n i used bash him, then he used to stay away for 15-20 days n again he used to start disturbing.. and the cycle continued since an year.. i was so lost my patience n gave the final ultimatum to him which was too recent...it was just a week ago... thats y its still fresh in my mind hence the hatred is fresh too... i will get over the hatred too soon...

p.s: typing from mobile... sry for the typos/mistakes

Originally posted by: * Unnati *

Omggg..that's the same case with me !! My crush are I were childhood buddies & family friends !! That's exactly the case. Ditto. Yeah, but we never studied together though lol I wish I did have the chance. Could've changed things if I did😆

I can't understand why would friends do that to a friend, but it's sad that they plotted against you and your crush.🤔 Well, who knows ? I'm a huge believer is destiny & fate lol

Like they say "kismet se zyada, ya kismet se kam, kisi ko nahi milta hai" lol Cheesy..but I guess it's true lol

So you never know, destiny might again have you both face each other or even solve stuff between him & you, if it's written 😳 But yeah, I guess to empower our destinities, we need to work with it simultaneously to help it manifest itself..so have you both ever tried clearing it out ?

Sit together somewhere & just talk your hearts out! :)

Originally posted by: --epiPhobia--

I met this guy over FB ages ago...and then we got really close since we literally chatted all the time non-stop for about 3 years...and then he wanted to meet up and i was not too sure...and then there was issues in my life so we stooped chatting.

after i stopped chatting to him i missed him so much and just couldnt handle it so started to chat again and thats when i realised i love him and since other guys came in my life too but i refused as i couldnt get him out of my head..and that it was not infatuation

i hope to get him back in my life as i really love him but dont know if it will happen...cause i wont be able to forget him.

Oh God sameee happen to me, and now I have boyfriend but still in my heart is someone else, I know that this love is impossible. But still everytime when I hear some music or watch something. First what I have on my mind is that guys, I try to dont think about him but impossible 😔

Well I have boundlessly hated and loved the same person for about 3 years now, but I have never expected anything to happen , not even then.Not even now. I know a part of me is always going to hold a candle out there for him but I have accepted that people move on and life moves on . It waits for no one. So yeah. 😆

Originally posted by: spicySugar..

It's crazy! Well, the "hate" came in later..kind of like a defense mode from my side to stop that ridiculous crush on him! God! He ain't even worth it! But gadha dil..skips a beat from time to time 😆

OMG SAME TO SAME STORY. 😳

I am a muslim...And bringing this love romance date concept is not good at all in islam.

When the word 'Beintehaa' pops I think of my love of life!! Which is chocolate and ZaYa<3