awareness about hindu customs, than why not muslim ones? - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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^^^ none is arguing dear..

we are just disappointed with CVs..:(

thats all..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i dont know what is modern what is ok & not. it depends on the person. but in india many muslim girls wear revealing clothes. eg. gauhar of big boss who wont do aarti but will wear revealing clothes. i am a muslim too i do not cover my head but i dont wear revealing clothes & i do attend aartis, i dont have a problem doing that. and my not wearing revealing clothes has got to do nothing with me being a muslim,its about my comfort. But the way aalya's family is shown i just think the girls in that family would not be wearing such revealing clothes. but cant say. ...still.
re going to dargah i never heard it is prohibited. everyone visits ajmer dargah here in india. and dowry yes it is still taken in some places & asked also. so i guess they are showing what is already there
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Posted: 11 years ago
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yeah u r right
i strongly recommend the makers of muslim indain shows to watch 6-7 pakistani dramas like humsafar zindagi gulzar hai mastana mahi kankar etc
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Posted: 11 years ago
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secondly if aliya was shown as zoya then i wud not object at all but if shes shown religious then oh no she has to watch out what she is pot raying
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Even I noticed the lengha and thought it was a little odd since it's a Muslim drama but it's also a Muslim drama set in India. With that said it's going to be influenced with Indian traditions because it's natural for them, thats what they've seen all their lives. I'm not saying that that's an accurate representation of Islam and writers should be aware of some traditions, it is something thats becoming very common these days. Muslim girls are branching out and wearing lengha's as such and wearing sari's where midriffs are partially seen and it's becoming acceptable.

As far as dowry's go, I think people are getting confused between Mehr and dahej, both of which are extremely different.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: zarmeeno

The objection I have with most of the Indian dramas that they show lot of dargah visits. Visiting Dargah is definitely not part of religion. Infact it is strictly forbidden to visit dargahs.


Is it forbidden for women or for all Muslims in general? I know women aren't technically suppose to visit graves and go to cemeteries during burials of their loved ones, and some even argue that they aren't suppose to go at all even after but there still seems to be confusion between dargahs and gravesites.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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MODs Please Shift this thread and mash it up with dedicated Thread Q &A on Muslim Culture...Please...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hmm..I don't know about the other things that you stated but regarding the dowry thing...its not the religion that demands it.
I don't think there was ever written anything about dowry in hindu scriptures. Its the society who is responsible for all this like the ritual of sati was modified.
And yes even agree with you on this that the CV s should be putting more effort in research when it comes to sensitive topics such as religion.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: InvisibleSmile



The bone of contention regarding wearing hijab has been of rage across the entire world. Some say it is not compulsory, while scholars have argued it is mandated. However, sometimes it can depend on how you perceive the interpretation. Regardless, I think wearing the hijab and covering your head is a good thing. You are right, women do benefit from following these teachings as it protects them vile gazes. If we follow these teachings it is only for our betterment and will help us in the hereafter.

'' Time may change but our iman and religion would not never change.'' Beautifully put.

You are right, dowry is haram and yet people still continue to ask for it. The thing is we humans are ignorant and we don't think about the consequences. I guess that is what makes us humans also. May,
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala forgive us and keep from leading astray. Ameen.

If I have said anything wrong, I do apologize.


I found da post and all ur feelings very gud and respectable... U respect ur religion and want it to be da same in future and don't change with time.. which is very appreciable...coz ppl (what ever da religion is) are forgetting der religious values, which shouldn't happen...but da nly thing which made me disappointed in what all u said is "You are right, women do benefit from following these teachings as it protects them vile gazes" ...Isn't dat giving men a super power???I mean women thinking dat way...dat dey should cover der body so dat men cannot scan dem ... I guess dats teaching men "gals should cover der body other wise we hav full rights to scan dem and comment on dem"...I do say we should cover ourselves according to personal taste or religious beliefs...but our thoughts shouldn't be like we should cover to protect ourselves from men...which is giving dem rights in an indirect way...just my opinion...

PS: I'm a Hindu but still I do cover all my body...not head though...so m not encouraging women to go on a skin show...hope everyone understand wat I feel...n m sorry if I hurt u in any way😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#30
Yess..i agree with u to sum extend..
Im a muslim too..
I felt odd wen i saw Aaliya roaming around without any shawl on her head n opened hair. If nt hijab atleast they could hv made her wear shawl over her head covering sum part of the hair like hw most of the muslims do.
Nd the dowry part ws also too much..Being a muslim i never really heard ny cases like this..

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