awareness about hindu customs, than why not muslim ones?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Someone recently pointed out to me that the writer or the maker himself is Muslim. It seems like a case of QH again. It might have done them some good to do research before starting this show. While some flaws are easy to overlook others aren't!

1) Muslim men are forbidden from wearing any kind of gold. They are allowed to wear silver, hence in engagement or weddings they are given silver rings not gold. But, Aaliya's parents brought a gold ring for Zeeshan, even though the makers have portrayed them to be religious people.

2) Dowry is haram in Islam. It is completely forbidden. Of course taking few gifts here and there is fine, but making it compulsory is completely wrong. (While I agree dahej is still prevalent in Pakistan and India, maybe the makers could have taken a more positive route and showed something else. ) For example; In Islam,mahr as translated into dowry is a right of a woman, which is hers to take in total and is lawful only for her. It is a compulsory amount of money a husband promises his wife right before he signs the Nikkah. The nikkah cannot happen without the haq-e-mahr.
The mahr' amount remains and is considered a debt upon the man until he fulfills this debt in full, or his wife, of her own free will, chooses to forgive it or a part of it.

3) Why was Aaliya's midriff bare? Honestly, this is a Muslim drama! I will forgo the head-covering that she did not do in her own engagement, but the bare midriff? What were the maker's thinking here? This seems simple enough for everyone to get right and yet they still screw it up.

Like a friend said, why is it that when we non-hindus can learn about hindu traditions and customs, then why can't non-muslims learn the beauty of Islam also? Why is it that these creators take on the task of making a show with a muslim background, they fail to convey the distinct differences. To me it seemed like I was watching an Indian show not a Muslim drama, except for the difference of their names being familiar.


If I said something wrong or have misunderstood a concept, please feel free to point it out to me with proper reasoning.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't see anything wrong with Aliya's lhenga! It was perfectly fine to me. She had a duppta in the front it's okay. Even I am a Muslim girl and I wear lehanga a like that. Even if u wear a saree you can see a girls stomach and Muslim girls wear sarees too. And I have seen lots of Muslim man wear gold. Time is changing now. Religious Muslim wear gold too.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarun_Luv_Arhi

I don't see anything wrong with Aliya's lhenga! It was perfectly fine to me. She had a duppta in the front it's okay. Even I am a Muslim girl and I wear lehanga a like that. Even if u wear a saree you can see a girls stomach and Muslim girls wear sarees too. And I have seen lots of Muslim man wear gold. Time is changing now. Religious Muslim wear gold too.



Okay, so what you are saying to me is as time moves forward we should our forget our religious teachings that have been bestowed upon us for centuries. I guess by that logic in a few years, we should strip away our clothes and wear mini-skirts because well the times have changed now!

What is wrong is wrong and it deserves to be pointed out. Muslim men aren't allowed to wear gold, and so they shouldn't. The reasoning of time is irrelevant. My post was to point out authentic flaws that are hiding the true beauty of Islam. I don't know how you have been brought up, but I am still aware of gold being forbidden and it is still best for a woman to cover her entire body. Just because the times are changing, it does not mean one should forget their religious teachings.

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Originally posted by: InvisibleSmile



<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Okay, so what you are saying to me is as time moves forward we should our forget our religious teachings that have been bestowed upon us for centuries. I guess by that logic in a few years, we should strip away our clothes and wear mini-skirts because well the times have changed now!

What is wrong is wrong and it deserves to be pointed out. Muslim men aren't allowed to wear gold, and so they shouldn't. The reasoning of time is irrelevant. My post was to point out authentic flaws that are hiding the true beauty of Islam. I don't know how you have been brought up, but I am still aware of gold being forbidden and it is still best for a woman to cover her entire body. Just because the times are changing, it does not mean one should forget their religious teachings.
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the type of clothing that you wear shouldn't really matter as long as you believe in Allah and pray to him it's all good. And Aliya believes in Allah and prays to him so I dont think the type of cloths that she wears should matter at all.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agreee with u😛.i am also a muslim .and i cover my head and i also wondered why aaliya is not covering her head😕evn she could cover her head and all the parts where she is suppose to cover when she goes out isn't so?its the rules of islam and that is for the benifit of women .i also wish that in this serial is its really a muslim serial she should cover her head
and its exactly true that muslim men should not wear gold.its the rule of islam.islam haa made rules for the benefit of us in this life and hereafter😊alhamdullilah we should learn it and obey t.time may change but our iman and religion would not never change😊

and yes dowry is haram in islam and i must say that i think that they should not show muslim people asking dowry must be stoppped.its haram in islam but why do people repeat the same mistake😔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sarun_Luv_Arhi

the type of clothing that you wear shouldn't really matter as long as you believe in Allah and pray to him it's all good. And Aliya believes in Allah and prays to him so I dont think the type of cloths that she wears should matter at all.



Well, than you surely have some misconceptions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with point 1 n 3.. but i dont think dowry is haram in islam..i heard prophet Sallahu Alaihi WaSalam gave things of necessities to his daughter like utensils to cook with..agree one should not ask 4 dowry..i personally hate people asking 4 it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well then in Islam girls are suppose to cover their hair and wear hijab. But obviously Aliya is not wearing hijab. It's just a tv show don't take everything to seriously. Also we have seen Aliya and zain dance with each other and again they will be dancing with each other in sangeeth episode and in Islam Mixed dance is harm unless you are married to that person. And zain and Aliya are not married. But still us Muslims we do mixed dance. No one is perfect! And this is just a show. So why are you not saying anything about the dance then!?
Edited by Sarun_Luv_Arhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm so glad you pointed this out...it was bothering me too when I saw the episode and found Aliyah's midriff bare and using a gold ring for the guy in the engagement...

Below is an example from Quran and Hadith about clothing and gold as such...

Quran (33:59) - "Tell thy wives and thy daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks close round them..."

Abu Dawud (32:4092) - The Apostle of Allah... said: "O Asma', when a woman reaches the age of menstruation, it does not suit her that she displays her parts of body except this and this, and he pointed to her face and hands"

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 808 Narrated by Abu Musa Ash'ari

The Prophet (saws) said: Wearing silk and gold has been made unlawful for the males of my Ummah and lawful for their females.

Edited by -sumaiya- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'm not going to bash anyone, but as being muslim and thinking that the show is about muslim even though i love this show i really was shocked to see yesterday aliya in that lehenga where you could clearly see her stomach i really wanted to make post on that but then i thought maybe some people won't be seeing anything wrong aboit so didn't post. But i was like tgey show aliya as really religious then how did they forgot that muslims are not allowed to show that kind of skin show...

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