Today's Episode~ It's all about ego...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hope someone does something, cos this marriage is nothing but a battle of the ego between two Thakurs.

Mithilesh's ego~ Being all silent on the dining table and not responding to Badi Amma's taunts, does nothing to move him, as his ego seems to be swallowing him whole. The ego of the Begusarai's would be King, the ego of being the oldest brother, the ego of not letting his younger brother to gain an upper hand. This one decision he chose to take on his own, of letting Bindiya in will screw up the entire family equation. And a few days back his father was praising him to be all responsible and managing everything so well. So, thank you Mithilesh, because of you we are going to have a story.

Lakhan's ego~ This guy, will be his own doom, if he does not put a leash on his two weaknesses~ Anger and Ego. Again, he is screwing Poonam's happiness, by wanting to marry her within a day. WTH??Dude, you go on like this, you ain't getting the girl, pal. And his venomous mom, has nothing to do but crib and spew venom. And Lakhan, chose a great day to listen to her. Now I understand why Mithilesh and Priyom wanted to stop the wedding, as per TC article, because Mithilesh does not want to get defeated by Lakhan, and Priyom knows that its not going to be right for Poonam to marry right now. And all this why - because one wants to throw Bindiya out, and the other one doesn't.

Phoolan's Silence~ This guy only does 'parivaar' ka jaap, but is doing everything wrong. Dude, you are the King, for God's sake, King always has to be neutral, irrespective of who is standing before him. You are kind of proving to be just a Mukhya of your family, not King. Your family also fall amongst the people of Begusarai, you have to be just there as well. Take uncomfortable decisions for their good. That is what a King does. Just giving them your gyaan is not doing well for them, as you can clearly see. And you know, your children are a bunch of egoistic brats fighting because of a woman. Your silence will be your ruin, wake up, Mr. Phoolan sleeping lion Thakur, otherwise it will be too late.

Badi Amma, the Star~ Aaj ki star was Badi Amma. Now that is what a true Thakur is. She is a woman, with the guts of a man, with no qualms of speaking the truth, in the most blunt way possible. That is why she is Phoolan and Bhushan's amma, and we know where all the Thakurgiri comes from. Hats off to her. She did not just show Bindiya her place, but also saw through all her stupid womanly tricks. If Bindiya has had ghat ghat ka pani, then Badi Amma has fought, killed, looted and survived in the male dominated society. So, do not mess with this spunky grandma...Uff, i just loved her today.

That's it for the day, as I am not commenting on any love triangle. But, must say, its turning messy, and i don't like it that way.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What to say? Everything you have said is up to mark. I don't believe rekha will give such ideas to her son.Just to get bindiya out, there are millions of ways of doing it. She wants money that's it. But in the most stressed conditions a person opens her mouth that's what Poonam is going to do. She beared it all on advise of mother but not any more. Totally understand poonam.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

What to say? Everything you have said is up to mark. I don't believe rekha will give such ideas to her son.Just to get bindiya out, there are millions of ways of doing it. She wants money that's it. But in the most stressed conditions a person opens her mouth that's what Poonam is going to do. She beared it all on advise of mother but not any more. Totally understand poonam.


Exactly, Poonam has her back at the wall, and she is nearing her toleration limit. Now she will push back. And I am sure Lakhan will not like this as well. But, Poonam needs to give it back at him. Give him a taste of his medicine. Then only will he understand. Otherwise as Priyom said, "Ek din zindagi usse namak ki tarah pani me ghol ke pee jayegi."
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on ... Nothing more to add, except for the following thought from my end which I have put in my post in the EDT thread as well:

Is it "joru" or is it the "ego" of a few male chauvinist Thakurs that is going to trigger the downfall of the entire Thakur clan !!! sochne ki baat hai !!!

To be frank, after what has been shown today, I would be extremely happy if the creatives bring some new guy for Poonam. Lakhan, is now literally out of this equation as far as I am concerned, after what he has executed and uttered on Friday and today. As a girl, I feel for Poonam's extreme humiliation and I simply don't find any tiny bit of romanticism in that sadistic torment and I don't believe in "girl redeeming bad guy and forgetting & forgiving every humiliation faced to have a happily ever after with him". And I neither would be able to support Priyom wholeheartedly for obvious reasons. But, I know, unfortunately the creatives would never listen ...

My point is, if the creatives have wanted to create a triangle, why didn't they come up with at least somewhat compatible character-sketches of the trio (at least that should have been applicable for Lakhan and Priyom); instead of painting one almost entirely with grey !!! Triangle ko to pura barbaad karke chhod diya inn logon ne !!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandrima02

Bang on ... Nothing more to add, except for the following thought from my end which I have put in my post in the EDT thread as well:

Is it "joru" or is it the "ego" of a few male chauvinist Thakurs that is going to trigger the downfall of the entire Thakur clan !!! sochne ki baat hai !!!

To be frank, after what has been shown today, I would be extremely happy if the creatives bring some new guy for Poonam. Lakhan, is now literally out of this equation as far as I am concerned, after what he has executed and uttered on Friday and today. As a girl, I feel for Poonam's extreme humiliation and sorry, I simply don't find any tiny bit of romanticism in that sadistic torment and I don't believe in "girl redeeming bad guy and forgetting & forgiving every humiliation faced to have a happily ever after with him". And I neither would be able to support Priyom wholeheartedly for obvious reasons. But, I know, unfortunately the creatives would never listen ...


Unfortunately, there is no scope for new guy for Poonam...if we see the three junior Thakurs..none of them are good people. They are flawed, very much. And uss hisaab se to Priyom and Lakhan, both do not fit the bill for Poonam's suitor.

But i don't think Poonam needs to reform or redeem anyone of them. Cos if both fall for her, they will be fulfilling that purpose for themselves. And who knows, the Thakur boys might surprise us...sab creatives ke haath me hai...

Priyom as we know that he is in a way compatible as far as understanding goes. But Lakhan, he is grey with darker tones. Who knows both the boys might do things which we never expected from both.

Ego has always been there in these Thakur men, but that have always remain buried within somewhere. Its just that Bindiya has forced them bring out their true nature on the fore.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Loved the Dhishkayon scene 😆.. But one thing I dont understand - As a nachaniya/call girl whatever, it's Bindiya's job to lure men as part of her roji-roti.. But why is no one scolding Mithilesh when it was HIM who first approaches her 😡 Hope Dadi soon puts these two together and shows them mirror.. For Bindiya to earn money she earned the cheapest status in Begusarai that is 'rakhayl' / keep, and Mithilesh oh I have no words for him .. I still feel he should be bashed left right and centre for all these.. 👎🏼
Lakhan is going haywire 🤬 I am waiting to see Poonam calling off the wedding and doing whatever, bt the incident should be an eye-opener to Lakhan and he should revisit his own actions to realize WHAT went wrong
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Loved the Dhishkayon scene 😆.. But one thing I dont understand - As a nachaniya/call girl whatever, it's Bindiya's job to lure men as part of her roji-roti.. But why is no one scolding Mithilesh when it was HIM who first approaches her 😡 Hope Dadi soon puts these two together and shows them mirror.. For Bindiya to earn money she earned the cheapest status in Begusarai that is 'rakhayl' / keep, and Mithilesh oh I have no words for him .. I still feel he should be bashed left right and centre for all these.. 👎🏼

Lakhan is going haywire 🤬 I am waiting to see Poonam calling off the wedding and doing whatever, bt the incident should be an eye-opener to Lakhan and he should revisit his own actions to realize WHAT went wrong


Strength of character is not one of the strengths of the Thakur boys, all of them actually. Being Loyal to one woman, both Mithilesh and Priyom don't display. Lakhan on the other hand having many flaws, is very loyal to Poonam, as he has never displayed any interest in women as such.

And having a keep is a kind of a culture of these rich, powerful men. And Bindiya can do anything for money, even if that means that being a keep. And Badi Amma can rant all she wants, do you think she can do anything?? Her authority works over the women in the household, not men. Except her sons, she does not have control over anything else.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Couldn't agree more!
I don't understand why did Laakhan listen to his mother today of all days.. She is never right.. So why now? Is he so insecure about himself all of a sudden?? I was really upset that he left her there and forgot about her.. Was kinda sad watching her in the end.. I hope when he goes to her house he actually remembers that he left her.. As per spoilers he brings her back but what is the point now? After hurting her so much?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on post 👏 very well written...
Poonam's father is more dangerous how can he see his daughter like this...he can easily stop water after lakhan's left.. but i still dint get it ..is laakhan said to dont take poonam home.. now he will tell as he already reached home of poonan in precap..feel for punmy...waiting for her lioness to come out someday..

I personally dont like rekha devi...but i enjoyed her scene with laakhan... vse she dint say wrong..and i like how she makes her place in male dominating society...may be she is evil..but i appreciate that she has voice..and i can say she can give aamne samne ki takkar...
Do you guys realize how smartly she played...now if phoolan ask why you want marriage...laakhan will say i cant see bindiya on begusarai as she said wrong about mu wife and also cant go against mithilesh zubaan..so i respect mithilesh's zubaan and will marry today so that bindiya can leave... now phoolan have to take action smartly...

And phoolan, i have so much expection from him...he knew mmithilesh is wrong but keep his mum... dont its phoolan responsible for mithilesh ego that hez elder and he cant be wrong.. even he keep his mum in poonam'study matter... do ypi think , it will help in unity of family...it will somewhere leads to downfall..

why phoolan.give so much ttime that rekha can manipulate laakhan...if parivar is imp.and he lnow mithilesh is wrong but he cant oppose to maintain mithu's elder brother position..then he should immediately approch laakhan as he know about his bailbhuddhi...

And dadi scene is bang on...bindiya, you are pani kam.in front of DD..🤣

TC article make sense now...but this marriage will not call off but will postpone...lets see how phoolan will handle this time..

Though i dint like evil rekha...but she needs my claps👏 as shez has voice and know how to use it.. poonam needs to learn something from her , than she can give back to laakhan and her voice will help this bailbhuddhi as he need good voice not evil voice of his mom.for character growth
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Superb Post ... perfect analysis of the situation.
Both Mithilesh and Laakhan are weak characters ... they are nothing without the "Thakur" tag. All the work and respect that they get is because of their fathers influence. And because of this they keep on boosting their ego by tormenting people who are weaker than them... Mithilesh uses Laakhan as a punching bag and Laakhan does the same with Poonam.

For the first time. Laakhan raised his voice against Mithilesh, but Phoolan spoiled everything🤢
"bade bhai ka samman chhoton ke samne kam nahi hona chahiye" was a total crap.

If he had trashed Mithilesh right there, Laakhan wouldnt have misbehaved with Poonam.

What Phoolan Thakur said and did "kuch baaton ko nazar andaz karna padta hai" is going to prove fatal.

For Badi Amma... she is a rock star 👏
And i so wish she had guessed it was Rekha who mixed Bhaang in the sweets and bashed her. 😉😉😉 ... i love Badi Amma - Rekha and Badi Amma - Bindiya scenes.

But in all this i feel sad for Poonam... all she has in life is an insensitive father, a weak mother, an abusive husband, a greedy mother-in-law, a meek father-in-law and a blind and helpless extended family.

She cant even express herself 🤢

But my experience of watching so many daily soaps in past and the new title montage says that it will be Poonam-Priyom marriage that will happen which will pit Laakhan against Priyom now.

And in this case, Mithilesh will definitely support Priyom.

This might cause a rift between Phoola and Bhushan too 😳

Lets see what CVs have in store for us 😉


Edited by bgargate - 10 years ago

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