Psychological Analysis of Anirudh - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nish27

Wow!!! Just wow!!! Clearly depicting the actual emotions of aniruddh roy Chaudhary...

I have no words dear....🤗

People blaming ani and thinking that rudhita bond is ruined completely beyond repairs should read this❤️

Thank you ❤️

Thanks for the PM Sim 😳

First of all, this is absolutely true that there is no point reading between the lines or trying to analyze any character or any plot in an ITV show 😆

But given your interests, I can understand you cannot help but analyse 😳 It's a good thing and in fact very challenging to analyse and bring out such traits for a character when even the writer has no intentions to project it 🤣

"The principled ARC can never even think about falling for a kid."- Well, that simply means ARC has messed up the concept of love in his head 😆. Is it that we always fall in love with a person only? Don't we fall in love with a book? with a piece of writing ? with a song ? with an idea ? with a concept? Is it necessary that to be in love with someone/something you need to have romantic feelings ? Nope

My point is, he would not be afraid to fall in love with Bondita, but he might be afraid to get romantically attracted towards her, but given the situation that she is just a kid, I do not see that happening in the current situation. Then what is he afraid of? Maybe the fact that he might get attracted to the same kid in the near future? Yes, that is a possibility.

Again, the entire analogy about favorite food relates with Attraction not Love. Love is a very settled and patient feeling. It's just the perception. He does not know what love is, he is like most of us 😆 I don't blame him for that 😆

He cares for Bondita more than anything right ? Then how can he let his own emotions overpower his principles, his values and his care for Bondita? I understand we are humans and we make mistakes. But it is important to correct them as well. Today, the village women are taunting Bondita ONLY because of the way Anirudh behaved with her on their anniversary in public. That is why it is important to keep your temper under control.

I do not agree with your last bit on feminism and psychological aspect. First of all, the true essence of 'feminism' is that there should be no such word like 'feminism' at all 😆 It's just that women were treated as a lower gender for a long time, and all we want is equality. So I will not use that word here and I will not say that it is because of 'feminism' that we are angry at Anirudh for being insensitive towards her. Had it been the other way round, we would have felt equally agitated at the female lead as well 👍🏼 It is not about Bondita being a woman, it is about Bondita being a human being who has the same emotions which Anirudh has.

If one can sympathize with Anirudh for the immense psychological turmoil he is going through, why shouldn't we do the same with Bondita as well?

She is a already a 12 year old kid who is facing atrocities on a regular basis, a little girl who had no idea about periods and was mislead by sampoorna, a kid who has no idea what patni ka darja society is referring to and a kid who had no idea why her husband cannot accept her as a wife? A kid who was so dedicated towards her marriage since the beginning who suddenly got to know that her husband did it due to a tragedy? and now she is again being mislead by people like Kaka ?

My question is, if the psychological analysis you did for Anirudh can be called 'subtle' then why our frustration towards Anirudh for being insensitive towards Bon is being categorized as 'obvious feminism' ?

Feminism is a wrong word because it seems as if it makes us biased towards Bondita just because she is a girl, this is just humanity dear. No matter which gender, it is wrong to publicly humiliate a person. The way one can sympathize with Anirudh for being psychologically disturbed with his situation, same way one must sympathize with Bondita for having to face such humiliation in public by her so called 'sansaar' . It should not be termed as feminism.

Originally posted by: ..RiMi..

Thanks for the PM Sim 😳

First of all, this is absolutely true that there is no point reading between the lines or trying to analyze any character or any plot in an ITV show 😆

But given your interests, I can understand you cannot help but analyse 😳 It's a good thing and in fact very challenging to analyse and bring out such traits for a character when even the writer has no intentions to project it 🤣

"The principled ARC can never even think about falling for a kid."- Well, that simply means ARC has messed up the concept of love in his head 😆. Is it that we always fall in love with a person only? Don't we fall in love with a book? with a piece of writing ? with a song ? with an idea ? with a concept? Is it necessary that to be in love with someone/something you need to have romantic feelings ? Nope

My point is, he would not be afraid to fall in love with Bondita, but he might be afraid to get romantically attracted towards her, but given the situation that she is just a kid, I do not see that happening in the current situation. Then what is he afraid of? Maybe the fact that he might get attracted to the same kid in the near future? Yes, that is a possibility.

Again, the entire analogy about favorite food relates with Attraction not Love. Love is a very settled and patient feeling. It's just the perception. He does not know what love is, he is like most of us 😆 I don't blame him for that 😆

He cares for Bondita more than anything right ? Then how can he let his own emotions overpower his principles, his values and his care for Bondita? I understand we are humans and we make mistakes. But it is important to correct them as well. Today, the village women are taunting Bondita ONLY because of the way Anirudh behaved with her on their anniversary in public. That is why it is important to keep your temper under control.

I do not agree with your last bit on feminism and psychological aspect. First of all, the true essence of 'feminism' is that there should be no such word like 'feminism' at all 😆 It's just that women were treated as a lower gender for a long time, and all we want is equality. So I will not use that word here and I will not say that it is because of 'feminism' that we are angry at Anirudh for being insensitive towards her. Had it been the other way round, we would have felt equally agitated at the female lead as well 👍🏼 It is not about Bondita being a woman, it is about Bondita being a human being who has the same emotions which Anirudh has.

If one can sympathize with Anirudh for the immense psychological turmoil he is going through, why shouldn't we do the same with Bondita as well?

She is a already a 12 year old kid who is facing atrocities on a regular basis, a little girl who had no idea about periods and was mislead by sampoorna, a kid who has no idea what patni ka darja society is referring to and a kid who had no idea why her husband cannot accept her as a wife? A kid who was so dedicated towards her marriage since the beginning who suddenly got to know that her husband did it due to a tragedy? and now she is again being mislead by people like Kaka ?

My question is, if the psychological analysis you did for Anirudh can be called 'subtle' then why our frustration towards Anirudh for being insensitive towards Bon is being categorized as 'obvious feminism' ?

Feminism is a wrong word because it seems as if it makes us biased towards Bondita just because she is a girl, this is just humanity dear. No matter which gender, it is wrong to publicly humiliate a person. The way one can sympathize with Anirudh for being psychologically disturbed with his situation, same way one must sympathize with Bondita for having to face such humiliation in public by her so called 'sansaar' . It should not be termed as feminism.

I know feminisn is an umbrella term . We cannot give a single definition to it. It varies from person to person. Feminism is not about playing a particular role,it is about getting the freedom to choose which role one wants to play in life.

Those two perspectives are from the audience's side, not the makers. I don't have to say even a single word to gain support for Bon or to feel pity on her condition. Any human being, seeing the show will cry for her condition. It is that evident to ignore; that is why I called it 'obvious '. Everyone seeing the show, unless they take time and try to analyze the situation, will hate Ani and his behavior. The reasons behind his behavior is well hidden;unless you go to find it,you will not get it. That is why I called it 'subtle'

Then about the 'feminist'word, I think most of us doesn't like Bon's reaction. We were expecting her to choose her self respect and totally disappointed with her current behavior,the extra marrial affair and the polygamy hints given by the track. The feminist side of our minds which wants to see strong female characters cannot accept any of these things and doesn't allow us forgive Anirudh's actions. So I termed this audience perspective as 'obvious feminist perspective '

About 'psychological ',we all noticed Ani's contrary behavior . After the mentioning of SR he was like a totally different person. We all felt we are seeing a new Ani, not the old sweet one. On top of that confusing RTM 21 lyrics, which is supposed to be the internal monologue. So I was trying to understand these changes and trying to understand what made him to change so drastically and why is he behaving like this. I was trying to analyze the mental condition of the character which prompted him to behave in this way. So called it 'subtle psychological perspective '

I totally agree with you Ani doesn't know about the real meaning of love. He has just one definition regarding husband-wife relation, the text book romantic aspects. He never thinks about other aspects, may be because he never saw a real life husband-wife relationship from close proximity.

Why I didn't say anything about Bon...well this is a narration from the "villan's perspective " not the hero's 😉. (I don't have to say anything in her support. We all whole heartedly hate brainless nazukh kali 😆. You have seen my previous posts and know how furious I'm on makers for destroying our peace of mind )

Simmu🤗

Great analysis👏

I'm very impressed with your pov👍🏼👏

But still I'm angry with him I don't think his actions can be justifed and him marrying Ninja even for bon's sake will be lame excuse sorry i hope we don't get something like that😭

Originally posted by: listmist

Simmu🤗

Great analysis👏

I'm very impressed with your pov👍🏼👏

But still I'm angry with him I don't think his actions can be justifed and him marrying Ninja even for bon's sake will be lame excuse sorry i hope we don't get something like that😭

It will not be a greatness it will be lame excuses given he accepted to love her which we all know what kind of it is plus bon will be heart broken and we can’t justify in names of emotions when in that era child amrriagw were common and bon is though a kid yet did lot of selfless things and devotion towards them

Polygamy if broken by bon in future who is victim of child marriage , chooses her life partner will be progressive but ani marrying for mission or bon well being will humiliate bon in society then what will ani do be happy as society giving him clean chit that his little wife doing education did not give him happiness that is why he married a girl of his age plus he is vilayait babu and women education. Was considered sinful and girls were said to be characterless to study so ani all principles and his steps will make bon shallow despite of fact she went through all emotional pain of which she is unable to introspect because of her emotional immaturity and kaka and society is misleading her to work on ur relationship

Poor girls thinks she would lose her family

Originally posted by: listmist

Simmu🤗

Great analysis👏

I'm very impressed with your pov👍🏼👏

But still I'm angry with him I don't think his actions can be justifed and him marrying Ninja even for bon's sake will be lame excuse sorry i hope we don't get something like that😭

Thank you ❤️

Ash not just you,I'm also angry on him. All these are my shipper heart's desperate attempt to stop my ship from sinking 😆 .

I can understand why he will marry someone else doesn't mean I will accept it. I've clearly stated in the post itself I cannot tolerate him marrying anyone else, under whatever reasons(even if someone kidnaps Bon and threatens him to kill her unless he marries someone else)😡. If he marries anyone other than Bon, I'll stop watching BB. I will consider the first hug scene as the ending of BB. That was so so beautiful ❤️

Originally posted by: Katy4566

It will not be a greatness it will be lame excuses given he accepted to love her which we all know what kind of it is plus bon will be heart broken and we can’t justify in names of emotions when in that era child amrriagw were common and bon is though a kid yet did lot of selfless things and devotion towards them

Polygamy if broken by bon in future who is victim of child marriage , chooses her life partner will be progressive but ani marrying for mission or bon well being will humiliate bon in society then what will ani do be happy as society giving him clean chit that his little wife doing education did not give him happiness that is why he married a girl of his age plus he is vilayait babu and women education. Was considered sinful and girls were said to be characterless to study so ani all principles and his steps will make bon shallow despite of fact she went through all emotional pain of which she is unable to introspect because of her emotional immaturity and kaka and society is misleading her to work on ur relationship

Poor girls thinks she would lose her family

Katy Bon is a strong character. She never blindly follows anyone's advice, neither Kaka's nor Ani's. She takes her own decisions based on her personal experiences. Now she is behaving like this because from her experience child marriage is not wrong. She is a child bride and her life is happy and comfortable. Even though she met many child brides, no one told her the I'll effects of it so far. So she doesn't know about this negative side of child marriage. Naturally she is finding it difficult to understand Ani's point of view and why is it wrong.

She considers polygamy as wrong without anyone else's advice based on her personal observations. The whole BW and HM tracks happened because of her dislike towards polygamy. She was trying to save Sampoorna from being the victim of polygamy. If Ani marries someone else, she will not forgive him. She will leave him. She will prefer to leave her husband than sharing him.

P.S. My reply to Ashley_m 's thread about Bon and forgiveness is my take on Bon's character.

Okay, I understand the logical interpretation. I wish the PH thinks at least a percentage of the same

For me, I guess you are right on that track of him loving Bondita but cannot come to terms with the same due to the fact that she is young and there is a difference in age

With Manorama, he sees the same girl who he likes but this woman is grown up

Like looking at the adult Bondita but when she is still young and actually loving the idea of her being that way

But then I still think; maybe it the execution of the track; its not that deeply thought of... you know there is a certain difference between Manorama and Bondita

And if Anirudh acted according to that difference in a way where I understand its not his idealistic woman but his idealistic elder Bondita then I guess I would have been feeling better about the track

But I guess they didn't act upon that

And about marrying AE and then thinking Bondita will comeback no thats not how it will work because she wont think of being like Manorama to make him like him instead she will distance herself so that she isnt the thorn in their path

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Okay, I understand the logical interpretation. I wish the PH thinks at least a percentage of the same

For me, I guess you are right on that track of him loving Bondita but cannot come to terms with the same due to the fact that she is young and there is a difference in age

With Manorama, he sees the same girl who he likes but this woman is grown up

Like looking at the adult Bondita but when she is still young and actually loving the idea of her being that way

But then I still think; maybe it the execution of the track; its not that deeply thought of... you know there is a certain difference between Manorama and Bondita

And if Anirudh acted according to that difference in a way where I understand its not his idealistic woman but his idealistic elder Bondita then I guess I would have been feeling better about the track

But I guess they didn't act upon that

And about marrying AE and then thinking Bondita will comeback no thats not how it will work because she wont think of being like Manorama to make him like him instead she will distance herself so that she isnt the thorn in their path

Thank you ❤️

I'm sure PH didn't think about any of these. For them only trp matters 😆 that's why I've written it is more suitable for a character from a book than from an itv show.

Execution of the track is clearly a miss. Furious fans are a testimony of how badly it is executed. Unless you take time and try to find some logic behind ARC''s actions,you will not get it.

He is not in love with Manorama but with AE. His inner selves and he himself were referring to her as AE, not as Manorama even after knowing her real name.

He is thinking just about the short term goal of removing teenage crush from Bon's head and taking back her to studies. He is wrong in judging her reaction. He doesn't have to marry anyone, the mere yes to marriage or some how she knowing about his feelings for AE will be enough for her to distance herself from him. She will never disclose her feelings for him until he really convinces her she is his only love.

Simmu I am not able to PM you... You will need to empty your inbox...😊