~*~DOTW: What a joke??~*~

Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

Thank you very much for taking part in last weeks discussion of the week.

Finally our dream came true, SV consummated their marriage. Yess!! yayy!! lol😆

However the depressing part is that Sagar regrets the whole night.... Yes he does😕😭

Why is it that after a consummation night, the men turn around and regret whatever happened, not even once thinking what the woman will go through? Probably because either they think of the girl as a one timer - or there is always the antagonist of the show trying to brainwash the protagonist (male) that the girl is not made for him-or she is bad!

It happened in Kasamh Se as well, after Jai and Bani consummated Jai regretted it and Bani was heart broken... and its happened in many other shows too... Yes, unfortunately i am seeing BMTD slowly turning into another KS - which is extremely dissapointing because JB arent a couple anymore-and i dont want that for SV. Hopefully the writers will come into their senses and start turning the storyline into a unique one😳

Personally i think that its wrong for one to do that, if your not ready dont do it, why take such a step when your not ready to commit to the relationship forever..?? That's exactly what i think-but sometimes the male is drunk-or something like that...but in this case sagar was in his full senses...which means inside he couldnt control his emotions for vidya-which means he has some sort of emotion for her...wether its love-or something else

Sagar was not drunk, and neither was Vidya, so one can't say it all happened when they werent in their senses... both of them were pretty much there...This is what i liked-that the night was mutual-not a rape, not something the hubby/boyfriend did because he was drunk-or anything like that...Sagar wanted it-as much as vidya...infact he led her to the point letting her think he wanted it too-the next morning he woke up smiling...which means he was happy inside (in his heart) but when he started listening to his brain...things changed😕 so that means he does love vidya??? or what?

I dont lke Sagar anymore, he knew he didnt want to stay with Vidya then he has no right to take such a step...because once a woman commits herself to a man physically, its impossible for her to forget him... and so if Sagar really wanted to go from Vidya's life then he shouldnt have taken the step... I wouldn't say i don't like sagar...but i dont like the way he is behaving. But i do agree-thats true for almost every girl, Especially for a traditional one like Vidya-

Also many are saying Pregnancy is the only way out...but seriously is it really? i mean i dont think Vidya should fall pregnant, because then Sagar would accept her because of his kid, which is not the way i want Sagar to accept her...I DO NOT want Vidya to get pregnant-SV need more time alone as a couple (when they start realizing their love) and then maybe a child...but now its too early-Sagar calls that night a mistake...so he would call the child a mistake too-we dont want that for SV's first child...do we?😕

Personally i want Sagar to accept Vidya for who she is, not by feeling sorry for her, or for the family, or maybe for his kid, but for the person Vidya is... I agree-he is thinking about his family too much...he should listen to his heart-and im sure he will find love for her😳

Let's discuss whether the consummation night should have really happened or not? I dont think it should have happened if Sagar regrets it... because its not right on Vidya... It wasn't what i expected-i agree it was extremely adorable..but i wanted SV's first time to be when they truly loved eachother-not a regret from sagar's side-

I was very happy to hear about the consummation but got soo annoyed when Sagar regretted it... its sooo annoying when the men do that...its like you didnt regret whilst doing it did u? You should never regret something that once made you smile-sagar smiled that morning😉 so he definately wanted it to happen...then why the heck regret it???? if you didnt want it to happen..why did it happen sagar??

Please discuss and share your views...

Have fun and keep smiling!!!😃

Khushi, Ammu, Yuvika, Nabihah