Do you believe in Arranged Marriages?

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Debolina

@d_s_g_

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Posted: 19 years ago

#61

dont beeive in marriage and love.

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hazima ali

@evilhazima

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Posted: 19 years ago

#62

i fink luv marriges r better u understand each other vry well n arrange is 50 50 in luv u know da person likes dislikes etc. well i am goin 2 av a luv marrige😃 hopefully

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Eesha

@Isha_786

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Posted: 19 years ago

#63

i dnt believe in arranged marriages even tho my parents and everyone in my family hav had arranged weedings: my aunties n uncles n cousins etc. but me, my bro n sis believe in luv weddings coz we think we shud hav the right to choose our own life partner as long as they can understand us well and also compromise as ppl say. im 18 now.. but i start uni in oct 2007 n ill be 19 by then so i will start findin my own husband whoever i like..

anyway this was my opnion

thanx

eesha

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Farhana

@Farhanas

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Posted: 19 years ago

#64

Success of a marriage does not depend on if it is love marriage or arranged, it all depends upon both partners how they want to make it successful, sometimes one have to compromise sometimes the other, here in western countries they start dating & then start living with each other that we want to know each other more & better & then they got married but 50% of the marriages ends up in a divorce & then they start looking for other "SOULMATE". its totally depend upon each individual how they want to get along with his/her wife/husband, my marriage was an arranged marriage but its 21 years we are still happily married because we want to make our home not break it, we have 2 wonderful sons & I never regret a day that why I let my parents chose my husband for me & also I am sure if it was a love marriage it was successful too because I always want to make my marriage successful & live happily with my husband & children

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Mina

@Mina1005

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Posted: 19 years ago

#65

well, I'm not sure. This year, I went on vacation to my country, and there I met a really nice man, he was very sweet and every aspect of him was decent and I knew I had found the one. We had a plan on returning in three years and then we would get married. we were madly in love, but then after I had returned, my parents became aware of it and they told me that the guy wasn't the guy for me and that there are alot of things about him I don't know.( but the thing is, my parents don't know him as well as I do, so how can they say that) but anyways, they have told me to forget that man and that they will find a suitable person for me by arranged marriage, but what they don't understand is that love is PAINFUL. It is very hard to seperate from someone you are very close to. And as for arranged marriages, I don't have anything against them, I just am hurt by this seperation and I hope that I can get over my first love and that he will too forget me and marry the person that is truly for them, if he is truly the right person for me, God will pair us up together, and if not, then parents are there( yes sometimes parents can be so misunderstanding, they sometimes don't understand feelings of their children...) I have such a terrible life. 😕

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pinky

@angle86

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Posted: 19 years ago

#66

i don't belive in marrige i don't want to live my parents and my life with them its wast of time

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kajal

@kajal_aarav

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Posted: 19 years ago

#67

i do believe in arranged marriages however i don't want to have an arranged marriage i really pray to god i have a love marriage i really do. i don't have a bf and i never did i just started college and i hope i find my prince chariming like the fairy tales fast i really do and that is one of the things i pray to god for.

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Nuama

@**sexynunu**

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Posted: 19 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: sweet16_aragon
well....i think arrange marriages don't work offen....i mean if u r in love and ur parents also think that person is right for you then wats the prob? i don't beleive in arrange marriages!!cuz u don't know the person very well....if u parents agrre wid ya' then its great!!!but sometimes parents are ver unfair wid their children.....they emotional blackmail them...and THATS NOT FAIR!!

i agree wd u

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~Unforgettable~

@~Unforgettable~

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Posted: 19 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: **sexynunu**

i agree wd u

yeah, some parents do emotionally blackmail their children, but most of them don't. I mean, i want an arranged marriage b/c i know that i can trust my parents judgement more than mine cuz they know what's better for me

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Mina

@Mina1005

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Posted: 19 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: ~Unforgettable~

yeah, some parents do emotionally blackmail their children, but most of them don't. I mean, i want an arranged marriage b/c i know that i can trust my parents judgement more than mine cuz they know what's better for me

yeah, as in my case, I wonder if my parents are emotionally blackmailing me into making me believe that the guy I love isn't good by telling me lies...and they made me feel really guilty by telling me how I was wrong and that I ruined their trust, well parents should understand what I'm going through, Because I have to choose between the guy I love and my parents who have worked hard to bring me up...but yes its not fair when parents do that to you, but they could be right about things so I don't know what to believe in anymore...I just know that Love hurts when you don't get it, but hurts even more when you are made to feel guilty by your parents😕

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