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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rpmenon

I saw the part 4.He comes and looks at her softly,and he did see her eyes too.He saw how she was crying,and he made a hard face and just walked away.

I hated the iron lady in Santu,and this is her chance to understand what the other person feels when he/she thinks that the other one doesnt love them anymore.But,what he did is far more worse than what she did.Being suspected by ones spouse is the worst thing anyone can go through.

Dont know how to see a mid way in this crappy show anymore.



I was so hoping that DM will say something to Santu when he saw her sitting on the floor crying, but he hardened his heart and walked away Very disappointing !
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Posted: 15 years ago
well guyss.....bandini is bandini............DM must hv planted kaddu 4 tis plan.......so today in haldi infront of every1 he could prove her innocence...................d way he lukd at santu.............proved tat he trusts her..................it will be same as anamika trck................

although santu will nt forgive dem.........coz dere is a true fact tat whn relationships r bounded on d basis of proves.......dey lost dere essence..............santu will say......tat if rudra would nt hv confessed..........dan wt would hppn 2 her???????????in a way she will be completely right........

n dan DM would try 2 pacify his bandini...............
so we will hv sanraj......n sanraj....n sanraj...................be positve ppl.....chillaxxxx.......... 😉 😉 😉 negitivity......makes d story more interesting 2 watch......so we could see d positivity soon..... 😃 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rpmenon



Then they should have known why she was dumb struck.He should have given her more time,if needed,and THEN say the things he said.There was no need to say those stupid things right there and infront of Rudr.He again saw her crying in her room,then he could have gone to her and asked in private.He didnt do that either.

I cant see how can i justify him here,not today.

Hamda, do you think it is easy to chant in public "he tried to rape me"? Do you even realize the pain and shame these people go through?
Santu was frozen in disbelief and denial and no one in the sane world should have expected her to give this eloquent account of her "my experiences with near rape". It takes a lifetime to heal, talk and feel clean, i am told by victims and nearly victims of rape.
I wont ask anyone to put themselves in Santu's shoes but try it. The impact is horrendous and gut wrenching.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Santu's in a horrible shock right now, and if she is left alone it will mentally scar her worser than it already seems to have done.

Why should Santu wear white clothes? If DM can't respect her and can't honour her then its his loss..

Why should she lead a life in sorrow and pain for the sake of a egoistic man who can't see beyond his fake ego.

He thinks just cos he was hurt, he can hurt Santu.. well I hope Santu removes her mangalsutra and sends a divorce notice to DM..
She had the POA, if she wanted to she could have taken over the entire business and bring these GFN's on the road..

Santu has education now... I hope she packs her stuff and leaves and makes a new life with her strengths as the M-clan everyone included are not worth her

Santu always upheld DM's ego, name.. for what? So that he could tarnish his wife's image publicly.. Stupid man..!!


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Posted: 15 years ago
If they are to show DM has trust on her and all this was to prove Rudr wrong, then Baa should come forward and give a tight slap to DM and says she will not let her daughter in the house where there is no respect and no one to protect her dignity. I think we can see nanaji stepping in and he will take santu with him.But the reality is f anyone can come and do an AR on her in her own house right under her husband's nose where would she live peacefully.
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Posted: 15 years ago
You know Sanju what Santu should do?
Is she wearing white? That would indicate that she considers DM dead for her. 👍🏼. What use is he "alive" to Santu anyway!
Santu, no need to wear white. Glory in your youth and beauty. Send this vain and egoistic man out of your life. There are many paths open to you girl. Go out there and contribute your goodness, values and smartness to the world amongst people that value you.
Now for those who may wish to question me as to what i think DM should have done?
1. Firstly thrown Rudr out of the house because he is a stranger, not related to the family on either side and a trouble maker. Anyway Rudr has eloquently related his side of the "story" with lots of mirch-masala.
2. Tell the family to handle the wedding guests and Sarang's family.
3. Taken Santu and Baa into a secluded room, calmed Santu down and given her over to Baa's care while he took time to sort himself out and plan his next course of action. Granted he is enraged but he is stupid too.
Edited by chalia - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago

Dont know why RR keep saying wait and watch .. He has replied many posts with this two words.😕 Dos he think that his character DM can be redeemed, then its just 👎🏼

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Posted: 15 years ago
Maybe my Dallas theory will be proven right Uma..lol..

@Chalia: Exactly.. Santu should live her life.. isn't that what DM is doing? Today she did her last rituals'.. well i hope this means the death of the old oppressed Santu.. and the new birth of the Santu who lives for herself not others..!!

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: SanRajDeewani

Maybe my Dallas theory will be proven right Uma..lol..

@Chalia: Exactly.. Santu should live her life.. isn't that what DM is doing? Today she did her last rituals'.. well i hope this means the death of the old oppressed Santu.. and the new birth of the Santu who lives for herself not others..!!

yes she can, now that she told Rudr that she will give priority to her husband who now has abandoned her, she should now take vow that she will take care of them who needs HER. Thats her nanaji, Baa babuji not DM or his ungrateful kids. She can live happily with her OWN ones.
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Posted: 15 years ago
@ Arshi - Didn't Sarang say that Santu is not to attend the wedding and DM said she won't be so I would assume shes not permitted to attend the other functions prior to the marriage? She will just be locked up in her room like a ghost?

Oh I so wanted DM to be the man he always was, him being able to read and understand people, know what they are thinking, he cannot read people specially his wife, actually come to think of it he couldn't read his dead wife when she was alive, his sister, his children, his DIL, his SIL, his nephew, he cannot tell a stone from a diamond and clearly he cannot. He believed Rudr and not his wife? DM cannot read his wifes shocked, terrified eyes, shaking body? He did ask Santu whats happening but then because she didn't or couldn't find her voice and Rudr did he just took a strangers word over his wifes silence. She was talking to him with her eyes trusting him and he could not read nor understand her longing for him to back her up. What got to DM was Rudr's blaming DM for marrying Santu 18yrs girl, letting her go to prison, not saving her, not letting her go from his life for his needs and his children after that he didn't want to hear anything else. DM and his words today was very uncalled for, he was accusing, demeaning and belittling Santu, breaking her in front of everyone, his MIL, his children and the outside world, Santu could not stand properly let alone talk? Basically Santu's world has been shaken. How did DM not see Rudr covering Santu's mouth when he walked in at that point? When DM saw her sitting on the floor shattered and crying in a state he looked at her into her eyes sadly but then turned stoned faced and walked into his room. So heart wrenching for Santu, I know its also for DM but he is not doing anything about it he has accepted Santu is cheating on him. It they turn round and show DM was acting to find out and he does just like the Anamika track then its the worst thing he could have done to Santu, he should have spoken to her first in private and told her his planning. In all this time Santu could have just run for it and committed suicide


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