Santu's decision - Fair or unfair?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think it is only fair to get them divorced (though i have to admit that the wealthy clothes really suit khemi) because personally I was a big fan of the Hiten-Khemi realtionship but the only reason they got separated was due to the masi-bhanja relationship. If now she was allowed to stay with Arjan then her separation from Hiten a few months ago was for nothing, Plus, it disappointed all Khiten fans and therefore if they dont break the relationship now then it would be unfair towards Hitens broken relationship with Khemi... (Though I do believe that Toral is a way better match for him 😆)

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Posted: 15 years ago
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why does santu always think in favor of her sassuraal? i watched bandini because of khemi and hiten so i dont really care if again a relationship is broken up by the others lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol true... Santu is always taking decisions on behalf of others... and I mean it wasnt actually khemis fault that she married dms son, coz previously she actually sacrificed her love for samaj and married arjan just so that she can save santus marriage and all that, and now she has to get divorced (becuase of santu!), I feel quite sorry for her, but if somehow they are allowed to keep that banja-masi rishta then she should definitely divorce arjan and marry hiten coz they make a better couple...😆
lol btw im german as wel 😉


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok I understand you guys feel that Khemi sacrificed her love for her sister but Santu also sacrificed for khemi when it came right down to it both girls think of others. This looked like the hardest decision for her to make and now the back lash will happen because of it. I wonder if Khemi expected her to say since you married Arjan I will divorce my husband so that you and yours can stay together like she did the last time but this time there is more to it than there was before, Santu and DM are closer and she is in love with him and I think that he loves her too so that sacrifice is not in the cards this time. I hope the promo where khemi is saying she will never forgive Santu is just her hurt talking and nothing major happens to the sisters relationship but who knows what the cv's have instore for us.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I can't wait for DM to find out the idiot Maulik was behind this mess and kick his sorry a-- from DM house along with moti too ...
Both sisters have sacrifice their share of happiness for each other...
At this time, Khemi can not expect santo to leave DM just for her sake. Santo is now mother, bahu and wife if santu leaves for Khemi sake...Khemi cannot take santu's place in DM household as everyone is very attach to santu and their life will be incomplete without her.
I blame CV and Ekta for being unfair to both sisters...
Edited by anna44 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The predicament Khemi is in now is all because of her own self and no one else, she herself is solely to blame. If she had used her brains before taking any of the actions that she did, she wouldn't be in this situation now. But like I have always maintained, Khemi is an airhead and I really don't feel any sympathy for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The decision that Santu made was right ONLY because of what happened previously HOWEVER she should of spoken to Khemi before hand and told her AND should of said DM and I will look for a new husband for you.

Santu ALWAYS puts her suseral first and has little compassion for her OLDER sister and expects her to understand that because SANTU is married to DM how it effects Khemi life too without explaining it to her or saying I know this will hurt you etc etc.

Khemi understands this but she has every right to expect something from Santu her LITTLE sister too after all she did scarifice Hiten for Santu marriage.

How awful to have such a major decision made about your life without anyone there to support you not even your own family. Khemi has every right to be bitter for she married Arjun so that Santu marriage would be saved and Hiten could move on in his life. It is not her fault that Arjun turned out to be DM lost son.

I would like to see Khemi at odds with the Family as they are all to blame especially Taro and DM who should of known that this was to be a difficult decision for Santu and as her husband and protector should of made it himself.

In saving his family he has put 2 sisters at war!

I'm tired of Santu always being right and upholding the 'law'; what is right and wrong is seen in the eyes of the beholder- I'd like to see another strong female character taking on Santu and showing that there are 2 sides to everything and I think Khemi would be perfect for it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Khemi decided to sacrifice herself for Santu only AFTER she learnt how Santu was sacrificing her marriage for Khemi. She gave no thought to how her actions (affair, elopement) were going to affect Santu before she learnt of how Santu was sacrificing herself. If she had give a single thought to how her actions were going to affect herself and her near and dear ones, she would not have been put in a situation where she had to marry Arjan to save her sister's marriage. That is why Khemi has proved herself to be an airhead and has only herself to blame for the situation she is in. As for her divorce, she should be thankful to Santu that she will finally be free of an abusive husband who we all know she has no feelings for.....but given her reactions in the promo, looks like she'd rather be the rich Mahiyavanshi bahu with an abusive husband than have a happy life on her own or with someone better who might not be as rich.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Santu made the right decision. I didn't expect anything less from her. Khemi will be ticked off, because now she won't be Mahiyavanshi bahu. She will be jealous of Santu and might even do things against her. She is not kind-hearted like Santu.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Santu was right according the rules of the society.. she had no other option..
Khemi is a stupid... it should have been HER decision to step out of her marriage for the sake of Santu

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