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Originally posted by: rpmenon

Mallika,Winning her husband's heart pledging her self esteem wouldnt be acceptable,right? '

I still feel that she should leave,as i mentioned somewhere in reply to Madhu's post..

I know you may not like the way i think..but somehow,all the previous insults are still there unanswered,left in the air.Seems like even Santu doesnt mind.

All the insults are still there but there wont be much mre in the future as SAntu has begun partnership with moti in keeping her secrets moti is less likely to insult Santu..... 😆

Originally posted by: Mallika113

Sorry Dips, I think that Manel maybe right about the creatives trying to make Santu hold on to her MS by winning DM's heart. I know you don' t agree, Dips, but I guess that I am such a sucker for romance, I am willing to accept even this. A woman fighting for her man these days is a good thing. When DM is so slow to act, I def encourage Santu to take action. Let's see what happens. Anything is better than no action at all

I understand your points and where you're coming from and i agree, a woman fighting for her man is no bad thing, however, a key point here is that, again and again, women have to lose all their self respect, honour and dignity as humans - think of the torments that santu has suffered at the hands of dharamraj and the appaling things he has said - to stay with their husbands, to fight for him would finally rid her character of any backbone, independence and spirit she has left.
she would put up with any amount of crap from him, expect nothing - not even remorse - in return and still be with him? i'm sorry for my strong opinions but i see this, for real, in everyday life and hear many stories and for that kind of message to be sent out via this programme would be utterly disgusting. DM can smile, shake his head and stare all he wants - until he apologises, makes amends and loves her for her, he can take a flying trip to wherever and shove all his dhagini, kapre, kamra where the sun doesn't shine.

@ Dips: Santu can win her hubby without losing her self esteem. she can take care of everyone and handle all house holds etc.. but she should keep herself away from DM, stop visiting him for thr nth time everyday, stop making tea for him, stop lighting st subhi's etc..

Originally posted by: ammoos

@ Dips: Santu can win her hubby without losing her self esteem. she can take care of everyone and handle all house holds etc.. but she should keep herself away from DM, stop visiting him for thr nth time everyday, stop making tea for him, stop lighting st subhi's etc..

In short she shouls avoid DM, only then he will think of her... and i would say she should return the mangalsutra and let him put it on her himself... that would a decent way...

why should she even do any of this? is she his maid servant? she should have the self esteem to recognise that he has broken this relationship, and as such, he should be the one to mend it. she needs to leave and find some peace with her nanaji and a family that truly love her, not for any sacrifices she's done, or heroic acts of love but because she is a decent person that deserves it.

why would she do that Uma? Her sole reason for being there would be DM,right? If she is going to avoid him,and still be there,in fact running hid entire household,whats the point in avoiding him.It would seem childish.The only way is to be out of his sight.

When she goes,she can return the MS too.I cringed seeing the way she held on to it,and then gave him a coy smile..

It's time DM went after Santu.
He should ask her to stay not for his family's sake but because he needs her.
And it shouldn't be because she is like subhi but because she is a kind considerate person. OMG when will that ever happen?

I don't want anyone ever mentioning Subhi again. Didn' t like it when Megs mentioned Subhi's name in the kitchen when Santu was cooking. No more comparisons or memories with Subhi😡

Originally posted by: Mallika113

I don't want anyone ever mentioning Subhi again. Didn' t like it when Megs mentioned Subhi's name in the kitchen when Santu was cooking. No more comparisons or memories with Subhi😡

I completely agree with you. Bechari Santu is killing herself doing all the work and keeping things running smoothly and what a downer it must be for her to be compared to Subhi all the time.😡

I hope DM accepts her as Santu and not because he sees Subhi's parchaayi in her. That will be such a dampner for me. All but one of Subhi's portraits should also go from the house. No more conversations with the ghost-portrait. I never knew I could be so upset at a portrait for being the third wheel.😆

Originally posted by: soap-critic

I never knew I could be so upset at a portrait for being the third wheel.😆

i think Toral mush have witnessed something tragic maybe she saw pacey dying, which is why she had that look on her face.
I think our Santu will start playing cupid getting HiRal together
what do u guys think?