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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1121

Originally posted by: sg08
Santu made a lot of mistakes but her intentions were always good, she did what she thought was best for her daughter and she had seen how DM did not spare even his kids when it came to justice.....but I just can't understand how DM could let Santu remain in jail for 10 years when he knew her to be innocent. He did nothing to get her out, absolutely nothing. We are talking 10 years in prison here, 10 years, not a picnic.....prison life is supposed to be horrible, she was such a sweet, innocent girl, didn't he wonder how someone like her would survive amongst hardened criminals. I cannot understand his behaviour, his indifference to her plight, never have, never will....

Yes, will never understand this, really is heart breaking, he said to her that she didn't even check to see if he was alive or dead (which she did) what upsets me is that he never once in the 10yrs check to see if his wife was alive or dead? this is very difficult for me to digest 😭

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Samanta

@iSakshi

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#1122

Originally posted by: Shahara3

Yes, will never understand this, really is heart breaking, he said to her that she didn't even check to see if he was alive or dead (which she did) what upsets me is that he never once in the 10yrs check to see if his wife was alive or dead? this is very difficult for me to digest 😭

yes shahara

and when santu came baq and got trown out of the house...even then he didnt care how she was and where she was

for christ sake she was in another village getting kidnapped by her step son... and SIL.... Still he didnt care... when she asked him for NYay

and now that maundeep has been exposed has he ever thank her for whatever she did?? saving hiral's baby, maundeep track, removing LOC (baa told him it was santu's intention) and all other good deeds,, never once did he thank her,, all he knows is to give her dhand and punishment.. and thinking she's a gold digger

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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#1123

Well may be Santu will express these feelings to DM when they finally have their face off and I want to know DM's reasons and I want to know how much he actually does love her, I know he does but how much? He needs to clarify to her what she actually means to him, she deserves to be loved by him and his heart 100% as she loves him. Truth honesty and forgiveness! He says stuff about marriage how can 2 people leave eachother, yes santu went to prison and but then he also left her in prison. I'm gonna go now, just upsetting to think too much about it just going round in circles, remind self only a fictional serial with loopy loo writing the scenes and dialogues, see ya friends xxx

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sg08

@sg08

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#1124

Yes, I too want Santu to question him.....I am sure DM will ask her why she lied to him and not trust him and yada, yada, yada........but I want her to question him that why didn't he once check up on her in 10 years, how could he beleive that she was a gold-digger and killed his son and if he didn't then how could he let her rot in jail for 10 years without once checking up on her.....I want to know DM's reasoning.....and just saying that he had promised the baby-killer and that she pushed him to darkness just does not suffice.

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fuzzyface

@fuzzyface

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#1125

Originally posted by: sg08
Yes, I too want Santu to question him.....I am sure DM will ask her why she lied to him and not trust him and yada, yada, yada........but I want her to question him that why didn't he once check up on her in 10 years, how could he beleive that she was a gold-digger and killed his son and if he didn't then how could he let her rot in jail for 10 years without once checking up on her.....I want to know DM's reasoning.....and just saying that he had promised the baby-killer and that she pushed him to darkness just does not suffice.

yes shalu ur absolutely right
the many times he had pushed her away and said so many mean things but she kept coming back because she knows in her heart that he is just a hot head but his heart is always in the right place.
The fact is DM didn't believer her word but left jail a broken hearted man which was santu fault. It was also santu's fault to hide birwa's crime but tell me how many mothers out there wouldn't have done the same. Mothers are known to protect their children from any harm n will take that fatal bullet.
But what did DM do ....Nothing for her or avenge his son's death!
He was so angry when he tght his son was dead and blamed moti n santu for it.
What kind of father wouldn't want to know the real killer of his long lost son who he got back after 20 odd years and the son he never knew?
What kind of husband let his innocent wife just rot away in prison, a fragile teenager who doesn't know any world beyond her husband?
The answer is a terrible man like DM.
DM said santu was his reason that he went into the darkness but DM chose the path coz he wanted to opt out of the equation much like when he didn't want to do the nyayas for his children n let santu be the bad guy.
He went there out of his own free will just like how santu took the blame no one forced him or her.
Chemical vachan was a trap and he knew it! Santu intentions were noble DM's intentions were just selfish.
He has always been a selfish man, he was selfish when he married and continued on to be a bigger one.
When Baa told him to forgive her n she understood the girl has gone through enough but he didn't budge coz santu is and will always be nothing much to him just his doll.
It's always will be subhi, moti, his children, parents, business, villagers and somewhere santu is there. So u ppl keep saying he loves her but I don't think he ever did nor ever will.
And DM doesn't deserve santu or her love. Santu shld ultimately leave him n his no good family for good!

Edited by fuzzyface - 15 years ago

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xXS.ArtzXx

@xXS.ArtzXx

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#1126

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

yes shalu ur absolutely right
the many times he had pushed her away and said so many mean things but she kept coming back because she knows in her heart that he is just a hot head but his heart is always in the right place.
The fact is DM didn't believer her word but left jail a broken hearted man which was santu fault. It was also santu's fault to hide birwa's crime but tell me how many mothers out there wouldn't have done the same. Mothers are known to protect their children from any harm n will take that fatal bullet.
But what did DM do ....Nothing for her or avenge his son's death!
He was so angry when he tght his son was dead and blamed moti n santu for it.
What kind of father wouldn't want to know the real killer of his long lost son who he got back after 20 odd years and the son he never knew?
What kind of husband let his innocent wife just rot away in prison, a fragile teenager who doesn't know any world beyond her husband?
The answer is a terrible man like DM.
DM said santu was his reason that he went into the darkness but DM chose the path coz he wanted to opt out of the equation much like when he didn't want to do the nyayas for his children n let santu be the bad guy.
He went there out of his own free will just like how santu took the blame no one forced him or her.
Chemical vachan was a trap and he knew it! Santu intentions were noble DM's intentions were just selfish.
He has always been a selfish man, he was selfish when he married and continued on to be a bigger one.
When Baa told him to forgive her n she understood the girl has gone through enough but he didn't budge coz santu is and will always be nothing much to him just his doll.
It's always will be subhi, moti, his children, parents, business, villagers and somewhere santu is there. So u ppl keep saying he loves her but I don't think he ever did nor ever will.
And DM doesn't deserve santu or her love. Santu shld ultimately leave him n his no good family for good!

No fuzz,he luvs her a lottt....The reason for his angry is that she hides the truth from him....He lived alone not becoz of chemical vachan.....Its becoz of his trust,luv 2wards his bandini...Till nw he believes that she didnt murder his so called son....His 10 year life wa becz of frustration......somewhere .......santu is there ...... Everywhere in his heart....

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#1127

Birwa....I m not liking....no for lack of a better word....simply detesting her😡

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#1128

Santu is deeply in love with Hades and will never leave the mansion because of his attachment to the mansion and its inhabitants.

She does not see beyond Hades Fuzz.

I dont like Birwa.

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sg08

@sg08

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#1129

Yeah fuzzy, even I am not sure how much DM loves Santu.....sometimes I think he does but then his actions belies this......the way he behaved in the whole Arjan-murder-Santu-going-to-jail fiasco, I don't think he would have behaved like that if he truly loved her....I don't think anyone can just let the person they love rot away in jail for 10 years for a crime they did not commit and do absolutely nothing to help them.....and then when she came back he left her to her own devices knowing how much his family hated her and would definitely throw her out, didn't he wonder where she would go, how she would live.......so I am not convinced of his "love" for her........not the way I know without a doubt that Santu loves DM with all her heart and would do anything for him despite what she says and how she taunts him......she would lay down her life for him in a second, I am not sure if DM would do the same for her.

But I am still a SanRaj fan and can't bear to have them separated😭......I would rather DM proves his love for Santu and just saying it will not suffice, his actions need to prove it so there is no doubt whatsoever.

Edited by sg08 - 15 years ago

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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#1130

Originally posted by: sg08
Yeah fuzzy, even I am not sure how much DM loves Santu.....sometimes I think he does but then his actions belies this......the way he behaved in the whole Arjan-murder-Santu-going-to-jail fiasco, I don't think he would have behaved like that if he truly loved her....I don't think anyone can just let the person they love rot away in jail for 10 years for a crime they did not commit and do absolutely nothing to help them.....and then when she came back he left her to her own devices knowing how much his family hated her and would definitely throw her out, didn't he wonder where she would go, how she would live.......so I am not convinced of his "love" for her........not the way I know without a doubt that Santu loves DM with all her heart and would do anything for him despite what she says and how she taunts him......she would lay down her life for him in a second, I am not sure if DM would do the same for her.

But I am still a SanRaj fan and can't bear to have them separated😭......I would rather DM proves his love for Santu and just saying it will not suffice, his actions need to prove it so there is no doubt whatsoever.

Shalu I completely agree with you, after their second marriage it did seem that he loved her as he listened and was making her happy doing his husbandly duties and he did defend her when Moti, Bacteria and Khemi all were ganging up against her and making her life hell, Cvs have made DM character so confusing, he loves her I am sure but somewhere along the way he probably just didn't realise how much and then he felt she betrayed him (she did keep this secret) but if he loved her unconditionally then he would never of let her rot in prison for 10 years with or without that stupid promise to chemical as he knew she was innocent and he left her there she could be of been dead , hospitalized and was he not bothered? he let her walk the streets and fend for herself and in the end she was kidnapped, nearly sold, murdered?

I want DM to prove how much he loves Santu because we all know how much she loves him theres no question what she would say and do for him, DM needs to show us what his wifes existence is to him in his life where she should be at no,1 not somewhere after his family, she should come first jointly along with his children, not just a trophy wife and to shift his problems of his kids on to her when he can't punish them, they need to jointly decide if he cannot alone decide but he needs to show he accepts her equally emotionally and physically. I think once DM confesses his deep and inner feelings for Santu, she will realise what she means to him and then realise no secrets should be kept from the person who is going to be with you until the end of your days.

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