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Bkaur287

@Bkaur287

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

#21

How can I look at whats going good in the show when so much is going so bad so fast. Its like when you dont have a career instead of trying to make it better and improve things.. you think to yourself "well I do have money to have food once a day" so I guess its all good..NO its not good!! No we will not be happy with this...until things become if not the best atleast much much better...

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Opti

@Opti

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

#22

Well, what DM did yesterday with Birwa was right. In all likelihood he has taken a T.C. to put her in another school so that she does not get distracted. Yes, people should be punished for the mistakes but I am yet to see him getting punished for anything he has done so far. He did not let Hiten explain himself in the cow slaughter case and was willing to hear him only after accusing him first. By then Hiten was in no mood to explain. Result he very nearly hanged his own son. Did we see him getting punished for taking a hasty decision? No.

He had treated Santu abominably after their marriage. He used the harshest of words when he thought that Santu was responsible for Kaddu's elopement. He later realised his mistake. Did he willing apologise to her even once so far, let alone accept a punishment? No.

What really gets me is that here is a man who married a woman who is younger than three of his own kids for his own selfish reasons and not once did they show him even feeling the least bit guilty for virtually robbing her of her life.

And I did not like the fact that he asked Santu to come to his room to hear her side of the story regarding Birwa. He should have shut that big mouth sister of his and asked Santu to come out with the truth in front of everyone. That way every member of the family (including the bossy Taru and Maulik would have known the true story). Right now only he knows. The matter is pretty serious and involves every member of the family. It is definitely not something which has to be only between a husband and wife.

So far we have seen DM treating his own family (including Taru) differently from Santu. He surely does not deserve a sweet girl like Santu. I hope they show his grovel and make up for all his shortcomings, sincerely seeking Santu's forgiveness at some point in the show. Otherwise this show is like any other crap that they show on TV where the women are eternally sacrificial lambs and the men are world's first rate MCPs.

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Gaurishah

@Gaurishah

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Mallika113
I totally understand all of you guys, because I feel the same way. DM needs to really think and act properly. I did appreciate the fact that he listened to Santu. The writers are really slacking off, I don't know what's wrong with them. 😕 This story can go so beautifully with SanRaj, but they are ruining it with a bunch of nonsense😡

Totally agree with you Mallika I guess all the viewers are waiting to see some SanRaj scenes but I don't think thats going to happen seeing all the present mess and the way DM is behaving with Santu he pretended that she was a peice of furniture when he came in the hall and greeted everyone he didn't even ask her how she was. It was Santu who asked him how he was doing. Atleast, I was grateful when he heard her out on the Birwa story. Lets all just hope that the creatives are reading our posts and do include some SanRaj scenes, it will be really refreshing turn in this boring Birwa track.

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sg08

@sg08

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Opti
I hope they show his grovel and make up for all his shortcomings, sincerely seeking Santu's forgiveness at some point in the show.

I hope so too...am not too sure about whether he will grovel but at some point of time he should apologize to Santo and the proud man that he is, that will be a very big step in itself for him, he should especially apologize for the treatment his family meted out to Santo and spend the rest of his life making it up to Santo...and am sure if this happens, Santo will wholeheartedly forgive him. Even more than that I hope he acknowledges Santo as his wife in front of everybody and makes it clear to his entire family, especially his sister and older kids, that he will not tolerate anybody abusing her whatsoever.

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sg08

@sg08

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Gaurishah
Totally agree with you Mallika I guess all the viewers are waiting to see some SanRaj scenes but I don't think thats going to happen seeing all the present mess and the way DM is behaving with Santu he pretended that she was a peice of furniture when he came in the hall and greeted everyone he didn't even ask her how she was. It was Santu who asked him how he was doing. Atleast, I was grateful when he heard her out on the Birwa story. Lets all just hope that the creatives are reading our posts and do include some SanRaj scenes, it will be really refreshing turn in this boring Birwa track.

I think DM is ignoring Santo because he is trying to distance himself from her because of the whole divorce issue...but in the last few episodes that DM was in, it is clear that he doesn't like the whole divorce thing one bit. Yep, I too am hoping for a lot of SanRaj scenes...it will be a very welcome change. Hope the creatives will pay heed to our hopes.

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macjack7

@macjack7

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

#26

what i dont understand, is why does Santu tolerate soo many insults.

I personally feel, she should tell everyone, how Taru and Kanji have a child called Maulik.

This would shut Taru up and bring DM back down to earth with a BANG!!!

how many other women, would tolerate such behaviour, not many.

Santu has always put Dm's family before her own desires and wishes.

Its time she takes action, its obv she cant win their respect with Love.

DM believes in justice, but shouldnt he be punished for his poor treatment, towards Santu, or is he beyond his rules???

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Angela

@Bidaaifan09

Navigator

Posted: 16 years ago

#27

Hey I sat back and read the most recently added post and while agree with some of what was said we are all thinking about this a little to hard. I am not sure about rural India but I know where I am from in Korea girls are taught to be subservient to their families and then to their husbands. We are all thinking with our modern brains and failing to think outside of the box. I am right their with you every time a slap or insult happens and its Santu at the receiving end and we get upset and wonder why she keeps putting up with it but failing to realize the values she was raised with my not permit her from staging a full fledged rebellion like we want to see. I do think the writers need to offer her more of a backbone without losing the qualites that makes her such an endearing character.

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Mallika113

@Mallika113

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#28

DM was dashing today, he even gave Santu a gift. Wow, he was matching his kurta color with his Chokri's sari😃 So hold on everyone, SanRaj moments will be coming soon! So no need to fear, DM is very near😆