What I feel is .. too much of anything is bad ..
And we really dont know how Subhi treated her kids.. maybe all this is just a by-product of giving excessive love (read : blind love) and just overlooking their mistakes because they are kids!
@ Mru :
Hmm you are right .. the age thingy has been happening in all time-frames.. so nothing SO bad about it .. but yes why is Hiten NOT using his brains?!