Daily soap discussion - Page 103

That is not exactly how I would think of it, Sanam ..

please dont think I am defending DM .. infact I announce that his behaviour was really not justified this time around .. it's just that it was the entire village's expectation matching up to his sense and 'standards' of meting out justice .. he just tried too hard .. and ending up failing miserably on his personal front!

Originally posted by: ronitfan

Mru,

I know you wont agree - but Hiten just wanted this situation to go all wrong .. the moment he sensed that the person standing in front of him does not have a strand of what his father is supposed to be, he LET the situation get out of hand ..

He did not bother to clarify or even defend himself .. it was more like his way of letting DM know that he always messes up things when DM the father is concerned .. my 2 cents ..

Yes ..

Never am I going to say that there was no fault of DM's .. he was as much at fault as Hiten was ..

As they say,

When an unstoppable force meets an unmovable object, both come to an end ..

Originally posted by: ronitfan

Mru,

I agree whole heartedly with you - while I did not exactly HATE DM for what he did tonight, my feelings for him came very close .. He was too righteous for his own good .. and for his own Son's too .. he just forgot to draw the line .. the line between being a malik to the village and a Dad to his son ... the line was already blurred.. and today was just the last straw .. DM got entirely carried away and something tells me that he is going to regret this decision a LOT .. well some of the fault lies with Hiten as well ..

This was a situation where Hiten should have taken his ego out of the equation and protested against the decision or even better, tell the panchayat the truth that when he left the cow, it was still alive! There was no proof to show that Hiten killed the cow .. and Hiten could have stressed on that .. but alas- DM and Hiten are too much like one another !

Originally posted by: ronitfan

That is not exactly how I would think of it, Sanam ..

please dont think I am defending DM .. infact I announce that his behaviour was really not justified this time around .. it's just that it was the entire village's expectation matching up to his sense and 'standards' of meting out justice .. he just tried too hard .. and ending up failing miserably on his personal front!

The smirk on Hiten's face just said it all .. and the tears that DM was hiding just broke my heart .. if only Hiten could bore into his father's eyes and really try to understand why his father always behaves the way he does .. if he could just try to understand the immense loneliness that his father is engulfed in .. if he could ever listen to any conversation that DM has with his late mother .. he'd change..

Originally posted by: sns23

I do agree sukhi.. he let the situation get out of hand.. His defiance and his arrogance led him to this.. But DM was also not completely without fault.. He let his son down and he's paying the price for it..

Its just when two people with so much of pride arrogance between them collide, heads will roll.. unfortunately the first one itself was Hiten..

At the end of the day, u cant blame either of them...They reacted without thinking properly and reacted based on emotional judgements... DM was too righteous and Hiten too proud...

Yes Sanam,

As usual Hiten , ironically , even this time has ended up with an upper hand in this clash between father and son because eventually it will be found out that Hiten was not at fault and at that time, DM will be the most shattered man on the face of this planet ..

Basically,

DM has too many standards that e's constantly trying to match up to - evident from his reactions as he wlaked towards the chair of the Panch .. the standards set by his parents, the villagers, his reputation , his kids and mst importantly - the standards he has for himself .. sadly the threshold is too high this time!

Sanam, I've never been a big fan of monghi and today just decreases whatever little soft corner i'd had for her.. she's a little girl alright.. But her behavior hardly qualifies her as one.. I get the feeling nanaji and monghi are not yet done creating problems in santu's life..

Originally posted by: ronitfan

The smirk on Hiten's face just said it all .. and the tears that DM was hiding just broke my heart .. if only Hiten could bore into his father's eyes and really try to understand why his father always behaves the way he does .. if he could just try to understand the immense loneliness that his father is engulfed in .. if he could ever listen to any conversation that DM has with his late mother .. he'd change..