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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Because Gauri is an important person who changed Anandi's life. If Anandi did not die, one day those things would have come out in the open.

Actually I am thinking of so many persons who were part of Anandi's life in some way disappeared and the kids were not aware of her entire journey. It is not necessary to know but I think there is no harm in knowing.

Kids don't need to know about Anandis entire journey No one knows entire journey of their parents and grand parents How many people came into their lives, what is linked with them they know about them If Gauri would have come into Anandis life again then they have to know about her but when she is not a part of their lives so i don't think they needed to know about her
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehek134

Kids don't need to know about Anandis entire journey No one knows entire journey of their parents and grand parents How many people came into their lives, what is linked with them they know about them If Gauri would have come into Anandis life again then then they have to know about her but when she is not a part of their lives so i don't think they needed to know about her



You are right in a way. Suppose anandi maintained a diary, wrote about her experiences and incidents and it could have fallen into the hands of her kids. I myself maintain a diary where I recounted each and every incident and I may pass it on to my child one day.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They should know only about shiv. Every child deserves to know about his/her father.
What they would do with information about all cartoons? Is there any plan to make Wikipedia or encyclopaedia?

Why they should know who is real and who is step son of jagya? Why it's important to know about ex husband of their mom and ex wife of ex husband? That's too much.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

They should know only about shiv. Every child deserve to know about his/her father.

What they would do with information about all cartoons? Is there any plan to make Wikipedia or encyclopaedia?

Why they should know who is real and who is step son of jagya? Why it's important to know about ex husband of their mom and ex wife of ex husband? That's too much.



I recounted all of those people as a matter of fact and there is no need for them to know these things.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sometimes children come to know about these things by accident. Example Mannu. Mannu came to know about anandi and his past quite accidentally.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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There are a lot of things the kids needed to know but most likely will never know.
The things they know
Shivam and Nandini know about their father. Shivam got to know about his father and his family because his mother used to tell him about them. He knows how Daddu got those chains with lockets made for him and his twin.We don't know whether he ever met Khazan Singh and Shekhars but knows about them.Shivam worships his father and he is his Hero that means he obviously knows what kind of a man Shiv had been.
Nandini knows that her mother loved their father very much and she didn't want to give that place to anyone else.

Anandi was telling Nandini about her life before she became Balika Vadhu.Nandini knows that her mother had been a Balika Vadhu and that marriage failed. Probably Shivam also knows about it.


What they don't know is their Kakusa was the man she was married to when she was a child.How that marriage broke and how her mother gathered herself after that marriage broke.These are the important things which they don't know.Knowing these things would make them love their mother and would have made them proud of their mother.

Rest of the things they don't need to know.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anandi and Shiv in post marriage phase were wasted in stupid family drama.
That Udaipur cast could not connect with viewers on their own merit and they needed Anandi Shiv's presence in the story to make their characters and stories relevant.
In all this Bhaili got a raw deal.But what ever little that has been shown was good.
There were some good stories like Chanda who inspired Anandi to open Bhail then there was Subhasini's story which were really good.

Much of Shekhar drama was useless.First 6 months of Anandi Shiv's married life was dedicated to Sanchi Jagya Ganga triangle.That probably was done to keep Udaipur Jaitser tracks to keep connected and make viewers accept Ganga despite Gauri Jagya track not getting a proper closure.
Nobody wanted Jagya to end up with someone like Sanchi.
After that Sanchi's story post court case and fake suicide drama even though it was irritating there was good social message as to how Sanchi in her foolshness ended up in bad company which ended up doing a great harm to her. Post rape till Sanchi's marriage was a good story too.Because it showed the story of a rape victim gathering courage to fight for justice and then moving on in life. Sanchi doing that with the support of Anandi. The role Anandi played in Sanchi in that phase brought out the best of Anandi.
But getting Sanchi married to her rapist's brother was just too much to bear.Return of Saurabh and him harrassing Sanchi etc were totally unnecessary.🤢🥱

Shekhar family issues were small but they made Anandi Shiv bond grow stronger with each passing day.They bonded over solving family problems.

Amol Anandi Shiv story was nice too.

All thanks to large family we missed out on the stories which could have been told through their professional lives or the challenges they faced in their professional lives.
We got a few tracks of Shiv's professional life.
But the challenges Anandi's Bhaili faced is something we wanted to see but we got to see that only towards the end of Udaipur chapter.
Rasika's track I think they wanted to show how some women are misusing the laws that were made to protect women. Sanchi used the laws to protect women in the right way while Rasika used them in the wrong way.It is just that Rasika's track was not executed well even though it ended well.
But we got to see how strong Anandi Shiv bond and the level their trust and interdependence.

Over all the only disappointment from Udaipur track was not being shown the husband and wife bonding over the challenges they faced in professional lives/careers.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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My reasons

Why twins should know about mannu? Because it will show them that their kakusa can give love and affection whether he is his own son or not. And they will know that their kakisa also is a victim of balvivah.

Knowing about Gauri will make them think why balvivah was held responsible for that phase in some way.

About their grandfather going to jail. It is very difficult because both sets of grandfathers went to jail.

And as the twins are living amidst people with lots of interactions, all these things will come to the fore one day or the other.

The kids will realise making mistakes and realising the mistakes and becoming good human beings are all part of life. Thus they can forgive Harki one day. One need not tell all these things straightaway. It can be told leisurely when the kids become mature enough to digest all this information.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They already love their Kakusa. Shivam has seen it and Nandini too. So they don't need to know about Mannu and his biological father etc nor do they need to know about Ganga's first marriage. Abhi needs to know all that and about Gauri too Jagya's kids need to know not Anandi's kids.
Yes they need to know that one of their grand father was an honest humble farmer and the other was a soldier who lost everything in life while both led very honorable lives till they felt slighted by more prosperous relatives of theirs ended up taking wrong path got punished by law. Both Anandi and Shiv's fathers were examples of how even men of honour in their weak moments can become devil's workshops.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Its like the BalikaVadhu that I have been watching from 8 years is ending and a whole new show is starting.

Its not necessary that the kids know each and every thing in the past but there is no harm as well if they know it. What they really need to know is their parents journey before and after they met each other, and how people around them made a contribution to it, because it is from parents experiences that children learn.

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