Originally posted by: aparnauma
The relationship which came with her marriage to Jagya ended the day Jagya brought in Gauri to BH.
The relationship between Singhs and Anandi had become independent of her marital status with Jagya.Jagya has no rights to question Dsa or his parents in this matter. If they wish to treat his discarded wife as their own daughter he is no one to question them.
Bold 1 not true
Anandi continued to be Jagya's wife till she was not forced to divorce from Jagya by Dadisaa and we all know how much she cried in court when Jagya was signing the papers and court announced they are divorced and singhs also did not finish off the relation before because they were praying for the day Jagya breaks up with Gauri and return to Anandi so even when Jagya married Gauri Anandi stayed as Bahu of BH till the divorce
@Bold 2 does Jagya even question? No he does not and he also says he is no one to interfere in this or question this because whatever Anandi shares with his parents or Dadisaa is not related to him When Anandi was requesting him to convince Dadisaa to let her stay somewhere else He told her to herself talk to Dadisaa The matter is between him and Dadisaa He cannot say anything in this
Jagya has never interfered in Anandi's matters or her kids matters He says no right to do this How Anandi raises her kids , what she tells her kids he does not lecture her
His own child developed a misunderstanding for his father because he could not understand why his father only asks him to behave , even strictly but does not do same with shivam Abhi could not understand this why Jagya does not do this with shivam . Jagya did not scolded or lectured shivam because he left it for Anandi He is Anandi's son Anandi should correct him
Even right now Jagya did not lecture Anandi what she should tell shivam and tell Nimboli . He gave Anandi her space to deal with his kids in his own way
Jagya truly stays in his limits in Anandi's merits and have never crossed that . For Jagya Anandi is staying in BH because of Dadisaa and he has no issues in that He neither lectured Anandi to stay in the house neither asked her to go away He loves and cares for Anandi's kids like a kindhearted noble person and wishes best for them but never stepped in Anandu's arena for making decisions for her kids
but may i ask you something You are emphasizing a lot Jagya is no one to question Anandi's relation with Dadisaa and his parents because that is beyond him and the truth is he does not even do that but you are pretty active to defend Anandi when people question who is to speak so much in Jagya's matters ? who is to lecture him on matters relating his wife and kids ? who was she to alone take decision for Mannu he should meet with Ratan and at home was lecturing Jagya and Ganga on it ?when Ganga questioned her with what right she took this decision alone without asking them you are bashing Ganga and saying who is Ganga to question Anandi she did not think about them while making promise to Ratan she will make him meet with Mannu My question is who was Anandi to give promise to Ratan about JaGan's kid without asking Jagya and Ganga ? who was she to lecture them on it ?who was she to announce in front of Jagya and Ganga to Mannu she will him married to pooja when he grows up ?when Ganga questioned Anandi on it why she did this ? Anandi replied don't you want Mannu's happiness Do Anandi think she cares about Mannu's happiness more than his mother ?who is Anandi to lecture Jagya and Ganga about their matters , their kids matters , comment on their upbringing ?Dadisaa does that she has right because she Jagya's grandmother i but Dadisaa does not do that as much as Anandi does ? and when people question Anandi should stay in her limits and stop interfering in Jagya's matters She is no one to do that then you defend her and Jagya suddenly becomes her family ( don't know with what relation ) other than that he is no one ?Anandi is also no one to interfere so much in Jagya and Ganga's matters
Helping a friend in need ike Jagya is doing is for Anandi now is different from unnecessarily interfering in others matters what Anandi does in Jagya's personal matters relating his wife and kids .
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