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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#51

ONly in India parents have to take care of their kids education until they get employed. In developed countries, kids finance their own education by working while studying. Even if their parents are billionaires.

Anandi might have invested part of Shiv's money. Just as some are assuming that she is spending all the money, one can assume that she might have invested some for her kids.

When CVs are not showing how anandi is maintaining a certain lifestyle, one cant assume either way.
She must be getting some salary for teaching karate. As a trustee for SN, she maybe entitled for her field trips and petrol expenses.

Here CVs are not interested about the financial aspects of their lead but about her story. We have to assume either way according to whether we want to support anandi or not. Just the way Ganga's education was assumed by Ganga's supporters and others.

We know dadisa is rich but what have we seen about the nitty gritties. How did they construct that hospital with all the facilities? How dadisa is able to buy so much gold? Same with Shekhars. Sanchi had her own car and spent laveshly on clothes and other things. IAS officer's salary is not that much to afford all those things. Maybe her father's earnings. But how much did he earn? If KB is daddu's property, what about Mahi's and Sanchi's share in it?

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#52

Anandi getting salary from SN? Then who is funding SN?

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: SPuja
Anandi getting salary from SN? Then who is funding SN?

Maybe grants from the government and some rich philanthropists like dadisa and Jagya and even the shekhars apart from others. If one can assume only negative things, one can assume even positive things.

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 9 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Maybe grants from the government and some rich philanthropists like dadisa and Jagya and even the shekhars apart from others. If one can assume only negative things, one can assume even positive things.

I didn't assume any negative things here. But if SN was established by Anandi and people say she's everything - owner, principal etc and Sarita is her employee etc. then how can SN pay salary to Anandi? And the girls also from weaker section except Nidhi.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#55

The property in Udaipur Khazan Singh's own property plus what Shiv had left for her are not so meagre.

It is quite logical to assume that she as an educated person has made investments and is living off those investments.

Anandi knows and understands the need for financial security and financial independence for a woman and that is precisely why Bhaili was born.

So it is quite logical to assume that she manages her finances well.One doesn't need to be undying fan of Anandi or supporters of CVs to come to this conclusion.

Neither Bhaili was run with Shekhars money nor SN is being run with Singhs money

For that matter there is no logical explanation for the lavish life style of Singhs either

The hospital built by Dsa for her grand son where did she raise that much money for it?

The hospital seem to be serving the rural folks from Jaitsar and surrounding villages and not some rich people.So the income generated by the hospital can't be enough to support Singhs life style and with this kind of life style if they are the sole supporters of SN then Singhs must be filthy rich in fact as rich as those businesses corporate houses.If so we have not seen their business enterprises other than that godown.

CVs wanted the focus to be on the social evils and their lead to focus on these issues and through out the show they have shown while working for women's causes like education she got herself educated while fighting for women's place in society she took up sarpanchship when it was offered to her while working for women in Bhaili she learnt how to manage money while sticking to her ethics.

Anandi's relationships dominated and determined her personal life.

What Anandi made our of her life doesn't really require a whole lot of family money.

She studied from home that means no college expenses.Many middle class lower middle class girls get higher education this way.

She only wanted to be a teacher like her teacherji this ambition doesn't require money either.

The respect she earned in the society she lives in is because of what she does for the society even if it is as a beendini of Haweli beti of Haweli or IAS officer's wife.

It is not the position in rich families that brought her an identity.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
ONly in India parents have to take care of their kids education until they get employed. In developed countries, kids finance their own education by working while studying. Even if their parents are billionaires.

Anandi might have invested part of Shiv's money. Just as some are assuming that she is spending all the money, one can assume that she might have invested some for her kids.

When CVs are not showing how anandi is maintaining a certain lifestyle, one cant assume either way.
She must be getting some salary for teaching karate. As a trustee for SN, she maybe entitled for her field trips and petrol expenses.

Here CVs are not interested about the financial aspects of their lead but about her story. We have to assume either way according to whether we want to support anandi or not. Just the way Ganga's education was assumed by Ganga's supporters and others.

We know dadisa is rich but what have we seen about the nitty gritties. How did they construct that hospital with all the facilities? How dadisa is able to buy so much gold? Same with Shekhars. Sanchi had her own car and spent laveshly on clothes and other things. IAS officer's salary is not that much to afford all those things. Maybe her father's earnings. But how much did he earn? If KB is daddu's property, what about Mahi's and Sanchi's share in it?

Sorry but you are still missing the integral point. Which is Anandi's growth and ability to live independently because of the circumstances she is in.

Anandi is the supposed 'face of change'. Through Anandi, CVs are propagating the wise and idealistic ways of living life.

So standing up on one's feet financially is also a very important aspect of living .

To top it, Anandi is also a Single mother. How she runs her life emotionally as well as financially FORMS her story. And that is what becomes inspiration

The story that they are showing that a woman goes back to her ex-husband's house will never ever happen in reality. It is far fetched to be even termed as creative liberty, for a show that propagates to give 'gyan'

It is far fetched from women empowerment too. Women empowerment is not just limited to keep one's problems within themselves. It is much much more.

If Cvs can show nitty gritties of MNA traingle and all the rest, they can easily tell how Anandi manages her fund or she built her life post Shiv

If it is only left to assumption, then I can conclude that Bal Vivah in a rich family is a boon.

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 9 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Missesha

Sorry but you are still missing the integral point. Which is Anandi's growth and ability to live independently because of the circumstances she is in.
Anandi is the supposed 'face of change'. Through Anandi, CVs are propagating the wise and idealistic ways of living life.

So standing up on one's feet financially is also a very important aspect of living .

To top it, Anandi is also a Single mother. How she runs her life emotionally as well as financially FORMS her story. And that is what becomes inspiration

The story that they are showing that a woman goes back to her ex-husband's house will never ever happen in reality. It is far fetched to be even termed as creative liberty, for a show that propagates to give 'gyan'

It is far fetched from women empowerment too. Women empowerment is not just limited to keep one's problems within themselves. It is much much more.

If Cvs can show nitty gritties of MNA traingle and all the rest, they can easily tell how Anandi manages her fund or she built her life post Shiv

If it is only left to assumption, then I can conclude that Bal Vivah in a rich family is a boon.

I am not missing anything. You may think about anandi's growth in your own way and I may think her growth or whatever in my own way. for that matter anandi need not grow because she is not doing something to grow like some career oriented woman. She is doing something to give a helping hand and thinking of others more than herself and her so called growth. Which she is doing long time back.
And I read about some NRI's leaving their lucrative careers to pursue some simple lifestyle in villages helping the farners. And I read about some social workers who misuse the funds they get and grow.
One may see growth in materialistic terms and its their prerogative.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 9 years ago

#58

Anandi had only one goal in life that is to bring about change in the society that she lives in.

That started way back when she was a child.At that time she wanted to be teacher because she saw her trying to make a difference with her actions and also because how education opens windows to a wider world.

Then while teaching the villagers she educated herself and got a bigger platform to do what she wanted to do as a sarpanch.

Then in Udaipur she found her calling through Chanda's bastI women and there are also her intentions were the same as they were in Jaitser she wanted to help people change their life only this time instead of education the focus was on financial independence.

Now she is back in Jaitser she is again doing what she wanted to do.

It cannot be said that she had no goals or didn't build teams

Initially it was Phooli and Gulli in Udaipur Chanda and co now she has Sarita and Dsa. They carry on work in her absence because they embraced her ideas for working towards change in society.

Women may not go back to their ex's home but they will go there if that home belongs to their grandmothers.

It is simple if Dsa had not been there the question of Anandi staying in Jagya's house wouldn't have come up.

Daddu discussed with Dsa because he wanted his grand daughter in law to live with her grand mother.

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Missesha

@Missesha

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#59

By growth, I meant growth in Character and her thought process, and not just career growth.

I am working woman and I know what it takes to get promotions or salary rise in the organisation.

Lot of women I know run small scale businesses so that they can earn while operating from home or by running small shops, it takes them minimum 4-5 years even to get noticed substantially, let alone having a sky rocketing success, like Bhaili did in 1.5 years.

And many such examples, where people have worked really really hard to achieve the success they did. Too much of focus, discipline, smart work, networking and managing the nitty gritties is required to get some success, luxury and pleasure.

Anyways, may be all those people I know were not as lucky as Anandi to keep serving chai nashta at home, yet attain sky-rocketing success for both Bhaili and SN as propagated in the show.